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glagol dojiti

zašto mame govore "Beba doji" za vreme koje beba jede. Zar nije mama ta koja doji, a beba "se doji"? Ili kad se pita šta beba jede misleći na dohranu ili majčino mleko, mame kažu samo "doji". Ili " beba dok doji je mirna". Da li je gramatički ispravno da "beba doji"?

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u/delfinjoca — 1 day ago
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MIL vent

She always always always defends my husband. He is a good person and trying to be a good dad but he can sleep so hard that no one can wake him up. I got people lifting his upper body and shaking him, and he was still sleeping. I once left a crying baby next to his head while he was sleeping and he didn't know. Today my MIL asked if he is helping me, and I said that he is sleeping for past 10 hours, and she said "great, so you don't have to deal with him, you can focus on baby" DUDE. Wtf. I am scared of leaving the baby with him as he wont hear it, and baby will be hungry. I feel like I am 100% responsible even though he is stay at home dad, and I will be returning to job soon. I love my husband, and unlike him, I barely sleep since I gave birth as I am always prepared to help my baby. I am beyond exhaused and MIL still 1) doesn't offer any help and 2) thinks my husbands long sleeps are great for me.

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u/delfinjoca — 3 days ago
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why am i watching photos of my baby after spending 24/7 with him

I finally have time to sleep. My baby is sleeping after a long day of crying! However, my exhausted body decides to watch all photos in my phone since he was born. And I am enjoying it. Why can't i just stop thinking about him. My brain needs to see his photos. How do I stop being so obsessed. And most importantly why is my husband capable of sleeping when having this opportunity and why am I spending this precious time by watching photos I have seen million times already. This is not a one time ocasion this is every time I am not interacting with my baby and having a "free" time between breastfeeding.

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u/delfinjoca — 12 days ago

učestvovanje bebe u naučnim istraživanjima

mame, da li znate neke naučnike u Srbiji ili regionu kojima su potrebni podaci o razvoju deteta? Volela bih da moja beba učestvuje u nekakvom istraživanju i bilo bi mi zanimljivo da pratim i zapisujem bebino ponašanje, napredovanje, ili šta god da se istražuje. Pitala sam jednu lingvistkinju koja mi je ukazala na istraživanja razvoja govora u inostranstvu ali nije čula da se tako nešto sprovodi u Srbiji. Ako imate neke predloge ili poznajete naučnike, pišite. Pošto sam i sama naučnik, ali u potpuno drugoj oblasti, znam koliko je teško doći do podataka, pa mi je ideja da pomognem nekome kome trebaju podaci za statistiku.

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u/delfinjoca — 13 days ago

feeling bad after family visiting my baby

Hello. My baby is 38 days old. He has iritated skin all over his body. I visited 5 doctors and no one could tell me how to treat it. Today 6 members of my family came to visit. My 14 yo niece straight up told me "why is his skin like that? " when she first saw him. I wanted that moment to be special but in reality it broke my heart. I know my baby doesnt look like normal baby but he deserves love. He smiles often and he is my absolute treasure. I am maybe too sensitive but this really hurt me. Other family members also commented this and added they can't wait for him to grow up to "be more fun". To me every move and sound he makes are so funny and cute, but I am the only one seeing it. I thought all of them would fall in love when they see him, but I was wrong. I truly feel like this visit should have never happened. This makes me want to keep my baby only to myself and never show him to anybody. Why do people judge 38 days old baby by his looks? I feel miserable, if somebody ofended me I wouldnt care, but saying bad things about my baby son makes me cry.

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u/delfinjoca — 28 days ago

temenjača i Mustela

mame, beba mi je dobila temenjaču pre tri dana. Peremo kosu Mustela penom protiv temenjače. Kada mogu da očekujem da će temenjača nestati? Pedijatar kaže do 2 meseca da je normalno da traje 🥲

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u/delfinjoca — 1 month ago

Is my milk different if I cry when breastfeeding?

I sometimes cry when I breastfeed and I wonder is this changing the milk I produce? Is my baby getting the same milk as when I dont cry?

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u/delfinjoca — 2 months ago

I dont know if this is sign of ppd. I am mom of an 4 day old baby. I sleep maybe 5 times per day about one hour each session. Everytime I sleep I have a dream of my death in different way (always violent). I just know I will dream about it again and I am not looking forward to sleeping. Can someone tell me whats going on with my brain?

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u/delfinjoca — 2 months ago

Today I got to see my boy. I lost mucus plug yesterday 5 AM, and I was terrified (39+5). Contractions started yesterday evening every one hour. I managed to be 20 hours with contractions AT HOME with my husband, who was massaging my lower back. I called my father to tell him I have 4 min break between 1 min contractions and he said most wonderfull advice: soon you will not be able to walk. Go while you can. My husband was driving one hour to hospital, left me there and as soon as I walked in my water broke at 17:15. I was 7 fingers open and they put me on operating table. I pushed 2 times and it felt like my body is toring apart. Suddenly I felt something slipery exited my body at 19:00 and they put my kid on my chest. From car to kid in 1:45 min. I am so shocked. I skipped all the procedures because of how open I was.

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u/delfinjoca — 2 months ago