My kids have the option of joining sea vs land vs air and they are both unsure which to choose. There is space in all 3. Ages 7 and 11 years old, both boys. I can only sign up for one.
My dad is the emotionally neglectful parent and I feel like I might be also. How do I stop the generational trauma so I don’t pass it on to my kids (ages 2,6,10 years old)? How do I start to heal?
My dad knows knowing about my life. Just the bare minimum. I only see him because he lives with my mom otherwise we would have no relationship. So many examples of him not caring about me or bothering to get to know me. He’s very surface level with his relationships. How do I move forward?
I have been looking to a new kdrama and this so far has been amazing but I have never seen it recommended or mentioned. Came across it by accident on Netflix but it’s been really good so far! What do others think of it?
I am up to episode 4 and first time seeing this ML. Wasn’t going to watch as it seemed too violent but it’s really good so far but oh dear me! The ML is fine and I have a major crush on him! Anyone else?
Hi all, as the post title says! I prefer so that they are in English so I don’t have to read subtitles but if it’s a good drama then I don’t mind if it’s only in Korean!
Hi all, my 2 year old fractured his tooth and had to get it extracted. Root is still left behind. One week later, he still says it hurts to eat and is barely eating soft food. Dentist says it’s the trauma and his gums are still healing. Anyone experienced this? I’m unsure if I take him to another dentist or to the ER about this.
Hi all! I (female) have wanted to leave my partner (male) so many times but finances and children stop me! I want to get my ducks in a row and so far have done the following:
-opened up own bank account where my salary goes in and I am currently splitting all bills 50/50
-got advice on our property and found out I couldn’t afford to buy him out so he would need to buy out my share or we sale our home. Got given an amount that is my limit of what I can borrow from the bank to buy a property with my share.
-looked at properties to see what I can afford with my half and bank loan and I can’t afford to buy a new place, even 2 bedroom. I have 3 young kids but even a 2 bedroom is better then nothing as it’s stable and a roof over our head and I wish I could buy vs renting as house prices and rentals have only doubled in the last 10 years in my country.
-looking at rentals right now and it’s 60-70% of my salary
-seen a lawyer for legal advice and have a starting point
I just feel so stuck and overwhelmed and finances are a BIG issue. I am a senior in my role and there is no way for my salary to go up anymore even if i change companies. Do I look at retraining?
I don’t want to just keeping putting up with him. He does 0% of house work, cooking, parenting or cleaning. I have stopped doing his laundry and only cook for me and the kids. He will eat what is left over from dinner or buy takeaways. He doenst do his own dishes so I end up doing them. Please help!
How do you decide to leave or stay? I’m sick of this dealing with this and nothing changing. I have young kids and can’t financially make it alone. I have wanted to leave him so many times but now I can’t trust him anymore. I’m so hurt from all the broken promises. I’m so hurt right now!
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Hi parents. My son is 11 and his trigger is others singing. At home it is daily fights with his younger brother who is 7. 7 year old will sing and 11 year old gets angry and screams at him to stop. Rarely he wil ask nicely for him to stop. Majority of the time he yells rudely to be quiet or stop. 7 year old will stop and forget so then 15-30 mins later sing again and 11 year old gets more angry and this just escalates repeatedly until 11 year old hits or punches his 7 year old brother. The 7 year old loves music and singing so this is difficult for him. I have spoken multiple times about why he needs to sing his head and how singing hurts his brother. I have tried getting 7 year old to sing in a low voice In a separate room and the 11 year old can still hear it. Tried head phones and it didn’t make a difference. I’m so burnt out and hate the dynamic in our family. 11 year old constantly yelling and irritable and unhappy. 7 year old constantly being told to stop and getting yelled at by his brother and physically attacked. 7 year old now sings to annoy his brother. I am trying to balance something that is impossible and neither kid is happy. Would love some advice