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A thumbtack fairy came to my room and saved my life.

I own a beautiful $800K condo. Had a mental breakdown two years ago, and it just got worse and worse. Found someone on Thumbtack who took one look at my room and said, "Oh, I've done jobs like this all the time." Motivation to get up and start my day has increased tenfold.

Next up, I already deep-vacuumed and plan to shampoo my carpet tomorrow.
Then I'll treat myself to some interior design so my room doesn't look so bare.

Edit:

- Thumbtack is a website where you can find people to do any sort of job you need. I liked it more than TaskRabbit because you can share photos with multiple professionals right away, so they know what they're getting into before they choose to take on your project. I also like seeing reviews with photos and the price range attached to what the customer paid. I used the uncluttering topic.

- I wasn't in the room, and honestly, I didn't want to be. It was like she just looked at the room and got to work, while I stayed in the living room and did my own thing the whole time. It's also nice that you can discuss that beforehand, but I think you know they're real professionals when they say you don't have to be there. I told her that either something is trash or not, and if she didn't know, to keep it just in case.

- She threw out all the trash and organized all my things into labeled storage baskets/bags for bathroom, office, items, etc., and clothes. Total bags of trash came out to like 15 bags

- Since she had a minimum policy of 6 hours for all her projects, her total was $475. She did all of this in 5 hours and 30 minutes, and I tipped her $100, making the total $575.

My advice for people who want to hire professionals for this sort of thing (sorry this is so long, lol)

- Thumbtack was the best service for me to use, rather than reaching out and emailing a bunch of uncluttering businesses or using TaskRabbit (where you share details after you connect with a person, not before). You know exactly what you're paying for, so there are no hidden fees. After looking through your photos and reading what you need, people who want to take on your project accept because they're genuinely interested. Remember, this is their income. I got replies from people who were really passionate about helping, but I chose this person because her reviews showed she does an amazing job uncluttering spaces. My review was honestly the first one to show a before photo with a shit ton of trash. I think that's because most people might have been embarrassed about sharing really bad before photos. But their reviews talked about how some life event left them feeling really down, they couldn't manage to clean, and this person came in and saved their lives, and that did it for me.

- If there is one question I would ask, it would be: "Have you done this kind of work before?" If you don't want to be in the room making choices for them, tell them. If they're really experienced with this, they won't need you there. I know I made the right choice because she told me she's done a bunch of rooms like mine before, and it was no problem. Two hours in, she peeked her head out and said, "Everything is going really great," which astonished me. She even came with her own labels to put on bags. I realize that people who work in these rooms know their clients are going through something, so they're extra sensitive. You deserve to ask as many questions or make as many requests as you want about the project to feel better. In the last hour, I went from wanting to hide in my living room to happily chatting with her about online shopping while she finished up my bathroom. That's how comfortable she made me feel.

u/jas-ck — 5 days ago
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How do you guys study for those online courses that take eight weeks and go by extra fast?

What are your strategies? Taking notes or not? Active recall flashcards? Thank you!

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u/jas-ck — 17 days ago
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Worried that I burned bridges with a potential ABSN

To apply for this particular ABSN, you first have to match with an advisor and update them as you go along completing your prerequisites. Once you complete them, they fast-track you to their own applications because they don't use nursing cas or anything like that. They do applications in-house.

When I first messaged or left my contact info inquiring about admissions, I was matched with a lead advisor who then immediately passed me off to one of the staff advisors. She was super friendly, and we had our pre-visit plan in place. Everything was great. Three months later, I was emailed by a new advisor who said my current advisor switched departments and she would be taking over. She asked when a good time was to call so we could go over my plan. I told her I was in Korea at the moment and asked whether it was okay to communicate through email for the time being. I then asked whether the school would accept prerequisites from a few online courses, like Portage Bay. She hadn't emailed me back in a week, so I then emailed the same question to the lead advisor who took my case initially when I inquired about the school. That was Monday, and I still haven't heard back.

Honestly, I'm a very paranoid person, but I feel like I already annoyed the crap out of them, or I'm just not worth it as an applicant compared to everyone else. Since they are part of the admissions team, I can't help but think that they've already crossed me off as a non-admit. : c

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u/jas-ck — 23 days ago
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Recommendations for an online lifespan development course?

Oh, and a nutrition course as well.

Prefer it not to be Portage. I would really appreciate hearing about your experience if you took any of these courses online!

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u/jas-ck — 1 month ago

In need of some expert help, or people who've used long term with high GPD. Daily user for 7 years, 15-18 GPD. No offense, but everyone here is not like my situation.

I've used phenibut every day for 7 years, and 3 years ago I was at 1.5 g, 3 times a day. I didn't get any effects from it, but I didn't have interdose withdrawals.

My depression ramped up over the last two years, and I think I'm dosing 2 to 3 g every couple of hours, even at night. Here's where I'm fucked: I've been getting my sleep schedule back together, and it's been very difficult to figure out what a stable dose is for me right now. I definitely get glutamate rebound every time I dose.

My limbs can't stop twitching. I also break out in a sweat.

I think my grams per day have been lower over the past week, because for the first time in years I'm getting crazy brain fog, a little paranoia, and weird visuals during interdose withdrawals.

I haven't experienced full-blown panic, but I need advice from people who have either experienced 10+ GPD for years or can point me to someone who has and recovered.

NAC really helps, but I'm a little bothered by the rebound. I want to taper as safely as I can while still being mentally okay enough for school and daily things.

I'm prescribed 0.1 mg of clonidine a day (just started taking 1 at night), 40 mg IR Adderall, and I don't take anything else except this supplement that has taken me prisoner.

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u/jas-ck — 1 month ago
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Did raising your dose help your depression with Parnate?

I used to be on 60 mg and honestly, I don’t really remember but I was fine with that dose, but my provider made me feel like I was taking a very high dose so I reduced it myself to 40 mg and have just been OK on that for half a year. I’m wondering if I would feel better going back up to 60. Experiences?

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u/jas-ck — 1 month ago

Just bought my first kayak. Any low-key spots to get into the water?

I live in Belltown. Do you have any favorite spots for beautiful views? Where do you go to get into the water?
Lastly, are there any quiet areas where I can practice getting in and out of the kayak with my dog? Sorry for all the questions, I’m sure it will become second nature to me soon. Thank you very much!

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u/jas-ck — 2 months ago

Need to get my teeth fixed but no dental insurance.

Edit: Thanks for the low-cost clinic recommendations, but my goal is to keep costs down. I don't want to wait too long for appointments.

Can anyone recommend a dental insurance plan if I need to get a deep cleaning and multiple fillings? Or cash discounts?

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u/jas-ck — 2 months ago

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u/jas-ck — 2 months ago

How long should I wait after supplementing B12 before taking lab tests?

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u/jas-ck — 2 months ago