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Hello! so lilipat po kami ng apartment, and the room is kind of small, and has no windows, except sa may cr pero maliit. we are worried baka mangamoy kulob yung kwarto, tapos may cats pa kami ;(( any recommendation kung anong product pede gamitin?

- pet litter, humidifier, panglinis, air freshener, pang disinfect

thank you in advance!

my partner was diagnosed with dissociation and derealization around 5 years ago, and lately they haven’t been okay again. for the past week, i can tell something feels off even when they laugh, joke around, or play with me. they don’t cook like they used to and they barely have energy lately.

there was one time they suddenly cried and asked me to slap them in the face to know if i was real. i got emotional too because i cry easily when someone i love is crying. i told them i didn’t want to hurt them, so instead i just gently poked/pinched their cheeks, kept saying i love you, said their name, and hugged them while they cried. i honestly didn’t know what else to do.

we can’t really afford therapy right now, so the best i can do is try to support them and give them time and comfort. i think they’re also really overstimulated lately because of their OJT and our sick cat, and maybe everything is piling up and making them freeze/shut down.

i guess i’m posting because i want advice from people who experience dissociation/derealization or have loved ones who do. what helps during moments like this? what should i avoid doing? i just feel sad seeing them go through this again and i want to support them properly.

my partner was diagnosed with dissociation and derealization around 5 years ago, and lately they haven’t been okay again. for the past week, i can tell something feels off even when they laugh, joke around, or play with me. they don’t cook like they used to and they barely have energy lately.

there was one time they suddenly cried and asked me to slap them in the face to know if i was real. i got emotional too because i cry easily when someone i love is crying. i told them i didn’t want to hurt them, so instead i just gently poked/pinched their cheeks, kept saying i love you, said their name, and hugged them while they cried. i honestly didn’t know what else to do.

we can’t really afford therapy right now, so the best i can do is try to support them and give them time and comfort. i think they’re also really overstimulated lately because of their OJT and our sick cat, and maybe everything is piling up and making them freeze/shut down.

i guess i’m posting because i want advice from people who experience dissociation/derealization or have loved ones who do. what helps during moments like this? what should i avoid doing? i just feel sad seeing them go through this again and i want to support them properly.

i usually make fluffy comics/stories, sometimes with smut, but honestly i don’t always feel like making smut-focused content. my partner suggested trying more angst or leaning into smut since it tends to get more attention/readers.

i’m planning to make a comic for webtoon or maybe patreon someday, so now i’m curious — what genre/hooks do people usually enjoy the most for wlw/mlm stories?

personally i love soft/fluffy dynamics, but i also know angst and toxic drama gets people invested LOL. what keeps youreading?

I got messaged by someone after I reposted an artwork they interpreted as promoting “r*pe and abuse.” The art itself was just a ship drawing where one character was choking the other, there wasn’t explicit assault shown. And they mentioned that that artist was been drawing it lately.

I reposted it because I thought the art and composition were good, not because I support abuse or harmful behavior.

Now I’m overthinking whether reposting dark/toxic fictional art automatically reflects your real morals. Personally, I separate fiction and reality pretty heavily, and I don’t usually assume someone endorses something just because they engage with fictional content. But I also understand why some people are uncomfortable with certain themes.

I guess I’m asking: where do people draw the line between appreciating fictional art and “promoting” harmful behavior? Is reposting something automatically an endorsement of its themes, or can it just mean you liked the art itself?

hello, idk what to do. kaya lang nag kautang si mama kasi para sa kapatid ko para makapagaral tyaka ang mahal kasi ng tuition, pati kuryente sa bahay.

hiwalay parents ko so di makakuha ng enough money si mama sa tatay ko. ibat ibang loan apps yung dinownload niya, lagi siya minemessage, tinatawagan and email, halos araw araw. and almost many numbers na yung na blocl niya.

wala talaga siyang pang bayad sa utang and ako naman wala rin kasi kakagraduate ko lang. idk what to do, im trying to make clear data sa app na yun if thats possible. walang wala talagang pang bayad.

hello, idk what to do. kaya lang nag kautang si mama kasi para sa kapatid ko para makapagaral tyaka ang mahal kasi ng tuition, pati kuryente sa bahay.

hiwalay parents ko so di makakuha ng enough money si mama sa tatay ko. ibat ibang loan apps yung dinownload niya, lagi siya minemessage, tinatawagan and email, halos araw araw. and almost many numbers na yung na blocl niya.

wala talaga siyang pang bayad sa utang and ako naman wala rin kasi kakagraduate ko lang. idk what to do, im trying to make clear data sa app na yun if thats possible. walang wala talagang pang bayad.