u/looklikejackieo

I am the same online as I am in person. I don’t have the energy or care to be someone else. I’m worn out from the d picts and those that are seeking to only see my naked body… I want conversations and laughter. I’m married, don’t care if you are or aren’t… I’ve had several long term chats with men that turn out to be exactly who they say they aren’t…if you are normal and understanding maybe we can chat… I look like my handle

I don’t know where to begin. I feel like this is the road we are heading down. There is no communicating with him.
My nervous system cannot relax, I’m
Always on high alert with him. He doesn’t want me to explain anything … or speak my feelings. He will not make this easy and that makes me want to die. I want peace. He wants war. I feel alone. I’m too embarrassed to tell family and friends.

My kids are independent now. Since this happened I have realized that I was going through the motions and asked for nothing. Now that I have time I realize how little my husband takes my needs into consideration even when o express my wishes from the thermostat to the bedroom. He doesn’t make any attempt to adjust or care …This has lead to a huge realization that I’ve just done everything to keep the peace and haven’t had a partner … at all. Now I’m just done. Like literally checked out. I don’t think there is anything to change it… I suddenly understand why people divorce after 30 yrs of marriage.

TLDR: Husband ignores wife’s needs and wife is totally checked out … wants out

I saw this on Pinterest and thought it was so good! 😊
For context … people watching would be yelling “get a divorce!” If I was watching my friends movie it would be “don’t do it! “

Sometimes people just share things hoping others relate. Not necessarily because they seek advice or opinions… there are other places for advice and opinions…

Does anyone else get tired of it? You talk to someone for a while it’s great, then they turn weird and you have to cut it off with them or they ghost …😵‍💫 sometimes I just want to know why they ghost yet I don’t want to hurt feelings on why I leave them 🙃

Meet people it’s great chat a few months then either they ghost you or they turn weird and you have to end it… anyone else ?
Edit * I’ve been ghosted once and then pushed to end one other time .. not that I get ghosted a lot just tired of knowing people five minutes then onto the next like speed dating but worse