u/life_princy9000

What the fuq my studies has to do with my hair? You may not believe it my school has made some strict teachers the "incharges" of this retardness.

These teachers they mostly target us just because we are in 12th (turns out they did target class 8 girls but they just said "our seniors don't do it, why should we?" So now we are the usual targets.

This daily happens during our morning assembly, they make us (girls with one ponytail) stand separately from our class line and tell us to tie our hair into braids in girls washroom, if there are multiple girls, they are told to tie each other's hair.

If that wasn't enough they would sometimes call us out of the class and send us to washroom just tie our hair into braids.

One of the girls did complain to co-ordinator (academic head) and he just said that he couldn't do anything as she is senior than him.

Our principle changed too (the former principle retired tho she was helpful) now our new principle is a guy just a bit older than the co-ordinator, tho he seems to be working hard right now but we still aren't so sure that we should complain to him or not

I was SAed by my two older cousins (paternal cousins, both are brothers to each other) when I was younger, and turns out, sadly I wasn't alone, one of them didn't leave my younger cousin (we both are minors right now). That's why I am filing a complaint, I want them to rot in jail.

But then again, I can feel fingers pointing at me because, everyone in my family would probably be against the complaint, even my younger cousin, sadly she tried to tell her parents but they shut her up, saying that 'girls are below men'. Also, I won't be dialing the number because my family would hear me.

Then again, I want to save both of us, but I feel like my paternal family will probably shoo away the authorities, or protect those two bastards. And, belonging to a conservative household, it makes things worse, because I feel like they won't let the authorities enter the house or even let alone my younger cousin talk to them, because of 'purdah'. Even if they did talk to her, her parents will probably signal her to say nothing, or even she herself won't say anything just because her parents have manipulated her, even if she said anything she know she will be scolded or even beaten by her parents.

I also feel like everyone will hate me and probably try to kill me because if I did file it, I would be responsible for breaking the 'relations and respect' of my family.

I don't know what to do. Please help

I was SA by my paternal cousins (they are brothers to each other) and one of those didn't even left my younger cousin who is still under 16. I really want those bastards to die a painful death.

So I told little cousin that we can inform the authorities about this but she told me that those bastards' parents or her own parents might kill us if we ever did that. Tbh, I belong to a muslim family and lemme tell you, never have I ever seen so patriarchal shit as I have seen in my house.

I was 10 when the younger bastard did that to me, I told my mom about and she never took us there again (also my mom never lived in her sasuraal, as she already had a govt job near her own city so we would only visit them during the holidays). But she passed away when I was 13 and thats when my dad 'really missed' his brothers and their kids, and thats how my dad fucked up my life cuz the older bastard would touch me and get uncomfortably near me and my cousin younger cousin, so one day I shouted at him like an adult (that bastard was using our bedroom's bathroom when i and my sibling brother were asleep) and that's when he got annoyed and avoided me and my younger cousin, cuz I 'disrespected' him (I and my younger cousin later got scolded but I have never felt so proud in my life cuz I saved both of us at that time).

Now I will be using the e-box because my dad and my very own brother will probably stop me from doing so (I think my brother can help as he doesn't really have that retarded mindset but I feel like he fears what my dad will do to him next and how our family will be 'torn apart'). I wanna do it myself because they did nothing to save me nor did my younger cousin's parents did anything to save her. That is why I will be using the e-box cuz I dont want them to hear me if I ever made a call.

But then again, I am really afraid, what if my paternal family shooed away the authorities? What if one of those bastards run away? What if the authorites try to talk to my younger cousin, she wouldn't understand what to say, cuz she maybe her parents might signal her to shut up or to say something else? What if they don't even let her talk cuz of fucking 'purdah'? Even if I file the complaint during school days (I mean when she is in school) what if she says nothing, just to save her own 'family's dignity' ? (cuz all of my cousins, including the bastards studied in the same school).

I am really scared and I can feel fingers pointing at me already if I file the complaint but then again I wanna save her and myself. Tbh, I am kinda 'saved' as I live in a different city but my younger cousin still lives in that house, she has to wear fucking traditionals clothing 24/7 in her own house cuz of 'culture' ever since she was 9 (which I dont when I am in my own house, except when everyone around me makes me wear it when I am going out). But then again the e-box will probably ask for my number or my email and my brother always checks my email. I don't know what to do.

Also, another way my dad fucked up our lives, was by buying an house just next to that paternal house 2 years ago, now my dad is just waiting for my 12th to be over and my brother's transfer to that city, which means I will live forever near that fucking household and everyone will keep dropping to our home every fucking time. I don't think that going away for studying is not an option, again cuz of fucking purdah, and I will be forced to have long hairs and forced to wear traditionals and forced have the 'training for marriage' like cooking, washing whatever (apparently ever teen 16 year old girls should know this as the can study later).

I know this got way more long than intended, sorry for that but then again thank you for reading this, I will be more grateful I you can let me know your opinions or experiences if you ever had filed any complaint.

Most of the girls toys that you see, like dolls and kitchen sets, they were all made for girls so that they become good wives and mothers. Like every dolls ever made, girls were expected to take care of them, comb their hairs, change their clothes and play (pretend) to take act as if they are real. And kitchen sets are pretty self-explanatory. But still, this is so fucked up, boys never got toys like that (except the fact that they got more cool toys which were actually fun with no 'pretending nor imagination required) which means society always wanted women to be their slaves so men could be independent jerks. What do you guys think about this?

Most of the girls toys that you see, like dolls and kitchen sets, they were all made for girls so that they become good wives and mothers. Like every dolls ever made, girls were expected to take care of them, comb their hairs, change their clothes and play (pretend) to take act as if they are real. And kitchen sets are pretty self-explanatory. But still, this is so fucked up, boys never got toys like that (except the fact that they got more cool toys which were actually fun with no 'pretending nor imagination required) which means society always wanted women to be their slaves so men could be independent jerks. What do you guys think about this?