You are a 25 year old Mexican male, with no gf, no job, no loving parents, and you choose to cope with it by watching cartoons meant for Dutch girls.
Women are not attracted to men at all. Women are “bisexual” in a sense that we are naturally attracted to other women romantically and sexually, while our attraction to men is primarily reproductive. A woman can go her entire life without having a man in her life and be perfectly fulfilled, whereas men seem to deteriorate emotionally if they go a month without female attention. Just look at lonely men and how deeply they spiral into depression if they don't have any women friends. Women, on the other hand, are perfectly fine.
This isn't even necessarily anyone's fault. It's simply biology.
Sex between men and women lacks the same fundamental romantic component that exists between women. When a woman and a man have sex, they're not really expressing love toward one another. They're essentially entering into a reproductive transaction. This would also explain why so many ancient societies and religious traditions treated heterosexual sex primarily as something connected to reproduction, marriage, and producing children. They didn't care about how it was romantic or what not since they knew the truth from the beginning.
Just look at other mammals. In many species, males spend much of their time alone or in male groups, while females remain together with other females and raise offspring collectively. Why would humans be fundamentally different? Women naturally bond with women. We understand each other, live together, socialize together, and can provide emotional and sexual fulfillment to one another. Men, on the other hand, are primarily useful to women as reproductive partners.
Like I said before, this isn't anyone's fault. We are just wired differently from men. Yes, I agree that it is shallow of us for choosing only the 1% of good looking men to date or choosing to only date a guy because he's rich. But in our defense we're simply doing that because we're looking for suitable mating partners. After all, we're literally going against our natural biology (natural lesbianism) just so we can find perfect mating partners. We want a partner who's good looking and physically able because so our children are also good looking and fit. But if the father isn't good looking then we want a man who's at least rich so he can take care of the baby. And yes, sometimes even that isn't enough. A man can be tall, handsome, kind, wealthy, feminist, emotionally intelligent and literally perfect on paper, but if he is bisexual, many women will immediately lose interest. It doesn't matter whether he has ever actually slept with another man. The mere fact that he is capable of being attracted to men is enough to make us ick.
Again, this isn't anyone's fault. This isn't the fault of men or women. But don't worry. The future isn't completely hopeless for you. As AI technology develops, you may eventually be able to have an artificial woman who provides companionship, affection and conversation without requiring an actual woman to be attracted to you. And maybe you'll be able to create children with her.
Honestly, considering the current trajectory of technology, we're probably already halfway there.
Ratko Mladić was a war criminal who killed thousands of innocent Bosniaks during the war. According to the Bible and the 10 commandments, he committed the sin of murder. Someone like him should not be praised or celebrated. Yet the orthodox Christians of serbia have gathered today to protest the lgbt pride parade while they carry a flag with Ratko's face on it. They're fine with genocide. They're fine with bosniak women being raped by serbian soldiers. They're fine with spreading nationalism and hatred among balkan people. But they draw the line at two men kissing or two women kissing.
They're out here showing themselves off as "family men" because they're Christians, but I just know for a fact that they regularly antagonize their wives and possibly even beat them. Children as well, most serbian men beat their children regularly.
I often see religious people, Jews, Christians, and Muslims, say that you don't need to follow God because if you're good, you'll still get into Heaven. Now, this sounds good on paper, but when you think deeper into you, you start to realize that everyone has different definitions of good.
For example, take the trans debate. Person A believes that trans women are real women because gender is a social construct and because trans women live similar lives to cis women. Person A believes that trans women are sisters to cis women and that the two groups share a lot in common when it comes to sexism and misogyny. This person thinks that including trans women in women's spaces is the most moral thing one can do. But Person B disagrees with Person A. Person B thinks that gender is not a social construct and that simply identifying as a woman and saying that you are one does not count if you weren't born as one. Person B does not view trans women as sisters or allies to cis women. They view trans women as invaders and even a threat to cis women. To them, keeping anyone out of women's spaces who's not a cis woman is the most moral thing one can do. Both of them think what they're doing is right and moral, but which one of them will go to Heaven?
Of course, simply having opinions won't deny someone access to Heaven, but what you believe can alter the way you interact with others. Person B might, over time, become more bitter towards trans women to the point where they become transphobic. To them, being transphobic isn't bad because they're still fighting enemies who go against their moral cause. Person B might start seeing every trans woman as a sexual predator even if they meet one who was a victim of sexual assault. They might even try to physically harm a trans woman if she's in the women bathroom.
On the other hand, Person A might become so devoted to their moral cause of defending trans women that they become misogynistic and a lunatic. They might start calling any cis woman who feels unsure about trans women a bitch, slut, or even a whore. They'll start believing in insane ideas like how not dating trans people is bigoted. They might even defend trans predators because they're so devotes to their cause.
So who's really the good person here?
I grew up as orthodox christian, but at age 14, I dropped it and adopted the atheist identity. Even when I identified as a christian, I did that not because I had a genuine connection with God or because I loved him. The only reason why I believed in God was because I was scared of him and thought believing in him would make him less mad. Although this fear of God could just be because I was literally scared of everything as a child. But still, even then, my faith in God was never real, so becoming an atheist was easy. However, becoming atheist did not make me hate every Abrahamic or spiritual religion. I was very interested in learning about different religions. Of course, not every religion because back then and still now I had a very tight schedule and very little free time. So, I only learned about things that interested me to the point of hyperfixation.
My first "religion" after leaving Christianity was astrology. Surprisingly, this phase lasted for about 5 to 6 years, and I still believe in some aspects of astrology, like how it can help us better understand ourselves and our flaws. But I no longer believe in astrology. Not because I think it's untrue, but because understanding astrology in its fullest requires someone to have time and energy to do a deep, deep dive into its history and different types of it. As someone who has very limited time, money, and access to professional astrology books, I couldn't keep up, so I dropped it. I was interested in Satanism for a little while, but to me, that's simply just a nothing atheist burger pretending to be something. No offense, Satanists.
For the past year, I've become very interested in learning about judaism and its relationship to Christianity. I loved learning about its history, beliefs, and culture. But while I enjoyed learning about Judaism, it simply was not the answer I was looking for. Besides, I can't make myself believe in any God, so how could I convert to judaism?
Even though I consider myself atheist, I still long for something to be part of spirituality. But I can't find answers because the options which are near and accessible go against my personal beliefs (pro woman's and lgbt rights), and the options which do align with my personal beliefs are not near where I live nor do I have access to learn about them. Should I just make my own religion? Nah, that would be too hard
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Haven't kept up with this franchise since I was 15 years old. I completely forgot about it until I stumbled upon this doodled I made of bendy back in 2017 (I think?). I can't believe that it somehow survived 10 years of rain, snow, and storms. I also have some comics I drew during this time period. Maybe I should post them?
I'm 22 years old and have been using this site on and off since I was 19 years old. So I was there when the site was at its peak with no ads and real fun existed. I made many memories during my first months of using the site.
But with this new age verification update, I feel as though I had lost a friend. I don't want to send them my ID or my photo because that's my privacy. I don't trust them with what they'll do with my photo or my ID. I really wish they could remove this rule because, to me, it's just silly.
