u/johnissimow_

My partner and I (both in our early 30s, male) have been in a relationship for five years. We met through Facebook Dating, where I initiated the first meet-up. We dated for about a month before making it official. There was no traditional courtship; he simply asked me what I wanted, and I told him I wanted him to be my partner. He is my first serious relationship. Before him, I only had a couple of short-lived flings and “situationships” that barely lasted a month, while I am his third partner and the longest relationship so far.

We’ve been through ups and downs, and if I were to describe our relationship, it is quite intense. We can fight over petty things one moment and be very caring toward each other the next. He is not the showy type but is very verbal and expressive, while I tend to be more affectionate and physically demonstrative.

In our third year together, we decided to live together and “adopt” his two nieces - one is seven years old, and the other is a newborn who will turn one this year. It feels like a dream come true: imagine a same-sex couple building a family.

However, this year I started having troubling fantasies; what if he cheats on me? What if he decides I am no longer the ideal partner and leaves me for someone else? Sometimes I even imagine him being intimate with another person, and while part of me finds it strangely exciting, it has begun to affect my mental health and emotions. These thoughts are dragging me down, and I don’t know how to handle them.

My partner and I (both in our early 30s, male) have been in a relationship for 5 years. We met through Facebook Dating, where I initiated the first meet-up. We dated for about a month before making it official. There was no traditional courtship; he simply asked me what I wanted, and I told him I wanted him to be my partner. He is my first serious relationship. Before him, I only had a couple of short-lived flings and “situationships” that barely lasted a month, while I am his third partner and the longest relationship so far.

We’ve been through ups and downs, and if I were to describe our relationship, it is quite intense. We can fight over petty things one moment and be very caring toward each other the next. He is not the showy type but is very verbal and expressive, while I tend to be more affectionate and physically demonstrative.

In our 3rd year together, we decided to live together and “adopt” his two pamangkins, one is seven years old, and the other is a newborn who will turn one this year. It feels like a dream come true: imagine a same-sex couple building a family diba?

However, this year I started having troubling fantasies, what if he cheats on me? What if he decides I am no longer the ideal partner and leaves me for someone else? Sometimes I even imagine him being intimate with another person, and while part of me finds it strangely exciting, it has begun to affect my mental health and emotions. These thoughts are dragging me down, and I don’t know how to handle them.

Hi, sino dito yung gusto mag nipple play? 30s, Manly here. I can suck, play, bite, caress your nipple hanggang magsawa ka basta you'd do the same to me. hahahahah. Bacolod area.

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Looking for movies na meron same feel/vibe or yung plot is like serial killer meets serial killer. Thank you.