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This is so true. Beyond having to approach questioning differently because they’re kids, they have to also factor in the lack of communication. It’s all so unfortunate and heartbreaking. I feel for all of the authorities and professionals who have a hand in helping these kids move forward. I can’t imagine.

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So this adds some light on the house situation..

“The home is part of a trust in the name of Hamden woman who died in April 2025. The house was up to date on its property tax payments, the most recent payment being paid in February in the amount of $960.88. And, according to Hamden Village Water Department, the house did have running water, with sewer and trash service all in the name of Christina Siders.”

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They would buy vegetable oil and water every night at 9:45pm🤔

“I think if they would’ve waited another 24 hours, there’s a high probability we’d be dealing with a death or multiple deaths,” Ohio AG Andy Wilson said.

Four adults — Gary Siders Sr., Gary Siders Jr., Christina Siders and Elizabeth Siders — were each charged with 16 counts of endangering children when they were taken into custody on Tuesday. They appeared virtually in court where they pleaded not guilty and were each given a $300,000 bond.

Elizabeth Siders, Christina Siders, Gary L. Siders Jr., and Gary L. Siders Sr.

I won’t lie I’ve been server jumping to steal from the scripters and hackers the last day because there are servers literally FULL of only bots. But even so it’s so difficult to do well in this game when you’re not p2w.

Go to a random server have a bot or two. Then you have one snot nose kid decide they’re not going for the bots like everyone else but all of your fruit.
Those same kids will steal from you during the 1-2 weather events that happen. So can’t get seeds then. 🥲
Or you have the BOTS stealing your fruit???
Or they stay in their garden so you can’t steal from them…
or THEY FLING YOU UNTIL ROBLOX CRASHES 🙃🙃
No way to request to join guilds so everyone’s posting guild ads everywhere else
The megaphone? Useless. Annoying actually. Even with the volume down having someone follow you around the server is annoying enough.

There’s really no genuine way to get ahead I haven’t had any major progress in a few days. I’m just buying bamboo to buy more bamboo because what else can I buy? 🫩 Those who started when the game hit are light years ahead of those who started a few days after. Plus no events to even begin to catch up. Genuinely have never been more annoyed and frustrated by a game because devs are doing nothing about scripters and bots.

Yes I’m ranting. This is super disappointing like what do you mean hackers can cheat and cause my device to crash out?! And no one’s doing anything?!? That’s INSANE.

Someone PLEASE tell me I’m not losing my ever loving mind. My family is going to disown me. 😂

For context: 2 houses in a neighborhood in front of mine exploded in the span of 2 hours last month from gas build up so maybe im just overthinking. And im also going out of town tomorrow which is stressful alone and my biggest anxiety is driving long distance so maybe im just having a rough few days because of those things.

Yesterday I walked into my room and smelt something awful..very faint but awful. I honestly thought maybe something died in a wall. Well last night it dawns on me “oh this could be a gas leak” so at 10pm we quickly pack dogs and go to my parents house for the night.

Gas people come this morning…everything’s totally fine, no leaks, and they smell nothing in my room. I get to work…and boom strong gas smell as I’m walking by the gas line. Now this is after last night and my family now thinking I’m insane. I know they have release valves so I go back and it much fainter if any so I’m assuming it was the release valve. But WHAT is HAPPENING. I’m almost paranoid at this point..but I definitely feel crazy. Things just smell..more smelly?? I’m extremely on edge today and I’m worried it’s the Wellbutrin causing it but idk. Can someone tell me to get a grip? 😂

To preface, I’m medicated (have been my whole life) and my coworker undiagnosed and unmedicated but let me tell you…it takes one to know one and I KNOW.

She drives me absolutely insane and is the bane of my existence. This woman is insufferable on a lot of levels (some not ADHD related). It’s caused me to do a lot of reflection with myself and how I am around others when I’m not on my medicine. And I’ve come to the conclusion that I have some super annoying tendencies that I would hate as someone else. 😅Those around me have the patience of a saint and really do love me. Cause only love could make you stick around me unmedicated 😂😂

NOW don’t get me wrong there are some other things that contribute unrelated to ADHD to make her extra insufferable but..I hate to say I get some of it 😂 anyway she drives me absolutely insane..I dread coming to work to see her walk in the door. If anyone has any nightmare coworker tips to keep yourself from getting fired and/or quitting please feel free to share 🥴

*To clarify, a lot of the actual annoyances don’t have a lot to do with her talking too much. She doesn’t always talk too much, it’s how she holds conversations. It’s more of talking at you than anything. Example: Work related topics (or really absolutely any topic) get immediately switched to a story about herself or some random highly detailed conversation she had 10 years ago on the 12th of July at 3:30pm. And she’s got the Facebook post/picture to back it up.

I’ve been staying with my mom for the last month or so because of some repairs going on at my house. In that time frame, my backyard neighbor had her house broken into while she was home and the neighborhood across from mine had two houses explode within two hours of each other due to gas build up. Change has always been hard for me so to go from my moms to mine after a month is tough but I’m so unbelievably scared and anxious. I just want to go back to my moms, I feel so alone 🥲🥲 I know all of the fears I have are relevant but highly irrational. I’ve always had issues with night time and anxiety but I had been doing really really well for 2 years or so. I don’t even want to leave my dog here alone tomorrow when I go to work. It’s so bad and I’ve already taken emergency meds for panic attacks and it’s just not touching this. I’m just so frustrated with myself and my inability to cope and adult like a normal person.

Sincerely,
A full blown adult sobbing in the bathroom floor scared to go to sleep and scared to have to do this again tomorrow night

Mine is Doomed by Maphra (cover of Bring Me the Horizon)

I saw a video on TikTok last night and immediately it started tickling my brain and I listened to it on repeat on the way to work. So..that’ll be the symphony of my mind today 😂

I’m just glad I’m off of my Escapism hyper fixation 😩😅