▲ 4 r/DatingDE+1 crossposts

Erstes Treffen Angst

Erstes Date, habe angst vor dem Ankommen. Wir treffen uns bei einem Restaurant und hab angst vor dem Moment, wo man sich zuerst sieht. Weiß nicht ob ich vor ihm da sein soll draußen oder das er erst da steht. Finde den Moment auf jemanden zuzulaufen schlimm aber da zu stehen, er angefahren kommt und mich da schon stehen sieht, mag ich auch nicht. Haben uns vorher noch nie in echt gesehen

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u/hahabshsb — 4 days ago

Any series recommendations?

I'm looking for a good horror series. For example things with ghosts, or something supernatural. Can be scary or series like yellowjackets, school spirits, The Haunting of Bly Manor.

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u/hahabshsb — 24 days ago

Series Recommendations?

I'm looking for a good horror series. For example things with ghosts, or something supernatural. Can be scary or series like yellowjackets, school spirits, The Haunting of Bly Manor.

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u/hahabshsb — 24 days ago
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So bored of all that

Every week is almost the same. I have no friends, no car. I'm always in my city because i have no one to do things with. The only things i do is i go for a walk everyday and gym every second day. I'm 25 and i feel so bored and like a failure to myself.

How to start to change my life and with what?

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u/hahabshsb — 1 month ago

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I would like to have contact with my neighbor (we are neighbors since always). We always say friendly hi. I want to know if he would also like to have contact. But in real life i could never talk to him. So i'm wondering if i should write him a letter and put in his mailbox?

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u/hahabshsb — 1 month ago

Seit paar Monaten, habe ich großes Interesse an einer Person. Sehe ihn sehr selten draußen. (Wir sind Nachbarn). Manchmal durch Blicke dachte ich, er hätte vielleicht auch Interesse aber manchmal denke ich wieder, hat er nicht.

Das Problem ist, ich würde gern mit ihm ihn kontakt kommen aber ich bin viel zu schüchtern und wüsste überhaupt nicht was ich sagen soll. Ich habe sowas noch nie gemacht. Habe zu sehr Angst vor Ablehnung. Ich möchte nicht weitere Monate Gedanken dran verschwenden, ob er was wollen würde oder ob er 0 Interesse hat.

Ich hätte sehr gerne Kontakt mit ihm. Die eine Seite in mir möchte wissen, ob er auch was wollen würde, weil denke was wenn aber er sich auch nicht traut weil er nicht weiß ob ich was möchte.

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u/hahabshsb — 1 month ago

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I have a crush on a guy. We literally live door to door. I'm not sure if he feels something for me. But i see him very rarely. Last time now was 3 weeks ago.

What signs can i give, that he knows that i'm interested? We always greet each other. But what can i do, i don't want to be too direct.

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u/hahabshsb — 1 month ago

I have a crush on a guy. We literally live door to door. I'm not sure if he feels something for me. But i see him very rarely. Last time now was 3 weeks ago. What signs can i give, that he knows that i'm interested? We always greet each other. But what can i do, i don't want to be too direct. I also want to know if he wants something or not.

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u/hahabshsb — 1 month ago

My now ex boyfriend of 8 years met with a girl while he was officially still together with me. Last time we saw each other was in november last year. Everything seemed normal. But already in the end of november he already drove to her.

She lives like 4 hours away from him. The whole November, december, january he wrote me as usual. Also with i love you etc. In February i only found out he has another girl was, because i searched for his X account. And there i saw photos of them together.

A few weeks later, i showed his new girl that he was actually still in a relationship with me even with pictures with date etc. I always thought well it's not her fault because she didn't know, he is the asshole. But even now where she knows what he did, basically also did shit to her, because he wrote me while he was with her, even now they are still together.. like how weird or naive can you be.. now i feel angry because even tho she knows, he can still be happy because she doesn't even care and i'm just there like the total fool who got brutally cheated on.

How to deal with this terrible feeling, that he came easily away with it and won??, i feel so sad, disappointed, stupid and replaced

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u/hahabshsb — 1 month ago