Perspective On the Datemaxxing - Episode 234

Hey everyone I hope you are well. I know this is late but I just finished the episode. I feel like it was really lukewarm advise for a communist podcast. It felt like only very basic issues were discussed that can generally be found elsewhere.

I was hoping that they would touch on the idea of navigating the dating world from the perspective of a marxist. Like is it ok If your partner is does not care about politics? Or in other words is a normie who wants to go for brunch on the weekends and is looking forward to a trip to Japan.

Further, how important is political ideology? From time perspective you have to read, attend protests and etc. It not like a hobby that can just be tolerated. To illustrate Oct 7 was amongst a cause that people broke up. Also can relations work between a communist and someone who works at HR. Is it fair to expect them to bail you out if you are arrested at a protest or cancel weekend plans because Ben Gvir is visiting. I know you can have friends that you can relate to politically but your partner has to at least understand why you are putting energy into. These are the question that I felt were more complicated. As a young person in the movement who is trying to find their place in the what we are building and navigate the cannibalizing techno capitalism a lot of these questions are rarely discussed.

Maybe people here can add their input. Maybe some people who became political later in life how did your partner reach to this sudden change?

Sorry for the rant.

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u/jokergoesfishing — 7 hours ago

26M [M4F] #Australia looking for a personality match

26M from Pakistan, currently living in Australia.

I'm looking to meet someone for a genuine, long-term relationship. I'm fairly quiet at first, but I enjoy good conversations about history, philosophy, politics, movies, and gaming. I also like learning new things and appreciate people who are curious and thoughtful.

I'm Muslim, don't smoke or drink, and I'm looking for someone who shares similar values. More than anything, I want a relationship that feels like a friendship first, built on honesty, kindness, and mutual respect.

Appearance isn't my main priority. I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, communicates well, and is serious about getting to know each other.

If this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

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u/jokergoesfishing — 6 days ago

26 [M4F] #Melbourne

27M from Pakistan, currently living in Australia.

I'm looking to meet someone for a genuine, long-term relationship. I'm fairly quiet at first, but I enjoy good conversations about history, philosophy, politics, movies, and gaming. I also like learning new things and appreciate people who are curious and thoughtful.

I'm Muslim, don't smoke or drink, and I'm looking for someone who shares similar values. More than anything, I want a relationship that feels like a friendship first, built on honesty, kindness, and mutual respect.

Appearance isn't my main priority. I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, communicates well, and is serious about getting to know each other.

If this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

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u/jokergoesfishing — 7 days ago

M26 Melb Australia

Brief Introduction (Optional)

I'm looking for a genuine, long-term marriage with someone who values kindness, honesty, and companionship. I believe the best relationships are built on friendship, mutual respect, and shared values.

Your Essential Information

Age:26

Origin/Ethnicity:Punjabi, Pakistan

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): Urdu, English, Punjabi

Level of religious practice: Mandatory

Current residence (city, country): Melb Australia

Willing to relocate: Yes/No (If yes, where?) Nationally

Siblings (number and older/younger): 4

Previously married/Kids: no

Occupation: Student IT

Education: Bachelors

Height (cm), Weight (kg): 85 5'9

Physical appearance (anything you'd like to mention): beard, Wear glasses

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah: No

Leisure activities: Movies, Music, Games and exploring nature

Your Preferences in a Partner

Age range: 22-29

Origin/Ethnicity: open to all

Languages: prefer urdu but flexible

Level of religious practice: mandatory at least

Education: prefer bachelors

Deal breakers: Its hard to specify but someone loud, inconsiderate or trust issues.

Other preferences (appearance, family situation, personality, etc.): I think we would get along well if you have hobbies and interests. Also some idea of what you want out of life.

Additional Information

The way I imagine my life is hopefully calm and drama free. I don't want to focus on collecting materialistic things. I hope to spend time reading, traveling and working on projects.

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u/jokergoesfishing — 9 days ago

29 [M4F] looking for some with similar interests

24M looking to meet someone genuine.

I'm into IT, gaming, movies (especially detective and animated films), history, philosophy, and politics. I enjoy good conversations about ideas, but I'm also happy to chat about everyday life, hobbies, or whatever's on your mind.

I'm looking for someone who is down-to-earth, respectful, and interested in building something real rather than exchanging a few messages and disappearing into the digital void.

If you're looking for a genuine person and think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

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u/jokergoesfishing — 27 days ago

26 [M4F] looking fo someone who matches my personality

Hi I am m26. I am an immigrant and a Muslim. I am an introvert I guess because a lot of hobbies I do are pretty solitary. Like reading philosophy, history etc. But I enjoy socializing in small doses but I prefer deeper conversations. I like to find cool movies on letterboxd especially dystopias. I also like detective stuff Zodiac is one of my favorites.

I am studying IT after the first career I picked didn't work out. Now IT seems like it's headed for a crash. I guess I am in this boat now.

Appearance wise I am tall. I wear glasses and have a small beard. I have dark brown eyes and light brown skin. Is that too generic?

What am I looking for in a person?

Having an understanding of what you want from life is kinda important I think. I think we will get along well if you have hobbies and interests of your own. Having the same religion is not a must but believe in a higher being is important I think.

I offer a drama free environment with honest communication. I am looking to talk to someone and see how things go from there.

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u/jokergoesfishing — 1 month ago

26 [M4F] Australia looking for the one

I am m26. I am an immigrant in Australia. I am also a Muslim. I guess I just struggle to find people that kind of have the same interests as I do. I like to read about philosophy and have existential dread from time to time.

When I am not doing that I try to find movies with cool premises that try to do something new. I also like all sorts of music. Maybe we can watch a movie together on discord after we get to know each other a bit. Looking forward to good conversations.v

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u/jokergoesfishing — 1 month ago
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26 [M4F] #Australia #Online do you have same interests as me?

Hello. I am m26 from Australia. I study IT despite AI nearly wrecking the job market. I am looking for someone who shares some of the same interests that I have which is hard sometimes.

Personality wise I am a bit introverted and I like time to spend on my intrest but I also enjoy socializing. I like to read about philosophy but I struggle to keep a reading habit. I am also trying to read more fiction especially the classics. I like watching older movies so I spend time browsing letterboxed list to find hidden jems. These days I listen to ambient music while relaxing and day dreaming. Hopefully I can find someone who can relate to some of this and see where it goes.

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u/jokergoesfishing — 2 months ago

Age: 26

Origin/Ethnicity: Pakistan

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): Urdu, English Punjabi Proficient.

Level of religious practice: Obligatory acts

Current residence (city, country): Melbourne Australia

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): Only Nationally.

Siblings (number and older/younger): 4

Previously married/Kids: No

Occupation: IT Student 3rd Year

Education: Bachelor of IT

Height (cm), weight (kg): 85kg 5'8

Physical appearance (specifics you think are important): I wear glasses for distance and have a small beard

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): no

Leisure activities: Reading, Nature trips, Movies, Games, Music etc

**Your Preferences in a Partner:**

Age range: 23-30

Origin/Ethnicity: Open to all.

Languages: Good English is a must unless you don't speak urdu

Level of religious practice: Obligatory acts

Education: Prefer Bachelors

Deal breakers: insecurity and trust issues

Other preferences (appearance, family situation, etc.): open to discuss. I am flexible as long as we are a good personality fit.

Additional Information you like to add: I am not really interested in living a rich life as that isn't what drives me. I enjoy the small things in life. I also believe in cultivating relationships including family. I am also more introverted but I can be sociable when there is a need. Hopefully that gives you a hint of my personality.

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u/jokergoesfishing — 2 months ago