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And how did you guys net out? I love my husband but the whole tradition gives me the ick and the expectation from everyone especially my in-laws.

I make as much, if not more than my husband, I’m carrying the baby, delivering the baby….and then baby gets husbands last name. For context, I’ve kept my maiden name and in laws have been trying to pressure me to change it.

Thank you in advance for any tips on how you’ve handled this!

Aright long shot but I’m going to Chile to snowboard 3rd week of August for 4 days. For people who have been or live there. I’ll be staying in Farrelones and just curious if anybody suspects it’ll be difficult to arrive there from Santiago. It’s awhile from now and I know roads will be cleared but wonder how fast in case another storm arrives. Thank you!

Yesterday I get my first positive LH surge after tracking for two cycles. He’s been somewhat engaged every time I let him know since we’re trying to figure out when I’ll get back to normal post birth control. I share with him that it’s positive!!!, and he doesn’t seem excited. He does make a comment and say “ooo is it time?” a little later. At night we’re on our phones a little and then he goes to bed and doesn’t try to initiate sex or anything. I ask him if he’s tired and he says no but just trying to get a good sleep schedule. I’m a little confused because the past 3-4 nights he has initiated (and he typically does) but the first time I get a positive he doesn’t?

My husband and I have been prepping for 4 months and actively trying for one month. He’s been eating healthy, exercising and cutting back on drinking. He does not have performance anxiety and is pretty lax in general. I’m probably overreacting but is it normal to feel doubt and feel that the one day it counts, he forgets?

I know we haven’t been trying for long but I have this thought in the back of my head because of my excessive bleeding and potential for addnomyosis may make it difficult to conceive. Anyways lots of tiny thoughts