u/lurkynic

I have guests coming over for a few days and one of them has pretty bad tremors. Eating is difficult and sometimes messy (which is totally okay). What meals do you think would be the easiest for her?

To paint the scene, we are at the in-laws for a Father’s Day pool party. My two kids, 5 and 10, are swimming, four other kids that aren’t mine are also swimming. My 5 year old cannot swim if dropped off the deep end, so she still wears a life jacket, although she can float on her back. My husband said she would “figure it out” if she slipped down the slippery ramp in the pool if couldn’t touch anymore. This makes me sick. He will never swim with them without me being there.

Anyway, everyone is sitting about 30 yards from the pool in the shade. I decide to sit next to pool (in the 90° heat. Yeah, mind you, I’m pretty damn hot), but I want all of these kids having supervision - especially seeing the older kids play chicken and one almost falling backwards against the concrete edge of the pool.

When we got back in the car, my husband said I was rude and stuck up for not sitting with the rest of the adults, seemingly “ignoring” them. AITA?

My parents were with us visiting and my husband told our 10 year old son that he can do a front-wheelie on his bike. He insisted on showing him. All of us told him not to, including our son. As a surprise to nobody, he front flips the bike onto his fucking head. 40 year old man that’s overweight and hasn’t done a single workout in ten years, mind you (a long lasting concern in our marriage). He knocks himself unconscious and there’s blood everywhere. He had no idea what happened and couldn’t move or walk.

I took him to the ER and he has a fractured face and an obvious concussion. His eye is swollen shut and the entire right side of his face is full of road rash and multiple gashes. Our son was a mess, and was terrified the entire time. This also sets us back financially. I’m pissed.

He wants to go out today (Sunday) to do a few things with the family and I told him that I don’t want to be out with him, especially when he told me he physically can’t help with breakfast for the kids. He looks ridiculous. All of this could have been avoided. I don’t want to be anywhere near him. AITAH?