I'm 46, I have a (half) sister who is - easily bothered- she's 25. I just found our dad was a closeted homosexual. Do I tell her?
My mom and dad divorced when I was 12, in the 80s. He's been dead since 2019. Talking to my mom today. In a random conversation today, I say "I think dad was a closeted homosexual" she pauses and makes me tell her why. I list a few reasons. Edit to say he was loud about homophobia.
She pauses, like I can tell she's not sure if she should tell me. "He did have a relationship before me, with a boy as a teen" I say something like "teens experiment" She pauses again. Well- remember when he went to grandpas funeral, (I was 10) he slept with a man on that day, too. They divorced 2 years later.
I'm 46- she told me hours ago because i brought it up. In my heart, I know she's not lying.
Should I tell my younger half sibling- (different moms) She's a lesbian and has a lot of mental issues- depression anxiety etc.
Edit to say - He condemned her for her "choices".
Do I tell her or stay quiet?
Was my mom wrong for saying anything?
For the record- my mom and son are both homosexual and I don't have enough time to brag on them, (nurse practitioner mom, Ivy League educated son) I love all good people.
I hesitated to post this. But I'm curious about others opinion