Any recommendations for volunteer opportunity to meet other 20-30 year olds?

Would appreciate recs on the east side. I wanna meet people but also give back! Thanks

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u/lala_whocares — 8 days ago

Sunrise elopement help

We booked our photographer in the grand Tetons and it’ll just be us and our parents for the wedding. I am having a hard time planning sunrise elopement (which we want for the best photos) since really we just want the photos for the 2 hours but we want to include our parents too. We will have to get up at 3 to get ready for the big day but I feel bad having to inconvenience my parents. The photographer did mention we can add another hour later in the day but then we’d be kinda out of order with photos then ending at the ceremony and vows.

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u/lala_whocares — 2 months ago

Grand Tetons

We are looking to elope in grand Tetons and am a little nervous about the permit process. Has anyone gotten married there and can you share your experience with the application? I have a fear that we will be denied on the date of our choosing.

Side note any hair and makeup artists you might recommend is a bonus

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u/lala_whocares — 2 months ago

I am overwhelmed

I am a frequent lurker of this sub as well as weddingsunder10k and I am racking my brain. All I want to do is marry my fiance in some mountain with some flowers. I wanted grand tetons but it turned out that flying in and renting cars and all the above would be pretty expensive. I started looking into colorado and fell in love with crested bute but didn't realize it was a 4 hour drive from the denver airport so I am feeling silly since that is going to be a trek and we were planning on inviting some loved ones. I was looking into making this a destination wedding and footing the bill for dinner but realized in both crusted brute and grand tetons it would add a lot of cost and still wouldnt be what exactly we wanted. Thinking about not having my mom with me for this day makes me sad but I have no idea what the right answers are. Any advice on making this day easier to plan would be appreciated

Edit: we are located in Ohio

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u/lala_whocares — 3 months ago

How do you let go and let your partner pleasure you?

I 33f have been with my partner now for years and I still feel like I mentally cannot relax during sex and am nervous during sex. I can O by myself but whenever someone is with me I have a really hard time getting there. My partner is the first person I’ve ever been able to finish with but it is so far and few in between. I have my own vibe and use it with them sometimes but even then I can’t relax so it only works a small fraction of the time.

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u/lala_whocares — 3 months ago

Sister with BPD

I am 31f and my sister is 39f but this has been going on for a long time and I still struggle. My sister has always targeted me growing up aiming her rage at my parents and myself. They believe she has BPD so they accept her even though she will throw things and used to physically attack us. She is also an athlete, breaking world records, and writing a book so societies perception of her is that she is some sort of savior. I was a glasschild and I cut ties due to her abuse but whenever she gets praised I get put back into this helpless mindset. Any advice welcome.

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u/lala_whocares — 3 months ago

Sibling abusive towards me and parents overlook it since her “illness”

I am 31f and my sister is 39f but this has been going on for a long time and I still struggle. My sister has always targeted me growing up aiming her rage at my parents and myself. They believe she has BPD so they accept her even though she will throw things and used to physically attack us. She is also an athlete, breaking world records, and writing a book so societies perception of her is that she is some sort of savior. I was a glasschild and I cut ties due to her abuse but whenever she gets praised I get put back into this helpless mindset. Any advice welcome.

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u/lala_whocares — 3 months ago

Sibling abusive towards me and parents overlook it since her illness

I am 31f and my sister is 39f but this has been going on for a long time and I still struggle. My sister has always targeted me growing up aiming her rage at my parents and myself. They believe she has BPD so they accept her even though she will throw things and used to physically attack us. She is also an athlete, breaking world records, and writing a book so societies perception of her is that she is some sort of savior. I was a glasschild and I cut ties due to her abuse but whenever she gets praised I get put back into this helpless mindset. Any advice welcome.

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u/lala_whocares — 3 months ago

Having a hard time getting it right

Been constipated for years now and have been trying to figure out how to go normally. I used to not go for 5-6 days then would suddenly have a large diarrhea episode where it felt like the last few days would come out, sometimes leading to incontinence. My doctors want me going more frequently so I’ve been trying miralaax 1 capful a day, have tried to titrate down to half cap but then I don’t go and I feel backed up. Doctor wanted me to add Metamucil and currently at a tbsp a day for that. My problem is still urgency. The 1 capful miralaax makes it borderline diarrhea (Bristol type 6) and my doctor doesn’t wanna prescribe any meds to help me go. Has anyone else been like me and found something that helps? Thank you

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u/lala_whocares — 4 months ago