u/kittykats1111

I’ve been tracking my cycle for a bit now and I don’t think I’ve had a single positive ovulation test, I fell pregnant in march of this year.. ended having an ectopic pregnancy that almost killed me. It was my first pregnancy, and honestly it traumatized me. Since then I haven’t had a positive ovulation result. I have insulin resistance and I’m not sure if that had anything to do with it. At the time I fell pregnant I was watching what I ate very closely and I’m trying that again. It just so upsetting :(

Myself (25) and my bf (28 M) have been left out of plans for my best friends birthday plans. I’ve been friends with them for 7 years now, we do a lot together. My bf and them work together and are close as well. I was talking to other friends about plans for their birthday when it came up that they already had plans. Plans we’ve been wanting to do for months now. Our friend again works with my bf and hasn’t mentioned these plans at all to either of us. My other friends are the ones who bought it up after I tried to plan something for their birthday with them. We’re confused because we hang out often and we don’t have issues. And we’re totally cool if she just told us about the plans and gave an explanation on why she didn’t want us to go. But finding out like that kinda hurt. We feel like it seemed intentional that they kept plans from us, and we’re not the type to be butt hurt about not being invited to things but straight up leaving us out of even the idea kinda sucks. Are we being too sensitive? Do we have a right to be upset?

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I (25 F) am struggling so hard. I’ve always have had eating disorders. I ate a lot as a child, lost weight when I was in my mid teens due to a low carb diet I was up on then gained 2x it back, early 20s same thing lost a bunch of weight then bounced back 10x harder. It’s the most I’ve lost control of myself, I can’t fall asleep at night with anything easy to make in the house because I’ll sleep walk to eat it. I’ve tried locks :/ I was out on Vyvanse that helped for a bit but stopped. My doctor was always late calling my prescription in so I had withdrawals and stopped. I recently started again and it helped me lose 40 pounds which was amazing. But the same thing it works for like a few hours then stops. A constant food noise that just won’t stop I don’t wanna gain that 40 back my body feels the repercussions of what that weight did and I’m in pain everyday. Im not sure what to do anymore, sometimes I just wanna let myself go and just hate myself. Because I always tell myself I’ll do better, fight harder, and I never do.

Hi y’all, I need some advice. I used to have a huge spending money addiction in the past that has led to an accumulate of debt. I’m now 25 and I’ve paid almost everything off. This is where it gets weird for me . I’m a huge collector. I collect things from a few different genres, but unfortunately, one of them can be really expensive. I left home and started getting my own money, I went crazy. Because when I was younger, I literally didn’t get anything I wanted. I started buying things that I didn’t necessarily want or need. But the difference here is these are things I wanted for years. Years of searching, hunting, and together putting a list together things that dream of having. And I’ve recently found something I’ve been looking for for years. For most people a set of rings for $150 is absolutely bonkers. I’m never in a state where I can financially afford my collection, but somehow someway I always do. I don’t buy things too impulsively. I try not too at least. But at what point do I allow myself to get something? At what point can I get something without feeling guilty? Cause I just feel like there’s always a bill that needs to be paid, something else more important to get. But collecting genuinely makes me happy. Years of spending money addiction makes it so hard to not feel guilty and devastated by myself when I buy anything. For granted I get myself things a-lot of the time. I’m just kinda confused. My brain even gets panicked about buying things I need. It’s exhausting fighting these two demons.