u/flawed_volvid

Hi all 22M

So i have an ongoing on and off issue in my family with a toxic parent and therefore have been saving up to move out eventually.

Recently, the landlord called saying he wants to sell the house and we have around 6 months to either move out or pay the mortgage on the house.

I just finished university and work part time and my parents are pestering me to first cough up 10k to help with the mortgage and after I told them I dont have that sort of funds, their next solution is to get the mortgage in my name.

I know this will put me in debt and in a bad position and wont allow me to move out or get a home of my own in the future.

I just dont know how to overcome this situation.

Any advice helps.

Just starting to get into collecting and want my cards to be in pristine condition if I decide to sell/trade later down the line, what type of binder would you reccomend as I also want the presentation to be nice

Thank you

hi all, 22M living in a south asian family in the uk. I'll try keep this short although this spans to my early childhood. Since my early teenage years my mother has been toying with my mental health. Every week or so she has a tantrum wether its about something around the house, my siblings etc, and it always comes back to me and as its been going for about a decade these words have taken a really big mental hit on me even though i know myself theyre not true and its just words it just raises my anxiety through the roof. she has episodes where she'll hate me and call me everything under the sun and then a few days later everythings fine and she talks to me normal but during times of argument i usually stay silent as if i say anything nothing goes through and usually ends up making things worse.

since 2 years ago whenever situations like this occur i tend to give her the silent treatment but i always end up breaking it because it just eats me up inside. during the periods of silence she would use methods like being very nice to my younger brothers to kind of make me jealous and although i know what she's trying to do, it still gets me. one main argument/point of debate ive had with her for a long time is me going out. I've never gotten into any trouble, done any drugs or anything of that sort and never stay out past 10 or 11pm but if i go out sometimes maybe twice in a row or just once in a day randomly, she'd go insane. I know im 22 and im aware im an adult but i feel like theres an invisible rope holding me back everytime i go out and whenever i do, im always anxious thinking about coming back home and what the situation will be so i cant really enjoy my time out.

for the last few years i was able to stay out more often due to having university and using that as an exuse for staying out most days but i have come to the end of my studies and im just really anxious about whats ahead. I know an option is moving out but im not ready to deal with that whole drama and im very stingy with my money and it will cause me more stress to have my savings slowly depleting due to renting a new place. its embarassing as someone my age just wanting freedom to go out whenever and no stress. My only option is just leave the house on my own accord and not say anything but theres just this anxiety eating me up inside whenever i think about it.

I tried to say whatevers on my mind as of now; obivously there is a whole lot more to this but i just want some advice or guidance on what to do moving forward or if anyone has experienced or is experiencing anything similar, i would love for you to reach out to me and talk.

On my old phone about 2 years ago I had an account that got banned and I tried to make a new account on it and that also got banned leading me to believe I was hardware banned. However, I've recently got a new phone, I was wondering, even though I transferred all data from my old phone - would i be able to open up a new account without getting banned if I use new details or will I still get banned?

Currently drive a 1.2 2010 Jazz and it's on 114k mileage as of now

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Looking for something new, my wants are:

Good boot space

Reliable

Economical

Spacious

4000-6000 range

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Was looking at skoda yeti or honda civic mk9

Hi all

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Im very familiar with yugioh tcg (a bit of a newb with pendulum though) and was an avid duel links player.

Need help finding what decks to get into as a beginner in master duel as I don't want to waste my gems

My s23 has lasted me a good 3 years and I have the 128gb model so at this point in time im always running out of storage and barely have anymore apps to delete or photos as its just all my essential ones left. Apart from the storage and battery life this phone has been perfect.

Im thinking of buying a s23 with higher storage capacity and maybe selling my current one. Howver I would like to know if you have any other reccomendationa