u/extrasliceofcake

Hi. I wanted to share something important. 2 months ago a guy sent me a request on Instagram. His name is Sourabh Kumar. Idk if I am allowed to share his ID here. He was my senior so I replied to him. He targets girls from Mangalore/Bangalore, mostly tulu speaking girls and bangalore girls too. I found the truth when he texted my best friend while he was texting me. I reached out randomly to other girls he was following and saved 10+ girls from him.

He pretends to be a gentleman, texts decently at first, asks the girls to meet him and then manipulates them by telling he has feelings for them and he wants to marry them in the future. He changes his surname based on the girl he is talking to. He was maintaining at least 10 relationships at the same time. I tried to reach out to as many girls as possible until he found out about what I was doing and blocked me 2 days ago. He is still lying to those girls and telling them not to believe me. They are scared as he has met them and has their address and numbers

I have collected all proof against him including screenshots, audio, videos. He is a singer, gym guy and a CA working in Bangalore. Just wanted to share this here to help other girls in case he contacts you or any of your friends in mangalore and bangalore. Always trust your intuition ladies. I knew something was off about him but I wanted to get to the bottom of it and I'm glad I helped at least a few women from him.

Edit - If anyone wants the proof they are free to contact me. I'm only requesting you guys not to confront him. Just warn your female friends. He has anger issues and can harm my life.

Hi. I wanted to share something important. 2 months ago a guy sent me a request on Instagram. His name is Sourabh Kumar. He was my senior so I replied to him. He targets girls from Mangalore/Bangalore, mostly tulu speaking girls and bangalore girls too. I found the truth when he texted my best friend while he was texting me. I reached out randomly to other girls he was following and saved 10+ girls from him.

He pretends to be a gentleman, texts decently at first, asks the girls to meet him and then manipulates them by telling he has feelings for them and he wants to marry them in the future. He changes his surname based on the girl he is talking to. He was maintaining at least 10 relationships at the same time. I tried to reach out to as many girls as possible until he found out about what I was doing and blocked me 2 days ago. He is still lying to those girls and telling them not to believe me. They are scared as he has met them and has their address and numbers

I have collected all proof against him including screenshots, audio, videos. He is a singer, gym guy and a CA working in Bangalore. Just wanted to share this here to help other girls in case he contacts you or any of your friends in mangalore and bangalore. Always trust your intuition ladies. I knew something was off about him but I wanted to get to the bottom of it and I'm glad I helped at least a few women from him.

Edit - If anyone wants the proof they are free to contact me. I'm only requesting you guys not to confront him. Just warn your female friends. He has anger issues and can harm my life.

Hi. I wanted to share something important. 2 months ago a guy sent me a request on Instagram. His name is Sourabh Kumar. Idk if I am allowed to share his ID here. He was my senior so I replied to him. He targets girls from Mangalore/Bangalore, mostly tulu speaking girls and bangalore girls too. I found the truth when he texted my best friend while he was texting me. I reached out randomly to other girls he was following and saved 10+ girls from him.

He pretends to be a gentleman, texts decently at first, asks the girls to meet him and then manipulates them by telling he has feelings for them and he wants to marry them in the future. He changes his surname based on the girl he is talking to. He was maintaining at least 10 relationships at the same time. I tried to reach out to as many girls as possible until he found out about what I was doing and blocked me 2 days ago. He is still lying to those girls and telling them not to believe me. They are scared as he has met them and has their address and numbers

I have collected all proof against him including screenshots, audio, videos. He is a singer, gym guy and a CA working in Bangalore. Just wanted to share this here to help other girls in case he contacts you or any of your friends in mangalore and bangalore. Always trust your intuition ladies. I knew something was off about him but I wanted to get to the bottom of it and I'm glad I helped at least a few women from him.

Edit - If anyone wants the proof they are free to contact me. I'm only requesting you guys not to confront him. Just warn your female friends. He has anger issues and can harm my life.

Hi. I wanted to share something important. 2 months ago a guy sent me a request on Instagram. His name is Sourabh Kumar. Idk if I am allowed to share his ID here. He was my senior so I replied to him. He targets girls from Mangalore/Bangalore, mostly tulu speaking girls and bangalore girls too. I found the truth when he texted my best friend while he was texting me. I reached out randomly to other girls he was following and saved 10+ girls from him.

He pretends to be a gentleman, texts decently at first, asks the girls to meet him and then manipulates them by telling he has feelings for them and he wants to marry them in the future. He changes his surname based on the girl he is talking to. He was maintaining at least 10 relationships at the same time. I tried to reach out to as many girls as possible until he found out about what I was doing and blocked me 2 days ago. He is still lying to those girls and telling them not to believe me. They are scared as he has met them and has their address and numbers

I have collected all proof against him including screenshots, audio, videos. He is a singer, gym guy and a CA working in Bangalore. Just wanted to share this here to help other girls in case he contacts you or any of your friends in mangalore and bangalore. Always trust your intuition ladies. I knew something was off about him but I wanted to get to the bottom of it and I'm glad I helped at least a few women from him.

Edit- As expected people here are blaming the woman.

Previous post - https://www.reddit.com/r/RelationshipIndia/s/EvpwzFmZJJ

After I posted my doubts about his intentions in the sub, I read all your opinions and considered my next step. I could have just stopped talking to him, but I wanted to get to the bottom of this.

I told my friend about him and sent his Insta DP to her. She told me that he sent her a request too long time ago but she didn't accept as she didn't know him. I told her to accept and reply back to him in case he texts. Soon enough he did. She just had a DP in her profile, no posts or highlights. Yet, this guy texted her, " You have a nice simile". Same tactic he used on me. She told thank you. Then he started asking the same questions. She gave one word replies yet this guy didn't give up. He asked for her number and told her that he's going to come to our city soon and he would meet her. Soon his ego got hurt by one of her replies and he unsent the messages from his side and blocked her.

By then, I realized the kind of guy he was. At this stage he was telling me that I'm the only girl he's talking to and has feelings for me. I decided to play with him and expose him.

Plot twist-

As I was scrolling reels, I saw his like on a girl's reel ( public account) posted 3 days ago. I checked her account and saw that she was following him. I texted through my fake account and asked her if he was texting her too. I was shocked when I found out that he was not just texting her but also was about to meet her the night I reached out to her. He was talking to her since 2 weeks and asked her to meet many times before that. But the day they were supposed to meet it was raining so the plan got canceled and I texted her at the same time. Unbelievable. She was the first random girl I texted out of his 800 followers, so I was shocked. She shared her chat screenshots.

After that I started texting some girls randomly and guys, you won't believe it. He was talking to 10+ girls at the same time and even met some of them. I saved at least 10 girls from him. They were traumatized and scared as he knew their number and address. Fortunately for me, he didn't have my number and had a vague idea where I lived. They shared their screenshots and I collected everything as evidence. When these girls blocked him, he started calling them from different numbers.

He claims to be CA working in Bangalore but I don't think he has passed all the exams. He texts multiple girls throughout day and at night he used to text me till 3am. He used to give slow replies to every girl since he was multitasking obviously. By this stage, I was playing with him really well and got personal details. He sent me couple of cringe slow motion videos of him too. He had no idea that I knew the truth.

He was supposed to come to my city by May last week, which got posted to June first week and then 2nd week but got postponed again. I wanted to confront him face to face with the evidence. But in the hindsight I'm glad I couldn't meet him. He started video calling 3 days ago and I realized that he's a sick pervert and any girl who falls into his trap is screwed. He has anger issues and he's a gym guy so he wouldn't think twice about hurting someone.

The end-

Yesterday I texted one of the girls randomly and she told me to reveal my identity. I did it. She promised she wouldn't tell him. Later she realized that he was her soon to be bf's brother. So she started defending her 'Brother in law' and begged me not to expose him. She told it was those girls fault and not his and I stop trying to save them from him. She asked me to block him and move on. She told that she will tell his younger brother to tell him to stop this behavior. As if he would listen. Meanwhile, his brother called him up and told to come home soon from work and raised his voice at him. This playboi told me that he will hurt his brother if he ever dares to raise his voice again. He's that unhinged.

He is a monster in disguise. He just wants to use women physically and emotionally and then waste their time. He claims to love them and promises to marry them because he gets a kick out of tricking women. He is not just a playboi but also a psychopath. When he got to know that someone is warning these girls, he told them to not trust the anonymous girl and she was a jilted lover. He started doubting me but didn't have the guts to confront me so he tried to taunt me indirectly. I didn't flinch. Finally he blocked me. He chases women and then claims that everyone wants him.

I can't believe all the happened to me guys. It was a horrible experience but I'm glad that I was able to save at least 10 girls from him. Please pray for my safety guys. The girls who I saved told me that God will protect me for my good karma. If any of you girls in Bangalore want his details please reach out to me

Tldr- Playboi texted my friend too and I found out the truth. I texted one of the girls randomly who he was following, found out he was playing with her too and was supposed to meet the day I texted her. I went on to text other girls and ended up saving at least 10 girls from him. He was maintaining 10+ relationships. In the end, his brother's soon to be gf found out about me when I texted her and supported him. He got a doubt on me but didn't have the guts to confront me directly and finally blocked me.

One month ago, he sent me a request on Instagram. We had mutual friends and his name seemed familiar. Once I accepted his request and saw his pic, I realized that he was my senior in school. We never spoke to each other back then and he didn't know that I existed. I just knew who he was. Anyway back to the story.... Soon enough he texted me. His first text was - "You have good dressing sense" I politely replied, "Thank you" He later asked my height, where I live, what I do and then went on to compliment me again. Finally he said, "We would look good together " I told him that I'm not looking for anything at the moment. He told me that neither is he, he was just flirting.

The next day, he changed the chat theme to 'Love'. I was taken aback. I told him it's too much and changed the theme to something else. From then on since 1 month, he would text me 'Good morning, good night' everyday, asked me if I ate in the afternoon when he was at work, sings for me through voice notes since he's a good singer.

We're in completely different fields, I'm preparing for an entrance exam and he's working. We grew up in the same city, but now he's working in a metro city and I still live in the same place. He is well built (gym rat) and he gets plenty of female attention in the metro city. When I asked why he didn't find someone there, he told me that he isn't attracted to the women who approach him there and he eventually told that he's attracted to my bodytype and he wants someone from the same hometown.

My issue with him is, our conversations never proceeded more into a more deeper level. He doesn't ask me any personal questions, nor does he share much about his life. Without him asking, I told him about my ex, my family, some stories about my college days.

I also made it a point to tell him that I never had s*x and wasn't willing to have it before marriage so that he understands that s*x is off the table and give him an opportunity to stop pursuing me if his intention was to hook up with me. He calls me sweet, innocent and attractive and says he can't wait to meet me in person. He told he likes me.

I will be traveling to his city after 4-5 months to meet my friends. My question is, why would a guy put efforts to text a girl in a different city when he can get any girl he wants nearby? How can he 'like' me so quickly? I don't feel any emotional connection with him yet. How will I figure out whether he just wants to sleep with me or wants to date me?

Some red flags-

I see his likes on women hate content and red pill posts on Instagram. When I confronted him about it he told that he neither believes in red pill content or modern feminism and is willing to discuss with me about when we meet.

He texts me late at night and replies late but gets impatient if I don't reply quickly. I wonder if he's texting other girls at the same time. When I asked him about it once he told how could I ask him that at this point when we have become close. I'm honestly confused about his intentions with me.

Tldr- Guy who lives a different city texted me on Instagram, showers me with compliments, texts me everyday since 1 month but our conversations don't go to deeper level. I'm wondering if he just wants to hookup or is seriously interested in me.

My mother's sister passed away 4 days ago. Today he asked if I can meet him 2 days later to watch a movie. He's been in a different city since a month. He knows that my aunt has passed away and I'm supposed to deliver a speech in her funeral ceremony in 3 days.

Here's how the conversation went:

Him: Do let me know if free.

We can maybe go watch michael the movie.

Me: In your house would they let you do that if you were in my position

Him: oh shit..mb I forgot. Sorry

Me: okay

Him: you could have put it in a better way you know.

didnt have to sound so mean

Me: There is no other way to say that

Him: sure.nvm I wont meet you

Me: How many times did i tell you. About it.

Him: later 10 th to 12th also i'll be town, wont disturb you that time either.

Me: My mother's own sister passed away man.

It's not something my boyfriend should forget. I have been literally telling you that I have to speak in her funeral

Him: I forgot abt the funeral date is what I meant

Me: It's just been few days onlylt's rude of me to go watch a movie when my mother is mourning

Him: Yep mb sorry for the oversight

AITK for the way I responded?