u/makeupnerd221

Hey guys,

So I had reoccurring c-diff back in 2024 and it wasn’t until I had Rebyota via enema back in November of 2024 when I was finally back to normal and better than ever.

Today, I got a message from my doctor after having a rash on my right labia for quite some time and them swabbing it and it turns out I tested positive for a pseudomonas infection which is apparently very antibiotic resistant and requires strong antibiotics which could bring my c-diff back.

I’m debating making an appointment with my primary care doctor and asking for a prophylactic vanco prescription to take along with the antibiotics so I never have to go through this again.

Thoughts?? I’m genuinely worried because I’m afraid of losing my job over getting another c-diff infection because this happened before.

So I (25F) befriended this girl (26F) on instagram who lived in the same area as me and we started facetiming.

During this facetime call, she started trauma dumping about her husband (24M) and his sexual past along with his drug addiction issues.

At one point, I got to talk to the guy and it turns out that we went to high school together. I mentioned that a mutual friend of ours (25F) is expecting with her husband and my new friend jokingly was like “did you guys fuck or something” and the thing is….they kinda did.

I have a terrible poker face and I cannot lie for the life of me, so I casually mentioned it. I honestly thought this would be fine because she knew her husband used to be a “fuck boy” back in the day and this happened over 10 years ago.

The next day, she texted me, letting me know that me mentioning what I mentioned to her did a number on her mental health and she couldn’t be friends with someone that knew her husband, because she didn’t like hearing about his past and basically cut me off.

I honestly felt like a dick for bringing it up after that, but a lot of people are telling me that based on her trauma dumping about her husband like that and where the topic was heading, me mentioning that he used to be sexual with a friend of mine from high school shouldn’t have made her so insecure.

I still feel like a dick for doing it and I’ve apologized to her about it, but many of my other friends are on my side about this and are telling me she overreacted and it was her problem.

I wanted to see what you guys thought about this. AITAH for bringing this up and causing a huge fallout in a newly developed friendship like that?