Feeling resentment from daycare educator

My almost two year old daughter is in full "terrible two" mode where she has tantrums over the smallest things, doesn't want to share, everything is no, etc...

She goes to a daycare that we love, and her educators are amazing. I had another baby last month, and since then, they noticed that toddler's behavior is worse (which we all know is common after the arrival of a sibling).

Almost every day now, one of her educators sends me a message to say that toddler is "sooo cranky today", but I don't really know what to reply to that? Yesterday she sent me the same thing "oh toddler is having quite the day" to which I replied "do you need me to go pick her up?" and she said "no it's fine". I kind of feel like she doesn't like my toddler as much as she did before.

I know that she's a difficult child, she is at home too. I just don't understand why the need to send me these messages if there's nothing I can do about it.

Tldr: educator is annoyed with my child lol

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u/jossur0166 — 3 days ago

I deleted all social media except reddit and i literally don't know what to do with my time?

This is a vulnerable post. Today I deleted facebook, instagram, and tiktok off my phone. I have 3 young kids and was on my phone way too much.

How do I stop the urge of needing to be on my phone!?

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u/jossur0166 — 11 days ago

Can someone explain how vip groups work 😂

Is it some kind of pyramid scheme? One fb group in particular that I'm in, reps make posts and ask questions to get people to interact. Do they make profit from it somehow? If not why do they do that 😂 also do reps keep the clothes??

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u/jossur0166 — 13 days ago

Do i need to change the bottle nipple size? [Ca]

My 5 week old is using MAM bottles with nipple size 1. We were using dr brown previously but they weren't working for her at all.

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She spits up a lot, gulps, hiccups, and has milk coming from sides when she drinks. I'm thinking of going down a size to 0 but am also reading those signs could mean going up a nipple size? Help 😵‍💫

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u/jossur0166 — 14 days ago

Do I need to go down a nipple size?

My 5 week old is using MAM bottles with nipple size 1. We were using dr brown previously but they weren't working for her at all.

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She spits up a lot, gulps, hiccups, and has milk coming from sides when she drinks. I'm thinking of going down a size to 0 but am also reading those signs could mean going up a nipple size? Help 😵‍💫

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u/jossur0166 — 14 days ago

What hairstyle would look good with this dress? For a family photoshoot! I have mid-length blonde hair

u/jossur0166 — 1 month ago

Did you give powder from birth?

Our hospital suggests RTF for the first few weeks but we're running low and it's so damn expensive. She's 3 weeks old, was a full term baby, no health problems. She spits up once in a while but not a lot.

We should be ok to switch to powder right!?

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u/jossur0166 — 1 month ago

Switched bottles from Dr Browns to MAM and saw immediate improvements

Our third baby is 2 weeks old. With the other two we never had feeding issues and they both took Dr Browns narrow bottles from birth until they were weaned.

Since we had success with those, I got them for our third baby as well. The first week was meh, spit ups and gas, but doctors weren't worried and said it's normal.

She's now in her second week, and was ALWAYS uncomfortable. Extremely gassy, spit ups, and milk would always come out the sides of her mouth when she was drinking. We started giving probiotics but they weren't helping much.

I decided to try another bottle. Looked up suggestions here and decided to try the MAM. Instant improvement! No spit up after drinking, no more spillage on the sides of her mouth, she latches a lot better on the nipple. Unsure yet if it'll help with the gas since she's only had this bottle twice but it's already a huge improvement compared to the Dr Browns. I think those were just a bit too narrow for her.

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u/jossur0166 — 1 month ago

I think my mom is sick but she doesn't want to go see a doctor

My mom (55) has changed a lot in the past 6 months, physically and mentally.

She's half the size that she was. She lost a tremendous amount of weight and is definitely at an unhealthy weight. She's not the same person that she used to be.

Her mental state is also very different. She gets very stubborn, refuses to leave her house. I had a baby last week and she hasn't seen her yet which is very unlike her.

My sister has tried talking to her but she won't budge. I considered speaking with her family physician but figure there's not much she can do if my mom doesn't want help.

Considering how much weight she lost I'm concerned there's something serious happening and I feel like there's nothing I can do.

I have three young children who means the world to her but she hasn't come seen them in months 😢

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u/jossur0166 — 2 months ago

Will daycare kick us out if we had to postpone toddlers 18m vaccines? [Nb]

Our daughter turned 18 months in April and was supposed to get her vaccines. However, we had to postpone because she had a bad gastro (that she caught at daycare).

When I called public health the closest appointment I could get was mid-July 🫠 so she'll be 21 months.

I got a letter from daycare stating her vaccines weren't up to date and to provide proof of immunization asap, but she's only going in July. Will we need to take her out until then!?

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u/jossur0166 — 2 months ago

This is my third baby... had baby #1 at 36w5d, baby #2 at 37w3d, and am currently 37w5d. A week ago I went to L&D for cramps and feeling off. They did a cervical check, I was 3cm and 50%. They kept me for a couple hours, checked me again then I was 4cm and 75%, but the cramps had stopped.

It's been a week, I haven't had many cramping since but I feel so much pressure and am so uncomfortable. These past few days I've been feeling so impatient and angry. 😭 I'm doing the exercises, the yoga ball, sex, raspberry leaf tea, nothing is working.

It's a bit frustrating because all the nurses and doctors have been telling me from the start I'll likely be early with this baby too since I was with the others but looks like baby wants to prove them wrong 😅

Has anyone dealt with a similar scenario? Where you were almost in labor then it all just stopped?

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u/jossur0166 — 2 months ago