u/frustratedsoul09

Have we normalized labor exploitation so much that no one talks about it anymore?

Or are the journalists busy with finding the lost wife of the husband or catching them red hand?

Are we so busy gossiping and dancing on TikTok we have become so unaware of reality?

Government has clearly mentioned the minimum salary of 17k rupees, but has it even got implemented?

Vulnerable people who are desperate for the job are heavily exploited , making them work for upto 12 hours a day for minimal salary of 12k-15k.

In this economy , how can a person survive with this money? And more so, the precious time that could've been utilized for other stuff that will help a person grow in life is completely stalled.

And these greedy mofo advertise proudly mentioning salary of 12k for 12 hours of labor a day.

Why aren't we talking about this anymore??

How can a person survive in this economy with so much of fraud and exploitation??

And let's talk about job centre scams.

First a family is pushed into poverty lacking Basic amenities to even survive and when a person tries to better their life , get a job , they have to go through hefty process where they send their application to multiple job Centers, where mostly they're scammed for money, and even if they do get a job, comes another Exploration where with that salary , there's neither enough to survive, nor can have growth for future.

What's the government doing??????

On the second floor

24 hrs water and electricity

Small family or students preferred

Pitched road

Bike and scooter parking available 👍

This is obviously sarcastic and laughable yet holds serious truth that had been recently highlighted and im utterly shocked.

So one of my aafantas was not happy with Balen althought he voted for him, and guess the reason?

Basically the sachibs and other karmacharis had tons of alcohols, foods and other indulgence that massively boosted his cafe and they would come and devour all the stuff they had and put in in the name of the government organization they were working in.

Complete misuse of the allowances,

And so much so , they would order so much of alcohols and food late at night and the order would be placed from the organization itself not their home.

Those culrprits had made the organization their personal amusement park

And now as Balen Shah came to power, obviously they're maybe still figuring out the way to deceive and take advantage (but for now they're stuck)

Not even one order since the new government .

So I don't know should I feel sad as his cafe is affected severely or should I be happy that those goons covered in the name of karmacharis now cannot take advantages of the system??

But this clealry denotes the irregularities within tj system and how shamelessly the our taxes were being misused for their amusements.

And let me tell you one clear fact, next time the opposition forces for the current government wouldn't just be the opposing party, rather the workers and bureaucracy within the government , who are now deprived of the leakages and finances they had misused for years.

P.S - This is not a generalization by any chance just the mere truth I observed and saw , there are many honest workers as well who deserve praise and appreciation.

But the disparity exist within them due to soke cunning people working only for the benefits of themselves.

This poem talks about how love can feel suffocating when we are not used to it , and how too much of love can feel like a burden as it comes with its own price to pay, because eventually the giver is tired and holds resentment for not being loved back and blames the receiver for being cruel, but it's a different story to the receiver, she is scared to be in love, she never asks for love because she doesn't feel worthy of it , so when she receives it is overwhelming for her, she gets confused and she questions herself again and again and eventually her biggest nightmare comes to be true, that the love the giver said was unconditional was full of conditions , she trieS to change ,begs and cries, but again she is left alone and pays the price

This is the poem from her POV

Once it was a fairy tale

a miracle and a fantasy.

Was it for real?

This beautiful-how could it be?

It felt special to be loved,

but would it last forever?

Drowning in thoughts, oh I was

the question, what if this, what if that.

It was a rush, moving time,

flowing emotions, poetic rhyme.

The love was overwhelming,

I couldn't handle

I was used to being alone.

Resistance, a war within,

whether to accept or let it go.

Fight within me, fierce battle—

independence or unity.

Fear crippling through,

what if I lose myself

if I drowned in love completely?

I tried to change my personality,

for being myself I felt guilty.

I wasn't sure, I needed space,

I was punished for choosing myself.

But day by day I was scattered,

I tried to change.

I was given everything

except what I had asked

just a little space I needed.

The pace was too fast,

I was made to believe

it wasn't what I needed.

And I was guilt-tripped

And thrashed

because I did not appreciate it.

All the effort was in vain,

I questioned myself,

I got insane.

The support and care I got

came with a price.

I had to pay back all of it,

little by little,

with my peace.

I was made to believe

I was the problem

for not accepting

what he thought was right for me

a trip of guilt,

a road to hell.

Masked as love,

a controlling self.

Who was to blame?

Oh, it was me

so ungrateful

for not accepting,

pouring and pouring all the love

when I had my own demons

I was scared of.

I believed surely I was the problem,

tried so hard to bring the change,

to mold myself

as his ideal.

But somewhere beneath the ruins,

a voice still whispered mine.

Love was never meant to cage me,

nor demand I leave myself behind.

So I gathered every broken piece,

every doubt, every scar, every plea,

and chose, for once, without guilt

to come back home to me.

to come back home to me

Men and women are different no doubt but naturally men have more animalistic nature which is simple biology.

But I think serious focus needs to be given to this fact, because untamed behavior of men has caused havoc in Soo many families societies and Of course Nation as you know (no offense to Donald trump)

Before you jump to conclusions , this is no way a generalization or a man hating post, it's a simple fact that we were deliberately ignoring which is causing hugee problems in the society(especially for women).

And if you comment stuff like not all men not all women ( please go back to nursery as you're unable to comprehend what I'm about to say) it's like saying since you smoke but still got no cancer no one else will, so no lame comments.

Okay this stuff can go pages and pages, and I'll definitely write research paper on that someday but just for this post what I'm trying to say is, men and women needs to be raised differently.

Men are actually pretty weak since the birth (you can Google about it), they're more prone to diseases and also mental health illnesses.

They don't have the ability to understand complex human emotions fully and they're more egoistic , most of the time they drive by animalistic instinct rather than discernment. So from their early childhood they need to be tamed like an animal, I mean giving them real consequences and punishment for their bad behavior , it's also called classical conditioning in Psychology.

I've seen this pattern in Soo many men that whey they don't have anyone to fear , they will act like an animal, especially in a family where there are only women and they are physically strong.

Story

So my moms friend who belongs to a well to do family, she is pretty very outgoing takes care of herself and also earns herself and devoted towards her family, her husband held good position in the society and in the workplace.

They did a love marriage but no one knew what happened in the closed room. The bubbly chirpy aunty had been victim of domestic violence and abuse for years. That mf uncle seemed so educated and well spoken but he treated her like that because he thought what could she do,?

And he used to bitch about her to entire family including their two sons.

Oh lord

And then aunty thought enough was enought I'll teach him a lesson so she actually filed a case against him, and that man who thought he couldn't be touched hahaha he actually cried to his children about hoe could she do that and he didn't even go to court laaj huncha vanera.

Laaj hune manchele violence nai kina garnu suruma hahaha

So yes all his manhood was taken out just by one case .

And he hasnt spoken to her since otherwise he would spit curse and hit.

So yeah

This is just one example ,I have seen like thousands, most people don't dare to talk coz of this ijjat thing, and so many parents, wife are suffering.

Okay this is a genuine question, like RONB has posted several times about the achievements of people.

From passing loksewa to being a good hacker , time and again such posts come in my feed.

In fact I saw my own friend being posted for the achievement that normally most people get in our that industry which I cannot name. And I've realized RONB doesn't really do any bg check to see if that's true or not , as the person who got posted was named as like the youngest blah blah which was not the case at all.

But I wanted to know, do they message RONB personally to post about it or their friends do that?

What's the procedure does anyone know?

And how does RONB verify if it's legitimate?

Hi so this is a very serious issue, the house just right Infront of me

Has no landlord for now, and his son invites bunch of other hooligans at night and blasts music sings like they're doing a concert.

It's not the very first time not at all, and it seems like I'm the only one affected or maybe others are too scared to confront.

And the funny part is last time when they were making such noise at 12 at night

And I asked them to lower down(for that I had to shout obviously as the music was so loud normal voice tone wouldn't reach)

And then I was utterly shocked a lady (idk who she is UpTo date) but I think she lives in next house and a relative of that guy she said to me

"She could've said it in the morning ,me shouting disturbed them" (exact: uslai matra hudo raicha disturb Rati rati katro thulo sworle karako ma ta kasto tarsiye bihana vanda ni hunthyo re(as if I hadn't said before)

So sad part is he has enablers around him , and I know about these guys they take weed and some even take drugs,and I wonder don't they have like colleges or job at day?- spoiled brats

Since it's been multiple times I've decided to take cop's Help, but you know in Nepal

Like going to cop is pretty extreme

But now it's seriously affecting me I've even recorded the sound for the evidence.

But obviously we've lived in this

neighborhood more than a decade and Eevee never had such problem, it's a peaceful society until it's not

So I really don't know how to approach this

Because we've told them politely so many times

I've already got multiple other problems in my life and I surely don't wanna escalate this situation

But what should I do

Please any suggestions would be helpful!

P.S- typing this at 12:46 at night and the music is still on!