u/gud-life

I get it that the new update quickly gives you the app but I have to type it.

Whereas earlier I could just click it at a glance.

I sometimes forget the app name and find it by logo.

Does anyone know how to switch it back or an alternative?

Crocs fully rubber ah Iruku nu I got this slip on. Now the inside part is getting eyuk. I don't know how to clean it.

Tooth brush would be exhausting.. if I throw in the washing machine. Rubber la idhu so therla podalamanu.

Dry cleaner kita ya kudupanga idhelam? Theriyama vangiten

I was about you through these slip on in the washing machine but then I remembered that the major part of the slip-on, the base by that I mean the sole bottom part is completely rubber so maybe it'll ruin the top load & mess my machine up.

However this is getting dirty, please help.

Post Stranger Meet Update part 2.

Defaq man now we need an itinerary or what. I just wanted to chill. We need a reason to eat and chill or what?!

Where my chillsters at, those who don't talk and question alot. Faaaa

Update: Rant completed. Over and out*

UPDATE: IM A GUY! M Male!! STOP FLOODING MY DMS WITH ULTERIOR MOTIVES. Defaq they don't even read the comments bruh

fsome single guys seriously got NO chill bruh 😭

So I (29M) met this guy (34M) from my “shut up and chill” meetup post.

Bro went by a second name called “Slayer” 💀

Already slight danger music in background but okay… I knew I was meeting a stranger so I picked a mall. Public place. Safe. Chill vibes hopefully.

In fact, because this man called me SIX TIMES before even meeting, I got sus

So I had one of my female friends already in the mall shopping just in case things went south 💀like

If situation becomes Discovery Channel episode, I’ll call her to casually appear.

But then I was also like:

“naanum paiyan dhana… pathukalam” 😼

Anyway… what happened instead was Anxiety Pro Max Ultra Edition!

Meeting was only in the evening… but this man called me like 6 times throughout the day to “discuss plans.”

I was like WHAT PLANS in my mind

We’re literally meeting in a mall:

- eat

- chat a Lil, chill and

- leave

Why are we conducting pre-production meetings for a brownie.

Anyway I didn’t answer because I got drenched in rain and was already irritated. Saw his missed calls and texted:

“Don’t call me. We’ll meet at the said time.”

THIS MAN CAME 20 MINS LATE 😑

Appo edhuku da avlo enthu patani ah call pannina 😭

He finally arrives. Bro looked tense AF. Upright posture. Zero chill.

First thing he says, not a how are you, how has your day been.. straight away to deep stuff uh

“Bro let’s talk about dating. How’s my body language? My approach? Can you be my wingman?” nu avan vatukum add panran pa!

I’m internally like:

🧍‍♂️ “Brother… I came here to peacefully chill”

I told him:

“Bro I’m not doing anything till we actually talk properly. I don’t even know your real name.”

Then he says he doesn’t wanna reveal it because it might affect his “career/image.”

At this point I told him straight:

“If you expect a random stranger like me to trust you, you should do the same. Otherwise I’m leaving rn.”

Made him show proof

And the real name reveal was absolutely NOT “Slayer.”

Anyway I thought okay maybe he genuinely wants dating advice.

Then I asked:

“What exactly are you looking for in women?”

This man said:

“Casual relationships.”

I asked more.

He goes:

“90% casual sex… 10% maybe serious if it becomes something.”

Then he used the word “lay” unironically and I almost mentally exited the building 😭

Suddenly Hitch movie flashbacks started playing in my head.

Pickup culture has absolutely cooked some people bruh.

Still, I kept things calm and casual. Suggested maybe:

- dating consultant

- therapist

- image consultant

- clubs/bars/social spaces if he wants exposure

But honestly his entire energy sent my anxiety through the roof.

AND BEST PART?

After saying tata, bybye to him…

I realized I LOST MY BIKE KEY somewhere in the mall.

Spent next one hour retracing steps through every restaurant I went to before meeting him.

Luckily staff helped me find it 😭🙏

I didn't have the energy to write this..this happened like on Friday.

Do I have to take some tests or something wrong with blood, harmones or allergies or something?

Like I believe this muscle needs to be stronger for me..unsure what exercise to do.. like I try playing power chords for 5 mins and in between the song I just want to take my hands of the fret.. like I've been playing guitar as a hobby for a decade + it freakin hurts. I didn't have a problem with electric but I love the steel string sound. No my tuss rod is not high. I take it to a luthier and service my guitar twice a year.. like an I just weak am I not fit for this? I see these gripmasters trumpet like thing they use to strengthen their fingers like anybody actually used and got results with it? Like idk just practicing doesn't cut it.

Do note my finger tips are numb callousy like so that's not a problem. I'm not talking about the finger tip paining as a result of string. This is something else.

I noticed this yellow coloring in my charger cable ends. Like it's not going away I cleaned it..then I thought about it few months back there were like few small spring things that I found when I asked earlier in reddit they said not a big deal.. but anyway does this mean I have to get a new cable coz it's getting burnt or something or can I continue to use this assuming it'll be safe. It still charges. I purchased these like in 2022 for my m2 macbook pro