u/iamanyasbestie

I won't say I'm the greatest at dancing but I'm a fast learner. What's the audition process like? How should I prepare myself? Any insight would be appreciated

i have a basic idea about digital electronics and i would love to start learning verilog. i need video courses through which i can learn it on my own pace.

my induction is on 18th.

I'm writing the exam at 10 am today is it okay if I log in at around 9:40 am

I'm looking for a chair without armrests and the Flintan looks good to me.

Is it worth the money or should I look into other chairs

Some might remember me from a post i made about my grandmother a few months ago(I deleted it)

My grandmother has always been a shitty person. She always taunted me ever since I could remember. Being a female doesn't help. That woman tries to force her patriarchal and orthodox views on me.

Ever since I was a kid i always felt like i was walking on egg shells around her. I never felt comfort. Though she always says I'm her favourite grandchild and she loves me the most, i honestly never felt that way.

She did lot of crap throughout the years. One of them was pressuring me to always do well in school and get good grades. Never let me do extracurriculars since they were "a waste of time", and would "cause my grades go drop according to her. (because obviously, my elementary school grades mattered a lot, duh.) She talks in such a way that even my parents were scared to go against her, until now.

I finished school last year. I took a gap year to study as i didn't get into my desired university.

Mind you, she was against the decision of me taking a gap year because I'm a girl and that girls don't have need to study engineering and work in the IT field, and that i should just do some mediocre degree and get a mediocre job. Yes the same woman who pressured my throughout my life, said this.

I got into a reputed University this year. 19 years of pure academic pressure and no extracurriculars. I just want to enjoy my life till uni starts. Since I always wanted to learn dancing, i asked my parents to enroll me in a Western dance class.(Context, i live in india and there are a lot of classical dances over here, but they are generally really difficult as compared to Western, therefore I chose western). My parents are paying for my classes and they are completely okay with it. In india, western dance usually means contemporary dance forms. The class i joined teaches a blend of all contemporary dance forms.

My orthodox grandmother obviously has a problem with that. She herself was a classical dance and thinks that any dance form which did not originate from India is indecent for a woman to learn. She started scolding my parents for enrolling me in the classes without her permission since western dance is vulgar.

This happened yesterday. Today my mom called in her friends for a small get together. They decided to make reels together and started dancing. My grandmother saw this and immediately started criticizing my mom IN FRONT OF HER FRIENDS. She said "what is this behaviour? You all are dancing so indecently! Are your friends even humans?!"

She said this infront of my mom's friends. My mom's friends left immediately. My mom was obviously humiliated. My dad confronted my grandmother about what she just did. Here's how the conversation went. My dad asked her why she did that. And my grandmother said that "it's not a part of our culture, they all are dancing and it's indecent to look at." She also said that she thought I was dancing along with them and kept saying it repeatedly. I was not even in the same room as my mom and her friends and she said that.

My dad genuinely got pissed but maintained his calm. He told her that i was not even in the room. She then told that she did not like the fact that I was learning western dance since it's vulgar and that i should stay on the "right path" as I'm going to become an engineer and not get distracted by "indecent things".(The woman who told girls don't need to study suddenly now cares about my image)my dad reminded her that she herself was a classical dancer and that she couldn't comment on my choice to learn dance.

She got so offended and said "i learnt was classical dance! I was so good at it and even won a scholarship! Why are you comparing it to western dance!?" And then my dad just gave up because he was getting really worked up. She then went into her room.

After sometime she had the audacity to come out of her room and tell my parents to not to take their anger out on her, and that she only told it for our own good. Because apparently, humiliating your daughter in law in front of her friends and shaming your grandchild for learning dance is for our own good.

I heard all this commotion take place and I'm still unable to sleep. My whole childhood i didn't have the opportunity to learn something, and when I do it's a problem because I'm a woman. I was really angry and was punching and kicking the wall, i vented to my friend and that calmed me down but not fully, so decided to vent on reddit.

I really really hate my grandmother. I wish she never lived with us. I hate her with all my existence. Up until now I did not have any affection towards her but was respectful towards her due to her age. But she doesn't deserve my respect. I'm not even gonna look at her annoying face. I hate her.

This is a serious question. Please don't troll me and tell me stuff like my life is ruined for the next 4 years. Not everyone can get into IIT/NIT/IIIT.

A little bit about myself, i graduated 12th in 2025. I didn't get any good colleges therefore I decided to take a drop. And this year I managed to get ECE in VIT Chennai(I really don't care about on campus placements, i know they are bad for ECE). Honestly I'm very very happy with this because I got a college with my desired course through merit and hardwork and the fact that i did not join some local college last year.

Coming back to my question, how can I make the most out of my college life, while maintaining a good cgpa. Is it possible in VIT? Or will I just be drowned in books like i was during my 11th 12th and drop year?

Seniors please give me some insights and tips on this matter, i would really appreciate it.

Man i hate this, I don't wanna get my hopes high up again🥀🥀 i got 91.6% in CBSE boards and shit percentile in JEE mains(i didn't apply through jee mains).

My first preference is ECE, 2nd is EEE and 3rd is ECE VLSI.

Is there any chance i might get an interview mail too or shd i js forget about snu and move on?💔 Anything from my top 3 preferences are fine😭

124 in MET phase 2 and band 9 in (CBSE)boards (363/400)

Im contemplating whether to join hostel or to be a day scholar. The college is an hour away from home and I would get tired waking up early daily and travel. But at the same time the hostel restrictions make it sound like it's a prison. I would like to go home every weekend and come back on Monday. Is it possible? Or is there a maximum number of outings per month? PGs are not an option for me.

Is it really 30L for hostel + tuition for four years?

Also is there a category system here like in vit

I got 26k.. what are my chances of getting cat 2 ECE

So for the past 3 years I have had really bad teachers at my school. So much so i used to zone out automatically while they were teaching.

Id come home and then study from YouTube lectures. Whenever I didn't understand something, id just rewind it. Whenever I got distracted, id just press pause.

Now university is gonna start in three months and I want to listen to the lecturer and understand content in the class. But I'm afraid that my attention span has been completely ruined due to YouTube lectures and I need tips on how to fix it.

How is the girls hostel in vit chennai? I might be joining there. I don't care about curfews and stuff as I just stay in my room all day.

Im mainly worried about the bathrooms. I've heard there are no attached bathrooms in VIT.. so I'm a bit anxious about the cleanliness and stuff. It will be nice if any seniors in VIT can give me an insight on it.

Also is hair dryer and iron box allowed?

What was ur branch preference and when is ur interview date

I get scared easily and everyone is saying that the notification sound is really loud😭 I'll get jumpscared fr

I'm jee dropper with decent jee preparation but a very bad jee percentile. Giving comedk this year. What's the difficulty level of comedk? Is it worth it to sit and study all the jee mains deleted syllabus on surface level right now? Or should I just focus on revision

I just registered for it as a relative told me to, but I don't know anything about the exam. What's the exam duration and marking scheme? Can you switch between subjects during the exam?

Also do 11th and 12th topics have equal weightage?

What about those who wrote on 16th and 18th?