u/ke1nno

Problem/Goal:
My pregnant sister told her boyfriend that he isnt the father even though he is, now, he's been going around ruining my sister and my family's image.

Context:
My sister graduated college last June while her boyfriend just started 3rd year. She found out she was pregnant earlier this month and inannounce nila to both sides of the family. Maraming disappointed pero everyone still supported them. Ang problema ngayon, nung nagusap daw sila about it, sabi ni guy is he wants to drop out to provide for his family in which hindi pumayag ate ko. Umabot sa away and iyakan kaya in the midst of emotions, sabi ni ate na it isnt his. That was kung anong nangyari sa kwento ni ate pero we don't know what really happened kasi they live together and nalaman lang namin nung nagchat boyfriend niya kay mama ng "malandi anak ninyo" and soon after umuwi si ate. Her boyfriend has been telling everyone and ayaw naman sabihin ni ate yung totoo since she doesn't want the guy to drop put daw. She's experiencing too much emotions kaya we're all worried about the baby especially na first trimester pa lang. Here's the thing though, my father owns a very well known company here in our place kaya nasisiraan na rin work life ni papa. It got to a point that someone spray painted his car with "(my sister's name) pokpok" and people have been chatting me at si mama about it. Di talaga namin alam ano gagawin and it's hurting everyone in our family including the baby.

Previous Attempts: We've tried telling her to confess or aminin sa boyfriend niya pero ayaw niya talaga since masisira lang daw buhay ni guy sa anak nila, and masyado na raw malala yung situation para aminin yung totoo.

ano po monthly expense nyo for ust shs (i passed health allied)? total expense of living, food, transpo, allowance, and other necessities po

nakapasa ako sa ust shs recently pero ayaw pa ng parents ko na magmanila ako (taga province kami) so inenroll ako sa previous school ko.

kanina, kumain kami sa resto, tas tinanong ako ng ate ko, "kamusta na sa (school) ngayon? balita ko umalis na mga magagaling na teachers." which is totoo kaya naparant ako sa ate ko. sabi ko downfall na nga ng school namin kasi this SY pa lang eh puro palpak na mga bagong teachers tas next SY eh wala na yung mga lumang teachers kaya mas papalpak nanaman. nagkwento rin ate ko ng mga experience nya nung dun pa sya nagaaral kaya patuloy lang convo namin about it. tapos itong tita ko, narinig nya, bigla nyang sinabi sa buong table, "alam nyo, kakaiba generation ng mga bata ngayon noh. mga walang respeto sa teachers, nung generation namin kahit pangit pagturo ng teachers eh, nirerespeto pa rin namin. siguro hindi lang sanay mga bagong generations mahirapan" tas tumingin sya samin ni ate. si ate naman sumagot, sabi nya hindi naman daw sa ganon pero sadyang may mga pangit talaga magturo na teachers sa school namin. yung tita ko naman sagot "di lang kayo sanay mahirapan. kami nga noon kahit may ganyan na teacher, di namin pagsasabihan, aaralin na lang namin mismo kasi may respeto kami" di na sumagot ate ko kasi nahiya na sya tas sabi sakin ni tita "oh dahil pangit na sa (school), sa ust ka na? parinig ka pa ah" tas tumawa sya. tumawa na lang sila papa kasi ang awkward na ng mood.

nakakainis lang kasi nagr'rant lang naman ako kay ate tapos makikisali sya????? tas pagsasabihan pa kami ng ganon??????