▲ 0 r/SameGrassButGreener+1 crossposts

Looking at mid-level social service jobs, applying all over the US, the posted salaries in NY, DC, Boston, LA, SF area are $24-$28 an hour. Where is the CoL is higher but so is salary?

I know this career will never make me rich, but it's like these employers want their staff living on the street alongside the people I'm paid to help get off the street.

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u/heyitspokey — 11 hours ago

What's a reference you made that you were surprised no one got?

I'll go first.

During a break at work I mentioned Richard Pryor, about a half dozen people standing around talking about comedy. Crickets. Never heard of him.

RIP monoculture.

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u/heyitspokey — 7 days ago

Are there 2+ br for rent where you live/lived/dream of for under $1501? [Serious]

Are there 2+ bedroom homes for rent in any perfectly average or better neighborhoods where you live/lived/dream of?

If yes, where? I'd like to hear about it.

I work in housing and healthcare and so, so many people are priced out where I live. I know all the stats, and I know how to google and use Zillow, I'm curious about more real world (yes, antidotal) experience. Thanks.

In case it doesn't go without saying, I'm not talking that outlier neighborhood full of drive-bys or open air vice markets featured on Fox as if the entire city. Oh and rent price post-Pandemic.

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u/heyitspokey — 12 days ago

Did you move to a Triangle city site unseen?

I'd like to hear your story, because I'm thinking of doing just that. Purposely not including info about myself bc I watch to hear about your experience. Thanks!

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u/heyitspokey — 23 days ago

Know of any towns or small cities with great healthcare that punches way above its weight?

Title says it all. I'm waiting to move, and I'd like to be able to maybe consider a smaller places, but I need great healthcare access. Ideas? (I'm talking US, but would like to hear all suggestions, thanks!)

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u/heyitspokey — 23 days ago

Richmond VA immune compromised & environmental concerns?

Xpost r/rva

Tl;dr: I'm looking at moving to Richmond. But we have health issues, see title question. Is it safe for us? For environmental concerns, where should we be looking? Yes, we know, transplants can suck.

FWIW background: Why Richmond? We want/need to move. Half my family are from VA (but outside Fredericksburg), both my husband and I are originally from the South and East Coast and like and dislike aspects of both, we like artsy alternative/punk/college town vibes, we want good hospitals, and relatively easy access to water that isn't a glorified retention pond. We're progressive, blue city blue state appealing, but use to living in very blue surrounded by red. We are also use to cities that have a big safe/not safe divide (unfortunately). We work in social services/healthcare/mental health, but are creative types at heart. We're working middle class, middle age, and have disability to consider so living somewhere with a ton of stairs, tons of snow, or the need to work 60+ hours a week are all off the table. Our pets are homeschooled so don't need to factor in school district (good community schools are nice though), but walkability or good, easy public transit access is a must.

Edit: This question inspired by the recent news about the chemical gas leak. But the question is general on purpose. I really don't want to move from one cancer cluster to another. Thanks!

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u/heyitspokey — 27 days ago
▲ 170 r/Xennials

Anyone thinking about where you might move for retirement for real?

I've long outgrown where I live so I'm planning a move. I'm weighing my options to maybe move somewhere where I can easily age in place and/or pretend I'm retired now. I don't know where I want to go, what I really want doesn't exist, so maybe I can copy one of you.

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u/heyitspokey — 30 days ago

Hey Florida - Anyone living car light/car free?

I'm curious, where are you and what are your tips for living without a car there?

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u/heyitspokey — 30 days ago

Places to NOT move if you need good healthcare and/or don't want to die in a waiting room?

Title says it all. Some places may be otherwise highly desirable, but fall down when it comes to healthcare. Or vice versa may be meh but stellar care.

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u/heyitspokey — 1 month ago

Do you still feel Lawrence is an artsy creative town?

Just curious on others perspectives, why or why not, and how long you've lived here?

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u/heyitspokey — 1 month ago
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Is anyone here a counselor or therapist or coach or similiar? What path did you take?

I've worked in social work/behavioral health related jobs for many years now, but want to take the next step. I want more freedom in my work and more pay. I also have a bachelor's in sociology, multiple certificates, hundreds of hours of training, and thousands of hours of supervision but no masters and no license. I've looked into many options but am overwhelmed with all the information. Also I plan on moving states within the next 1-3 years so creditials and requirements varying state to state also adds to the confusion as I'm not positive where I'll be moving and the whole point is I want more freedom/flexibility in my job. I've been doing related work for years and I see very little difference if any between therapists, counselors, psychologists, coaches, and behavioral health specialists besides pay. (I'm not saying there isn't one, I'm saying the way it looks to me, besides maybe legal requirements.) I have a lot of questions but don't want to overwhelm this post. Advice? Recommendations?

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u/heyitspokey — 1 month ago

Cities and towns of all sizes with your favorite farmers' or flea market?

I want to hear all about them. They don't have to be in places you recommend living. But can be.

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u/heyitspokey — 1 month ago

Career advice for an unlicensed social worker? Are there any states that allow related social science degrees to test for a license or other alternative paths?

Degree in sociology, 15 years in direct service, case management, and community outreach (and other work experience before that), multiple certificates, attended and presented at conferences. I'm autistic and PoC who takes a decolonial/postmodern/solutions orientated approach. My best experience is working with vulnerable neurodivergent populations, but at the same time I'm willing to branch out and open to possibilities. I'm open to moving, remote, and hybrid work, essentially ready for change. Thanks in advance.

Edit: I'm considered a social worker at my job and in my state. I clearly hit a nerve in this sub and wow some of you are defensive. I understand I'm not considered one at your job or in your state or by some of you. Either way my question stands, are there any alternative pathways that you're aware of? Title of social worker does not mean anything to me so if you're more comfortable calling me anything else, I'm fine with that too. I don't think the term should cloud the question and I appreciate those of you answering without judgement.

Edit 2: I got my question answered and found a pathway I think will work for me. Thank you to those who took the time to actually answer the question.

To those who feel the need to defend your point to an internet stranger, I don't know, maybe don't waste your time stressing yourself out? I don't know, this field is hard enough, taking care of yourself I think is pretty important and you don't need to try to prove yourself on reddit.

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u/heyitspokey — 1 month ago
▲ 5 r/homeless+1 crossposts

If you're feeling lonely, in need of support, or just need to talk, you can contact a WarmLine

https://www.warmline.org/

WarmLines are different than 988 or other crisis lines, they're peer support for when people want or need to talk with someone but not in crisis.

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u/heyitspokey — 1 month ago

High trust places in the US?

Inspired by the recent Portland post mentioning Portland being low trust and SLC being high trust, I'm wondering where else in the US is high trust? I'm thinking cities of all sizes and towns that have a fair amount of visitors/transplants/immigrants/tourists/students/etc. Not so much little places that few people come and go to besides locals that may be high trust usually until an outsider comes to town.

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u/heyitspokey — 2 months ago

Let's talk about the lesser known California towns, small cities, the good, the bad, and the in-between?

Out of curosity, I want to hear more about the lesser known California places that seldom to never come up in subs like this. One caveat, I mean places that look, feel, and function like actual towns/cities, not suburban sprawl.

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u/heyitspokey — 2 months ago