u/kylaisjadedagain

i'm a femme and i love love love being girly and everything that's feminine. and my type is also nearly completely femmes. how do i figure out if another feminine girl is wlw? and what can i do to make sure other girls know i like girls too?

i adore women in general but to me there's nothing better to me than seeing a pretty femme in dresses and heels and makeup and long hair, it's always my favorite kind of girl. which is great but the problem for me is that it's really hard to tell if a girl that feminine likes girls. which is also an issue with me because i really don't think i look gay and i have no interest in changing my style because i LOVE being a girl and being girly. how can i go about starting a femme4femme convo other than hinge/tinder?

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u/kylaisjadedagain — 7 days ago

this is your daily reminder that manifesting works.

lately i have gone through a lot medically and it has changed my whole perspective on life and everything, even though i struggle with mental health and have for 8/9 years, so i am not known to be a happy person. i had previously tried manifesting and could never get any major results. i believed in its potential to work but i never put enough confidence in it. within the past few months, i have been more successful than ever. my mother calls me her good luck charm lately, because lately i've manifested our teams winning hockey/baseball games. she laughs and thinks it's a coincidence but i know it's manifesting. the key to literally everything for me is just the "i am" mindset. i have also made some changes to myself and my life. i've tried more to hear other people out and give compliments and say nice things i think instead of keeping them to myself. i try harder than ever to make others happy. i have noticed life itself being kinder to me. i am very chronically ill and suffer with being treated badly by my doctors and other medical workers. last month i had the kindest ultrasound tech who diagnosed me with a condition requiring surgery next month, and recently i went to the hospital for it and ended up needing emergency surgery, and the entire time i was in the hospital, i literally felt like i was treated like i was famous or something. everyone went out of their way to be so kind to me and i was validated. the image included is what i manifested today. i have been asking for a macbook for my birthday (literally a month away) and was basically getting told it wasn't that big of a possibility. today i woke up and said "something good is going to happen to me today." i kept that mindset all day and literally had an amazing day. i kept finding myself thinking "please can it be the computer?" and every time i catch myself saying "i want" and "i hope", i have firmly thought "no, i AM." or "no, i WILL." i do feel another thing that works great is that when you're trying to manifest a singular item, specifically something larger or more expensive/more difficult to obtain, you make sure to say "while i believe i will achieve this today (or whenever you state, next week, soon, etc.), if i do not get it, i won't lose hope. it will come to me when it is supposed to." the most important thing is literally do not lose hope. at the end of the day i told my mom i had pain and she not only offered to literally leave the house to get me midol, but to pick up the computer. after basically giving me signs it probably wouldn't happen, and "even if it does, you wouldn't get it early." when she came home and gave it to me, i was absolutely shocked and immediately realized that there are so many things we can control in life. i fully do believe that manifesting does not work the same for people who are genuinely horrible people with no morals, and are unkind. be good. and not just for the reward. i find things are so different if you actually realise how amazing kindness is. and of course i'm familiar with the fact that bad things happen to good people. manifesting is very specific. focusing on manifesting things for yourself mostly, or people very close in your life. start small. i cannot stress this enough but DO NOT GIVE UP. you don't even have to be overconfident. literally you can even fake it until you make it, unless you show negativity about the situation and make it obvious you aren't attracting that into your life. i am beyond excited and didn't even know where to post this because literally nobody in my life believes in manifesting, i'm working on getting my mom to believe me, since she is basically watching me do these things (i live with my parents).

TL;DR
this post is talking about how i completely manifested a brand new macbook i was "probably not" going to get at all a MONTH early from my birthday, without any complicated or crazy methods. only using "i am" technique/mindset. literally only step: woke up, said "something good is going to happen to me today." i repeated that all day and led myself into true confidence, not only got the computer, but got it TODAY! I ALSO CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH HOW BEING A GOOD PERSON AFFECTS YOUR RESULTS!! please love others and you will be shown love back, by not only the people around you but also by the earth and the universe. be kind, do affirmations, and remember, you ARE, you WILL, and you CAN! i'm hoping this is a safe space because all my friends think i'm being crazy or even joking!!

u/kylaisjadedagain — 7 days ago