u/lizpie1230

Y’all who the heck is playing loud ass music (mind you not very good either) until 2-3am near 2nd ave and 102nd st??? Like it’s happened the last 3 weekends Friday-Sunday non-stop then people are like screaming in the street and the block looks a mess the next day. I don’t want to call the cops but like idk what to do anymore, everyone in my home can’t sleep (also have a baby that needs sleep) it’s so loud and my neighbors are also losing sleep too. Any advice??? (If you’re the person doing this pls stop raging every weekend, there’s other people that live here)

Hey all! Like the title says I’m getting a 5 week/6 week kitten that will be more than likely weaned from their mother. I don’t agree that baby is being taken away from their mom this soon, but the person is insistent I take the cat or they will give it to someone else. (Either way kitten being taken away from momma) I am stressed in the club about this because I’ve been reading everywhere that they shouldn’t be taken away from their mom at a minimum of 8 weeks.

If this person gets the kitten on solids 100% of the time, should I still be feeding her formula? I do have a vet that I am going to call, once I get said kitten but I’m really freaking out and looking for any advice. I’m also nervous about leaving her alone for too long (the longest will be 5/6 hours)

(For more context: I have two other cats that I got at 3 & 4 months old but are 5 years old now)

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Hi all! How’s the tail says, I think I need to break up with my therapist. They’re wonderful and our sessions have been great but the modality of therapy I don’t think fits the kind of support/process processing I need. I have been seeing them since October and we do IFS. I have BPD, CPTSD, and ADHD for context. I really appreciate the support they’ve given me and we have a great therapeutic relationship so I’m very nervous to end seeing them. I think I don’t do well with splitting up parts of myself into “characters” especially as someone who feels so disconnected from themself. My goal is to do trauma processing and really reconnect with myself, but I don’t know what to do about my current therapist, I’ve never broken up with a therapist before, I’ve only ghosted to them and that never feels right.

I also feel bad because I’ve only been seeing them for a few months, I feel like I failed at therapy.

I’m currently in a masters program and I’m due to finish next year. I’m incredibly nervous that I’ll absolutely tank and fail out (if I even get in). I was diagnosed at 23 after leaving law school (bad grades) and started my current masters program this past year and have a 3.96 gpa (I’m 28).

I’m wondering if there’s anyone here who has successfully completed a PhD program and what did you get your PhD in? How did you cope and be successful in the program?