u/fleursvenus

Suave activewear apology

Did anybody else see that bland emotionless apology re filming someone at the gym and making a mockery of them? Like im actually so upset and angry that an active wear brand can publicly shame someone for having a red hot go at the gym. Absolute feral scum behaviour.

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u/fleursvenus — 17 hours ago
▲ 36 r/Wegovy

Hii not sure if this has happened to anyone else… but I honestly think I’ve given myself an eating disorder from wegovy. I’m obsessed with weighing myself and love seeing the numbers go down fast. I’m addicted to hearing comments about how good I’m looking and people asking me what I’ve done. I also actively am choosing not to eat because I know the numbers will go down more. I understand this is reallllllllly unhealthy and I’m holding myself accountable and giving myself a really big talking to and am trying to eat smaller meals more than once a day. I love looking in the mirror and seeing how small I’ve gotten and feeling my hip and collar bones stick out and my pants fall off my waist. I love wegovy but I didn’t think this mindset would happen. Has this happened to anyone else?

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u/fleursvenus — 26 days ago
▲ 2.8k r/IndiaSexualHealth+1 crossposts

Hi, I got back from India 3 1/2 months ago and I thought I was okay but I’m really struggling with it now. I was at the Taj Mahal sightseeing. It was super crowded and someone pressed themselves against me and put their hands up my dress and into my underwear. Instead of yelling and screaming I froze and let it happen. I was travelling with my mum but she wasn’t by me at the time it happened. When I told her afterwards she brushed it off and said well there’s nothing we can do about it … we’re in India what did you expect? So I put it aside but there’s just this lingering gross feeling that I should have known better and that I deserved that to happen. I didn’t even get to see exactly who it was or their gender. I feel sick and I still feel dirty from it all. It saddens me because I made such an effort to travel to the other side of the world. I feel very disheartened.

EDIT: I’ve read most if not all of the replies here. Thank you for all your kind words. I didn’t know a space in the internet like this would help. Also it is a really big struggle to recommend people to visit India, whilst it was only one person the stories posted here are highlighting how dangerous that country is for a woman to travel. Whilst I love seeing the world and sharing new experiences I value my safety and my body first. It’s crazy to read people blaming me… and saying comments like “why didn’t you do anything?” No one knows how their body is going to respond in the time. I’m also a lover and not a fighter, in a foreign holy place it didn’t seem right to attack. Thank you to everyone for sharing their stories and whilst I wish I could respond to all of you individually it’s a lot to process as I’m processing my own trauma. I appreciate all the love I really wish I could give you all the responses you deserve. I need a few days to get through this. X

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u/Last-Salary-6012 — 22 days ago