u/marijuanabebe

Anyways since I'm already posting. I'd also ask how did you guys realise that you want to be CF. I'm mostly on fence, and mostly I don't want a child but still if in the future I were to have kids it'll mostly depend on my​ financial security, emotional well-being etc and same goes for my partner.

I think Indian cafe house acha hai but konsa wala best hai? 😋🤭

Like, recently i was talking with someone. We were discussing about recent Jupiter Transit in cancer. And I have Jupiter in 12th house in cancer sign.

And that person told me, I probably was attached to some institution in the past life, or I was highly knowledgeable and skilled in my endeavour.

I was like cool. But I can't stop thinking about it.

Can we actually figure out our past life and past life karma ​through our chart itself?

(tldr, scroll down)

Recently my younger sister is visiting our relatives and during gossips she got to know about something.

Around March this year, my maternal aunt and her husband had visited us, they also have a 4 years old daughter. And my another maternal aunt and grandmother was also at our house. Now since it was already March I had started wearing shorts at home, mind you I never wear them outside just inside my house. Those shorts were around my lower thighs so I didn't think much about it. Also I have a younger brother and our house environment is very nice and our mother never controls what we wear.

Now, my sister got to know that my aunt's husband (they usually stay at our house when traveling from their city to Mumbai because he is suffering from cancer and his treatment is going on in Mumbai, so in a year they at most come to our house 4-5 times and stay for about a week) said to my aunt(his wife) that he feels uncomfortable about me wearing shorts. She didn't tell me explicitly instead she told my another aunt who according to them told me to change into something "more proper". Tbh I don't really remember what actually happened.

But what made me extremely uncomfortable is that this man is 55+ and I'm 23, they got married when I was just 11. He practically watched me grow up and yet his thinking is like this. Specially when my aunt constantly reminds us that her husband is very respectful and never looks at anyone in a bad way.

Am I wrong for wearing what I like, and what I feel comfortable in, that too in my own house? I don't really interact with him much. I mind my own business stay in my room. Yet hearing such comments make me feel really bad.

Not to mention, their 4 yo daughter is adopted and he still hasn't accepted her as his own whole heartedly.

Tldr; got to know that my aunt's husband feels uncomfortable about me wearing shorts at my own house when he was visiting us during his ongoing treatment.