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Weekend Party

Hi peeps, anyone na nasa La Union this Saturday (Aug. 22)? We'll be there 22-26.

Mag babar hop or what. Two lang kami ng friend ko, 26F, 25M.

Thank you!

Hi peeps, anyone na nasa La Union this Saturday (Aug. 22)? We'll be there 22-26.

Mag babar hop or what. Two lang kami ng friend ko, 26F, 25M.

Thank you!

Hi! It's been a year and 2 months post break up and I can really feel Niki's "The Apartment we won't share".

Been together for 8 years, he cheated, the girl knew about me, and now they have a daughter. I know soon they'll get married.

And here I am still bruised, but I have accepted things already. But sometimes just like today, I'm thinking who'll I be with for all the plans I have made for 8 years. Who'll jam with me with the upcoming Post Malone's album, who'll chat with me when they hear Taylor Swift on the radio saying "it reminded me of you", to whom will I say that I'm getting my first tatto on a beach trip this weekend and many more yearning battles.

It's just that, I pity myself sometimes but I don't want to be seen as a victim that can't move on. Dyed my hair, went hiking, went to beach trips, hitting the gym, dating apps (which I only install when I'm bored but I don't communicate just judge men there - please don't cancel me about this. Judging them by determining what I don't want and what I want in a man ngayon for future purposes like spotting red flags)

I feel like all the hobbies on Earth will be done by me, I went for yoga last week, now I'm into embroidery and thinking of painting soon. But it's exhausting rin, especially for me who is a yearner, empathetic, and or kindhearted. I'm an hyper independent girly, but now I'm learning to rest, embrace femininity (but how, if less masculine na iba sa mga lalake or kung hindi ay fragile na masculinity nila), I'm a black person din but slowly having colors na on my things and clothes.

I don't even care if they get married or what, it's just that I'm in a sad time wherein I was thinking that sana I have someone too.

I'm 28, my parents have been asking me if when I will get married and friends cannot believe that I don't have someone na nanliligaw, ka MU, or Talking stage kasi as in wala. Basta I'm still enjoying being single, but sometimes I still miss the feeling you have your own person.

Thank you stranger, if you came all the way here.

Hello LU peeps, may I ask for any Tattoo shops/artist reco? With in Urbiz, SJ or SFC po. Thank you. Please also include if you have knowledge about their rates.

Gusto ko po sana local artists tas di sikat sa socmed parang ganun po. Sana gets huhu

Agyamanak Apo!

Hi Filipino Men!

The man I'm talking to now is unemployed in a sense that he just resigned at work for a month now and using his savings for daily gastusin. He also has a small business where he roll money religiously and he really separates it from his personal money.

The thing is, he told me he will ask me out for dinner if he has a new job (currently applying).

My question is, will it hurt his ego or pride if I ask him out on his birthday? To celebrate only because I think he deserves it as his friends are very far and his fam don't celebrate his birthday.

Thank you in advance!

Problem/Goal:

I (27F) have a talking stage (28M) and I feel that we vibe and nasa kaniya na rin gusto kong personality ng lalake at mindset na rin but his finances are not in good shape today like savings niya gamit niya as he resigned last month. I really wanted to know him more or ask him out kasi he honestly told me he can't visit me or ask me out muna as he doesn't have a job yet. (He's actively applying na) He has little business where he gets his daily gastusin too. His bday is fast approaching and I want to make it special sana.

My problem is that, is it okay if I ask him out even if I'll be the one to pay?

Would it hurt his ego or what?

Attempt: I asked what are his plans for his birthday pero he said wala pa or wala daw sigurong ganap.

Thank you!