u/imkindarudee

femboys are transphobic, femboys are racist, femboys are neo nazi yada yada yada NO WE ARE NOT

just because u saw 2 racist nazi femboys on twitter doesn't mean thousands of them are like that

there are thousands of cis people who are racist toxic transphobic,just because few of them happen to be femboy doesn't mean you've right to label majority of the group like that

I've yet to met a single femboy who is toxic or show hate towards other groups, all of them were nice sweet silly and respectful to other people

but everytime femboys are mentioned anywhere it's always "oh femboys are right winger" "the nazi to femboy pipeline need to be studied" etc etc and I'm just tried of these people spreading lies and ruining the image of femboys

pretty much the title,I'm not trans myself but I'm a femboy and looking for some fellow trans friends to hangout with cz cis ppl don't understand/get weirded out by lgtbq stuff, doesn't matter if ur still closeted

if ur not trans or not associated with lgtbq community then ignore this instead of commenting some transphobic bigoted stuff

yeah it's should be none of my business what other ppl label themselves but the way most of them act and then call themselves a femboy just ruins the overall image of femboys

lately in the subreddit there is so much f€tish posting and thankfully mods delete them asap but even then occasionally when I come across such posts it's gross me out so much and when I check their account it's just all just weird gross stuff and active in s!ssy related subreddit

either these people don't understand the difference between two or think they'll get more attention if they call themselves a femboy but these ppl r indirectly making rest of us look weird

other ppl might see things like this and make an assumption that other femboys must be just like that, NOOOO!! we are not the same!!!!

stop calling urself a femboy if ur gonna actively participate in those kind of stuff "you can humiliate me" "looking for someone to train me into a good girl" "need someone to force fem me" SHUT UP and GET OUT OF THIS SUBREDDIT

past couple of days I saw a lot post with stuff like should I become a femboy, do I have femboy potential, my friends said this and that blah blah blah and it just kind of baffled me

become a femboy if u like feminine things, if u feel happy by presenting cute and pretty

there's no such thing as femboy potential, doesn't matter if ur short tall skinny chubby or whatever, anyone can be a femboy

just don't force urself to become someone else just cz someone tried to put labels on u

most of the femboy communities r either really boring or heavy sexualised so i try to be active in more trans spaces but i never felt welcomed there

i do have some trans friends and they're reallyyy nice and sweet but other than those ppl every trans dedicated place whether on discord or reddit i always feel like an outsider

sometimes it's like they actively try to avoid engaging with me just cz I'm a femboy,not to mention the stupid egg culture

nobody was ever rude to me or treated me badly it's just i feel left out all the time

I'm sorry if this is a common question I'm new in the subreddit, needed some advice related clothing and fashion cz I'm hella confused (also really sorry if i accidentally say something wrong I'm bad at putting my thoughts into words)

i really don't know what to wear other than the stereotypical femboy attire the thigh high croptop and skirt,i don't wanna look like a girl, just want to present more feminine if that makes sense, i tried some traditional clothing too but they just didn't felt right

also is there any online shopping store where clothing quality is decent and reasonably priced? i tried amazon myntra and meesho so far and all of them mostly had cheap fast fashion stuff and I'm too scared and insecure to check out offline market

that's it,thanks!

I've joined many other femboy related subs where pics r allowed and most of them are just hey look at my butt look at my thighs and I'm honestly so tired of it

there's so much to talk abt,talk abt diff type of fashion or trying out different nail paint or hairstyle or shoes or earrings or just so much but no

even if someone takes a full body pic showing off their new dress most of the time they try to put focus on those parts and i just find it really gross

and I'm not saying everyone does this but sooo many of them do or it just loud minority i dunno

i just find it a little stale that one part of the community is really nice and sweet and other part is busy sexualizing themselves

I've been quite active on this subreddit for a while and most if not all questions are quite repetitive

body/skin care tips, workout tips, can I be a femboy posts etc etc etc you get the point

like there's nothing wrong with trying to engage with the community and get help but searching the same question on Google and adding reddit in the end would give better results than waiting for hours for someone to answer (which many ppl like me probably stopped doing cz answering the same thing everyday gets tiring)

also the vent and personal struggle related posts gets overshadowed and ignored most of the time which is kind off sad to see cz those peeps really need some reassurance and comfort but never get any

yeah that was my rant, i can try to make a proper femboy guide which answers these common asked questions in my free time if peeps here dunno where to look for