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My first post, apologies if this is not the right forum for this.

Background
55, CIS Male, finished the starter marriage.
Solo mostly since 2008.

After divorce, I have met some amazing women, I am truly blessed for everyone of them for challenging me and improving me in some way.

I tried being in a relationship, longest one after divorce was shy of 2 year old monogamous relationship.

After the sunset on that relationship which was long distance and just would not work across oceans, I studied and took seminars.

I loved having a connection but was not looking to get married and start another monogamous married journey and came upon RA.

I feel that if I stick with my RA life with no primary partner or wife, I might have a tough journey ahead.

Most of the women I meet in the Bay Area are either poly looking for her 2nd or 3rd or someone looking for their monogamous partner.

I am living in the moment but have noticed that many of my allies are slowly pairing off.

I feel if I stay true to my RA beliefs, I might have a rather lonely road ahead.

Anyone else feels this way?

Thanks for your time and thoughts you might have on this.

Dear Hyatt buddies,

I am looking for tips from anyone who has successfully negotiated a month long stay with a Hyatt property.

I was not very successful, I tried a property in KL and they came back with 82$ a day and I thought that was not that good a deal especially if I can do points and keep it under $70, not counting any bonus deals or points bonus on purchase of points.

I am looking for category one, KL was a good base with good food.

I might contact a few properties in India and Nepal as well.

Any tips or thoughts that you can publicly share would be wonderful, I am grateful for any insights.

Happy travels.