u/minnaminnii

So I see a lot of guys on this subreddit saying things like, "I got rejected because of my looks." "Looks are everything." "If you're not attractive, it's over." Blah Blah. Here's the truth, guys.

Looks matter to some women. Let's face it. That's the reality. But for many others, personality, confidence, ambition, emotional maturity, and stability matter just as much.

Women aren't a monolithic group. They don't all want the same man or value the same traits. So stop letting random people on the internet convince you that your fate was decided by your face.

As i understand it, dating is a game of probability. The more people you meet, the more chances you give yourself to find someone who's genuinely into you. Keep shooting your shot, guys. Someone out there is looking for exactly what you bring to the table.

You're a man ffs. The world is your oyster.

Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.

Guys , currently I have allocated it as follows:-

1500- UTI Nifty Fund

1500- Parag Parikh Flexi cap

Risk Appetite:- Moderate

Investment horizon 5-10 years.

I have been thinking of reallocating this 3k into a single fund instead of 2. If that is the case, which is the fund you suggest? Is multi asset good?

Hi guys....So my brother recently got divorced and it's honestly messed with my head.

We knew there were issues in the marriage. But only recently did he tell our parents about the disrespect, the constant fights, and even physical abuse that he had been putting up with for almost two years.

Tbh, now the entire concept of marriage just scares sh*t out of me. I know there are good women out there. But seeing what happened to my brother has made me realize how much can be at stake when you get it wrong.

I know many will say divorce is pretty common these days, and when it's happening to other people it's easy to think of it as just another statistic. But when it happens in your own family, and you see what someone you love actually went through, it hits differently.

Now I genuinely wonder if marriage is a risk I even want to take.

3,4,4,4 guys, failed royally. I had actually registered in a haste because of frustration from my job, but i didn't even read a single page of FRM before writing the exam. Should I even re-attempt? Is there a chance of clearing at least by May 2027 if I start preparing seriously?

I genuinely don't understand this.

FRM is a fully computer based, MCQ exam. The answers are already recorded digitally the moment we click submit. Yet candidates have to wait weeks for results, and often GARP doesn't even provide a specific result date in advance.

Meanwhile, I wrote JAIIB last year (a much smaller, local banking certification exam in India), and the result was shown immediately after submitting the exam. You walk out knowing whether you passed or failed.

I'm not even asking for an instant score report like some other professional exams provide. But why can't an international certification body at least announce a fixed result date beforehand?

Can someone explain the rationale behind this? Is there some statistical analysis or grading process happening in the background that genuinely requires this much time, or is it simply how these professional certification bodies operate?

Are the results for L1 yet out guys?

I was planning buying Ntorq RaceXP .... which is priced at around 1.2 lakhs. Is it a good option guys? Can you guys suggest better? I'm sceptical about buying electric scooters.

Guys,

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Amma kazhinja divasam ambalathil poyappol poojari oru charadu koduthirunnu. Veetil vannappol amma ath kettan paranju. Njan valiya religious onnum alla, paksha kettiyilengi veruthe ammayude vaayil ullath muzhuvan kekkanam..

So veruthe ammaye disappoint cheyyanda enn vicharich njan ath ketti.

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Kazhinja divasam officeil lunch breakil irikkumbol ente senior colleague chechi ente charadu notice cheythu. Onnum chodichilla, paksha kurachu neram idaykkidaykku enne nokkunna oru prathyeka look undayirunnu. Entho enne judge cheyyunna pole thonni. Maybe njan overthink cheyyunnathavum, paksha aa look kandappol angane aanu feel cheythath. 😅

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Njan angane politics onnum follow cheyaarila guys...ith vare vote polum cheythittila....it is so annoying when someone judges you in 2 mins.. without even knowing the whole story behind it. 😭😭 Oru charadu kandittu aalukal nammale kurich assumptions undakkarundo? Or am i overreacting? 😭