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how was your experience po? 🙏🏻 wala kasi gaanong post here abt him

Or baka may ibang alam po kayo na libre or mura, magpapa-pasta po sana 🥹

Just wondering if anyone owns that lanyard 🙏🏻 I’m willing to bili

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I’m not sure kasi if it will be available again this year

Genuinely wondering kung ano sinasabi sa driver na destination mo kapag within the campus lang din? Is it okay to assume na alam ng drivers ‘yung mga buildings or may sinasabi lang po kayo? Unless kung fixed ‘yung fare

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Just curious pls bear with me 🥹

Specifically for cbc, urinalysis, and xray. What days lang open sports complex? Thank you

if I’ll have my diagnostic tests and physical examination at UPHS, how much is the estimated amount I need to prepare? thank you!

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I've been eyeing some affordable condos preferably near UPD but the nearest ones are kinda expensive. I saw one but it's all the way to Grass Residences pa. Worth it ba mapagod sa commute:')

Or how about Sofia Bellevue? Tiring din ba commute back and forth? Hindi ba ideal lakarin? Medyo mas malapit naman siya compared to SM North

Problem/Goal: I want to hear your honest opinion about my current relationship

Context: I (F19) has been with my bf (M20) for almost 4 years now. Long story short, he kept on cheating (& microcheating) on me through the first 2 years of our relationship.

I will try my best not to defend him but I hope you understand that I am mentally unstable and was so desperate for love.

We met thru online, and ldr kami until now. We only see each other once every 2-3 months. Looking back, mas nage-gets ko pa siya kung bakit hindi niya ako kayang seryosohin noon. We were both young, immature, and desperate for someone to experience this “love” with.

Ngayon, what everyone asks me, is why I am still with him. I don’t have the courage to tell this to anyone else verbally.

First thing I see about him is how I have a bright future with him. We are stable in all aspects of life (including academically), except sa akin in the mental aspect. I can see him as the type of person na I would want to have a family with. He loves me in all ways, and that is even an understatement. I slowly adapted this mindset of being hopeless sa mga lalaki nowadays:( I am scared of thinking about trying with a new person again, then getting hurt, again and again. shamefully I have this “I can fix him” mindset, kasi I would rather that than gamble on getting hurt with new guys na wala namang maaambag sa buhay ko..

sa last cheating niya, ni-cut off ko na lahat connections namin. then my friends keep on seeing him waiting outside a fast food resto for hours. not to persuade or force me, but just because he wanted to see me raw (i learned this from a letter he made for me na late ko nabasa).

kung wala ‘yung cheating part, he is the ideal man not just for me but im sure to other girls din. he is soft-spoken, never gets mad at me, never raised his voice at me, a gentleman, a man who has plans in life na i am included, and sooo on. i know bare minimums lang nabanggit ko but there are more than that.

about my mental health naman, I used to have everyday flashbacks and breakdowns about our relationship, every single day:( it was during our first year together. but I am aware na I am much more than who I was back then. kaya honestly it doesn’t hurt me anymore

Before I committed myself in this relationship (ulit) noon, I kept in mind na to forget is to forgive. Ngayon, it kind of feels nothing na, kasi okay na okay kami ngayon. to be honest I have no doubts, no overthinking for more than a year na. I feel like this is part of our adulting din haha. We started to be a lot more serious na. Super open na ng communication namin ngayon. Konting tampo, napaguusapan in a healthy way. We never had arguments, just misunderstandings na hindi kailangan pag-awayan. He is the one na nagpapakumbaba palagi, who says sorry first. Above all of that, he loves me for who I am. I started going on dates with him with no makeup, and he still adores me (even more). Always spoils me in various ways. He can handle me—my breakdowns, my sumpong, everything that I feel.

I don’t think may plano akong hiwalayan siya (unless magcheat ulit haha). But currently I am trying to value lang what I have with him:( especially I am in a new stage of my life, and he is the number one who is always there for me

hi freshie here !! I have some questions lang about dormitories in UPD

• per school year application po ba application?

• is it possible to not qualify for dorms after a s.y. due to violations? I've seen some ppl say na mas strict acacia w their violations compared to the other RH, is it still the same until now?

• is it allowed to bring some furniture like shelf rack, cabinet, desk, etc. (I'm planning to apply sa acacia and halos walang furniture)

• (related to the previous question) is it hassle to do so kasi afaik parang may maintenance ang dorms kada s.y.?

• may pest issues po ba? genuine concern lang HUHU may phobia po ako sa ipis 

I would love to hear current dormers' experiences in any RH! because posts abt dormitories here in upd are at least a year ago. I am still undecided kasi kung mag-rent na lang outside the campus. I kind of find it a hassle na mag-moveout ng mga gamit every, year plus the uncertainty to maintain your slot. However, parang mahirap na maghanap ng mare-rent outside the campus na less than 5k kaya I'm heavily considering the in campus dormitories if it's worth it. Thank you!

I currently have a problem choosing between UPD (European Languages) and Benilde (IHM).

IHM is my dreaaam program especially after learning na I'll also get a degree in French. Is it worth it to pursue assuming na I'll get 100% scholarship? Miscellanous na lang magiging concern if ever but I'm applying for government scholarships din naman.

I attended AKIC campus tour noon and nasilaw ako sa facilities ng Benilde. I am also looking for international opportunities (which they marketed), especially their networking.

However, everyone is telling me to choose UPD. But I am still undecided if I should let go my dream program that easily

I got into my first program choice: AB European Languages. However, I am a really, really passionate student in the hospitality industry:'( my dream program is in Benilde which is International Hospitality Management, and to add, I will also get a degree in French in that program (which is 'yung habol ko rin sa euro languages).

The problem is, mas gusto ako ng family ko sa UP especially my ate na magpapaaral sa akin, kasi of course no tuition but you will still get a quality education. Parang wala akong karapatan magreklamo, kasi UP na 'yan eh:')

I am waiting pa for the results ng scholarship sa Benilde. But I think na kahit makakuha ako ng 100% grant is hindi pa rin ako masu-support ng family ko kasi may mga miscellaneous fee pa. Especially 'yung tour fees namin, although hindi naman talaga mandatory sumama sa tours so I think I can convince them pa on this one.

Nakakatampo lang din isipin na they are paying for my kuya's tuition fee in a private univ, pero sa akin na mawa-waive na 'yung tuition fees, hindi pa rin ma-support. Pero yeah at the end of the day sila naman nagpapaaral sa akin.

I don't know if I should fight for it kasi that's what my heart screams

ikamamatay ko ba kung mag-uwian ako from taytay to upd hahaha

nakakatakot kasi mag-dorm pero at the same time ang hirap mag-commute araw-araw nang gano’n. sayang ‘yung pagod and time na nagpapahinga na lang sana ako instead

natatakot ako mag-dorm in terms ng mga magiging roommates ko. mahal kasi mag-solo dorm kaya ayon lang talaga options ko if ever.

my other option is mag-dorm kasama ‘yung guy friend ko (my vvv close friend) kaso may bf ako and i know it will definitely make my bf uncomfortable. friend niya rin naman ‘yung guy friend ko na ‘yon. should i talk him out of it?