New Ascent Owner as a Subie Lifer

New Ascent Owner as a Subie Lifer

Hey all! First post here 😅

I honestly didn’t expect to want an Ascent. I have had two Outbacks, a 1999 and a 2014. I’ve been dreaming about getting a Crosstrek for a few years now & knew my Outback was getting to the point where I should trade in…

I test drove a Crosstrek and an Ascent, since my husband was interested in its towing capacity. We knew we wanted a Crosstrek and an Ascent eventually, but since I was partial to the Crosstrek, I didn’t think I’d enjoy the Ascent as much as I did. I freaking loved it and couldn’t stop thinking about it after driving it. So much so that I began doing hours of searching for gently used Ascents (2024 or 2025) in my area.

I’ve never consistently driven a vehicle this large, but I don’t mind its size. All the features are so futuristic and amazing (which I know a newer Crosstrek would have had as well). But I just cannot get over this car. The fact that it bypassed my dream car is insane to me, since the Crosstrek has been on my vision board for years.

I don’t really have any purpose for posting this, other than the fact that I’m super happy with this vehicle. I’ve had it almost a week now and I keep wanting to just go drive around after work (I always hated night driving but these headlights are so insane that I don’t mind night driving now).

My husband and I are about to take a 1-week trip to some national parks and we are sooo excited to have this car to do it in. I kid you not, even my dog seems to love it. 🤣

I’m pretty sure we’ll just end up with two Subaru Ascents when it’s time to trade in hubby’s car because I don’t know if I’d want the Crosstrek now 😅😅

u/markofdestiny1111 — 14 days ago

gluten-free recommendations

I’ve been eating low carb to reverse PCOS, but struggle some days when busy with lack of convenience/fast options that are gluten free.

Any suggestions are helpful! Breads, pasta, etc that’s low carb but also GF!

I can’t have gluten due to an intolerance.

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u/markofdestiny1111 — 1 month ago

Non-verbal moments

I’m wondering if anyone has worked with anyone with autism (or suspected autism) and has their client go non-verbal during session.

Sometimes this can look like saying “I don’t know” over and over again, which is more of a slightly verbal state.

I’m curious, if you’ve had this happen, how did you handle it?

I make use of the chat function if accessible, or nod/shake head to answer questions, and have a conversation with this nonverbal “part” as if it’s a protector part. This has had wonderful results for me, as the client is then able to describe what that mind state is like for them.

I’m also able to relate (as an autistic person) and say something like “when I get nonverbal, it’s so frustrating because it’s like my brain is in a cage with all these thoughts going through it but I can’t make them go out of my mouth. Is that kind of what it feels like for you?” Or just ask if they’re feeling frustrated with their brain (head nod or shake as answer) or overwhelmed etc.

But I’m open to other ways of going about this! I mostly work with ADHD/ASD/OCD folks with complex trauma.

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u/markofdestiny1111 — 1 month ago

I don’t think I can be friends with anyone but Capricorns anymore

I’ve historically been friends with a lot of Leos, Cancers, Libras, and Virgos.

Leo’s started PMO badly this year, libras are too wishy-washy and unstable, cancers have been historically immature in my experience, and Virgos are cool but not as motivated as a Capricorn.

Oh and I’ve dated mostly Taurus men, even married one 😭 Which was cool until it wasn’t (too extremely unmotivated).

I feel like I’m losing my mind in the friendship realm. Are my standards too high? I’ve pulled away from most of my friends at this point basically because I feel that no one wants the things I want in life & they don’t understand or support my drive.

Like I want a friend who wants to meet me at the gym at 6am or do a sunset yoga class or work on projects at the same time as me and dream up a ton of business ideas and manifest money ugh.

Idk man maybe I’m crazy, but I suspect I’m not the only one to feel this way.

Sun: cap, obvi. Moon: Libra. Rising: Virgo.

Age: 31.

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u/markofdestiny1111 — 1 month ago

No straightforward way to reverse this disease.

I’ve tried it all (except GLP1s). Low carb. No dairy or gluten or sugar. Cycle syncing. Working out a ton. Doing low-impact exercises. Weight lifting. Walking multiple times a day. Hundreds of dollars on supplements. I’ve lowered my stress levels significantly.

I hate that the recommendations for PCOS are walk 3X a day after meals, plate method, low carb, take 5 different supplements throughout the day, etc etc etc

So this thing that I got from being chronically stressed requires me to do 182973 stressful things to reverse?

I’m scared of GLP1s because I already have stomach issues but I’m tired and I just can’t keep fighting this hard all the time to see barely 5lbs of change.

u/markofdestiny1111 — 1 month ago

Sealing Untreated Wood HELP

I accidentally bought untreated wood and I’m going to put together a window greenhouse… I want to paint it kind of like this but ideally I’d like to paint the wood a fun color as well.

Foolishly, I bought Thompson’s Waterseal, thinking I could use it as a clear coat before painting the wood, or use it after painting the wood.

Any ideas on what I should do to prolong the life of the wood? I can’t really return the wood at this point, but I could return the Thompson’s WS.

Worst case scenario, I’ll only paint the windows.

u/markofdestiny1111 — 4 months ago

I inherited this home in December and the family member who left it to me was a bit of a pack rat. Another family member is the executor of the will and I’m wondering, how much time do they have to come get things out of the house before I can just get rid of it? The executor is making things very difficult for me and being downright awful, refusing to communicate or set up a plan.

Help? I’m in Michigan for reference. I’m struggling to find the laws that apply based on the ladybird deed.

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u/markofdestiny1111 — 5 months ago

Red line is where I want to put the fence, just around the back yard.

I have been told there is drain field in the back by where the clothes line is (which is where my property ends) but not confirmed. Would I be safe to dig holes for my fence here?

I did call Mis-dig and had them stake the yard for electrical and gas lines so I’m at least cleared there!

u/markofdestiny1111 — 6 months ago

I don’t know if anyone has had this happen, but I went to open the app today and it had my old card connected (from before I moved cities).

I deleted the old card info and put my new card info back in and it won’t let me log in. It tells me it will open a different website to log in, which is what it normally does. I log into my library with my card info and then it doesn’t move the info back to the Libby app and gives me an error code.

You can see it’s clearly logging me into my library account??!?

Has this happened to you? How did you resolve it!? I tried restarting my phone, and I deleted the app and reinstalled it. There are no updates to install.

Please help me, I am going to scream 😭

u/markofdestiny1111 — 6 months ago