u/lightyagami_xyz

I’m 22M

I feel completely messed up mentally right now.
I was in a relationship with a girl for a few years. We were each other’s first for everything — first love, first kiss, first hug, first time having sex, everything.

We broke up because of family and caste issues. We still loved each other, but her parents were very strict about it. After some time, we got close again and basically stayed like a couple, even though we weren’t officially in a committed relationship anymore.

This went on for around 4 years.
Now it’s completely over. We’ve cut each other off forever. It was mutual in a way, but she was the one who really initiated it.

The problem is, I can’t develop feelings for anyone else now. No matter who I meet, I don’t feel anything. It feels like my mind only wants her, and honestly, I hate feeling this way.

I don’t hate her, and there’s no bad blood between us. I just want to forget her and move on peacefully, but right now it feels impossible.

My brain keeps telling me that I’ll never love anyone else again.

Has anyone else been through something similar?
Were you eventually able to move on and genuinely love someone else again?
How long did it take for you to stop thinking about them all the time?

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I’m 22M

I feel completely messed up mentally right now.
I was in a relationship with a girl for a few years. We were each other’s first for everything — first love, first kiss, first hug, first time having sex, everything.

We broke up because of family and caste issues. We still loved each other, but her parents were very strict about it. After some time, we got close again and basically stayed like a couple, even though we weren’t officially in a committed relationship anymore.

This went on for around 4 years.
Now it’s completely over. We’ve cut each other off forever. It was mutual in a way, but she was the one who really initiated it.

The problem is, I can’t develop feelings for anyone else now. No matter who I meet, I don’t feel anything. It feels like my mind only wants her, and honestly, I hate feeling this way.

I don’t hate her, and there’s no bad blood between us. I just want to forget her and move on peacefully, but right now it feels impossible.

My brain keeps telling me that I’ll never love anyone else again.

Has anyone else been through something similar?
Were you eventually able to move on and genuinely love someone else again?
How long did it take for you to stop thinking about them all the time?

Used AI to rephrase.

I just finished my interview of capgemini exceller which was on superset platform

Answered all the questions, questions were on -
Oops, AWS, Azure, MySQL and springboot
As it was mentioned in my resume.

I answered everything.

No coding ques were asked, no questions on my project.

The interview lasted only 11 minutes.

Will i get selected?

And I didn’t receive any mail regarding interview completion!!! Is this concerning??

I just finished my interview of capgemini exceller which was on superset platform

Answered all the questions, questions were on -
Oops, AWS, Azure, MySQL and springboot
As it was mentioned in my resume.

I answered everything.

No coding ques were asked, no questions on my project.

The interview lasted only 11 minutes.

Will i get selected?

And I didn’t receive any mail regarding interview completion!!! Is this concerning??

I have capgemini exceller 2025-26 interview tomorrow. On-campus in superset.

My pto is telling that if we clear interview we have to pay 20k and take the training from an institute and give an exam clear it and then join the company.

If we get selected we have to accept the LOI and flow this procedure and if we don’t follow this or accept the LOI, then we have to pay the fine of 40k

So decided not to attend the interview itself.
Is this true, did u guys also have the same procedure???

Or it’s just my college scamming us?

I have capgemini exceller 2025-26 interview tomorrow. On-campus in superset.

My pto is telling that if we clear interview we have to pay 20k and take the training from an institute our college tells and give an exam clear it and then join the company.

If we get selected we have to accept the LOI and flow this procedure and if we don’t follow this or accept the LOI, then we have to pay the fine of 40k

So decided not to attend the interview itself.
Is this true, did u guys also have the same procedure???

Or it’s just my college scamming us?

I have capgemini exceller 2025-26 interview tomorrow. On-campus in superset.
My pto is telling that if we clear interview we have to pay 20k and take the training and then join the company.
If we get selected we have to accept the LOI and flow this procedure and if we don’t follow this, then we have to pay the fine of 40k
So decided not to attend the interview itself.
Is this true, did u guys also have the same procedure???

I mean in social media it’s shown like there are lots of couples in Bangalore, usage of dating apps is way too common.

Is it true??
I’m not from Bangalore I’m just visiting for few days so thought to install few dating apps n use them.
I’m 22 I look decent I’m 5’10 with some decent looks more than average maybe.

I don’t live in metropolitan city so I’ve never used these apps before.
So is it really worth? Should I try these apps or it’s just waste of time?

And I know about these dating pub/cafe scams I’ll not fall for it!!

I have upcoming interview for Capgemini exceller 25-26 (on campus opportunity) in superset. So few students from my college are saying that we have to pay for the training after getting placed.
Is it true??