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Did she mail it/hand-deliver it to Richard ~40 years before her death or did she just write it and trash it, somehow leaving a carbon copy of it for Emily to find?

If he got it, did Richard read it back then? Or was he too busy with the pre wedding stuff?

If he read it, did he and Trix discuss Emily vs Pennilynn Lott on the eve of his wedding to Emily? Or did he just ignore her misgivings and decide to marry the woman he loved?

After Emily found it, did she bring up the letter to Richard?

If yes, did they argue about it? If not, did Richard not wonder why she had suddenly gone bonkers with the kimono and the smoking/day-drinking/slacking off from funeral preparations? Or was he that oblivious in his own state of mourning to notice that his wife was acting odd (to say the least)?

Did Emily and Richard’s relationship start off as an affair while he was engaged to Pennilynn Lott? (Think Rory-Logan-Odette) Is that why Trix was unsure of the circumstances that caused their breakup? All we know is that Emily wore a blue dress and Richard “had no choice”. And that Richard was a “Lothario”. And that he took Emily to that “frown, step back, wrinkle, and sigh” place at Yale for their first date. The way they talked made it sound more like an illicit affair rather than a monogamous relationship.

Anyway, eager to read your answers.

So, I was going through a really bad phase in my life after issues with my career, family, friendships, and health last year. As a result, idk, I just sort of “let myself go” and didn’t even comb my hair for like 7-8 months. I did regular shampooing and conditioning (like once a week), but I just tied up the dried hair in a bun because I just found it too irksome to comb it. No serums, oils, masks, other products.

As a result, it was insanely tangled and frizzy. Finally, over the last weekend, I detangled all of it step by step. That painful process is done. But, it’s still really frizzy and looks like a broom. Now, the last thing I want is some judgy parlor wali aunty/didi/whatever giving me a lecture about maintaining my hair while disregarding the fact that my entire life was crashing down upon me last year, which was what made me get into this situation in the first place. Things are actually better now, and I don’t want someone causing me to regress. I’m new to Bangalore, and just spent the last few weeks catching up with my friends and setting up my new place. They don’t have hair issues like I do, so they are fine with the judgy parlor ladies. I’ll want a haircut, wash, and blow-drying, that’s all. Coloring and all I manage at home.

With all that in mind, can someone recommend a good hair salon here? Preferably close to a Metro station, but it’s not mandatory. Thanks in advance.

I’m looking for celebrities or influential individuals who have been vocal about their CF stances. CF by choice, irrespective of marital status. Any nationality is fine, but Indians preferred. Any gender is fine. Bonus points if you link some interview or reel or article about them expressing their desire to be CF. More bonus points if they’re women who speak up about pro-choice causes from a place of personal experiences, i.e., having medically terminated a pregnancy through D&C or pills.

Seeing a lot of pro-life and forced birth agenda pushing in my feed lately, idk WHAT my algorithm has been fed. Do they think I’m a conservative American who is anti Roe V Wade or something?! And while no, it’s absolutely not changing my CF stance, it’s rage-baiting me. So I need to feel like there are actual people in power who don’t believe that 3D printing themselves is a necessary milestone in life, just for the sake of more positivity.

Thanks in advance.