u/nanabreadeater

Ever since moving from north jersey i cant find a good curly hairstylist with reasonable prices. I live in Trenton so if anyone has any reqs send em my way.

This is the second time my bf has sent me something to pick up off Facebook marketplace. The first thing I picked up but today I was just not in the mood after just getting my period and not really feeling the 20 min drive. When he asked me I said sure which was my mistake because deep down I didn’t want to. But I was just hoping bf that the seller wouldn’t respond. I told him they didn’t respond and asked if he messaged them. After a bit the seller ended up responding and I kind of ignored it for a little since I was doing something and the item sold. My bf was at work when this happened and when I called him after work he was really upset and mad because he didn’t ask me any questions about my day or anything and just spoke about the blender and if I was even busy. I told him I’m sorry a few times and offered to buy him one but he said it’s not the same because it won’t be as good of a deal. I feel really bad but I really wasn’t feeling like getting it and maybe I didn’t think it would be as big of a deal because I wouldn’t expect him to spontaneously drive to get something for me on his day off. I feel like he’s not going to let go of this

I’m 24 f. I’ve worked in restaurants for 10 years and became the pastry chef at a fine dining restaurant. Now I don’t work there anymore and have had a simple job at a health food store so I could get over the burnout of the industry. I met someone and they’ve become my first bf. He’s really nice to me and we spend a lot of time together. We usually cook and go thrifting together or go to the gym. He was also my inspiration to finally start some courses for a nursing degree. I had been thinking of it so long but couldn’t start with my long hours in the kitchen. My grandma was one and was one of my biggest inspirations and would always tell me I’d make a great one while I was nursing her from home. I also love senior citizens and feel so much for them. I started and it’s been really hard since I started with algebra and statics which is not great for me since I am absolutely horrible at math. He tried tutoring me and said it was really bad and asked why I signed up for algebra if I know I can’t do it and probably need to take pre algebra. But it’s too late and taking pre algebra means $600 more. I basically feel like I’m going to fail unless I spend every waking minute. He seems really rushed on getting the degree himself and is pushing that on me because he wants to settle down in a few years. I’m getting very anxious about it and would rather take the pressure off and not get upset if it takes a bit longer. I can just work really hard like I have the past few years on the side until I get my degree. I told him that I can do that and he said “it’s easier to get the hard work done now so you don’t have to worry” but I feel like I am working hard and my entire 20s have been a period of hard work so far. His mom also pushes education on him and the first time I met her she asked me what I do and kept bringing up going to school and having money. She also brought up her niece that became a nurse at 22. But didn’t seem too interested in my character. But I think she might’ve been basing character on school/ job title, or achievements she believes are respectable. I feel nervous he’s only with me for what he sees I could be. Before I met his parents he said they’ll be ok meeting me as long as I’m studying towards something so that all that matters. I’m just feeling weird about this. I’m not great in school and while I want to be a nurse I feel a lot of pressure and judgment from him to get it done in a certain amount of time. I don’t think he really sees good careers as “real jobs”. I was crying last night because I feel like he probably thinks I’m an idiot and that im not trying hard enough.

M 26 f 25 Recently I got a really nice pizza oven which has been so much fun. My bfs birthday is this month and he decided he wants to have a bday party with my pizza oven where everyone makes their own pizza. At first I was skeptical about making pizza for 15-20 and wasn’t even considering doing it for my own bday but I wanted to make him happy. So he made a invitation and there’s almost 30 people that could be going. I’m not happy about this. I’m a chef so I know I am capable of this but it stops being a fun little thing to do when you pass 10 people. He also said he will make all the pizzas if I don’t feel like it but that’s not ok either because that oven is my baby and I don’t want people to f it up. He also chose a day where I had work the next morning and set it for that even though I said that was not going to be good for me since I’m going to be tired and probably have to drive 45 minutes home that night at like 10-11 since I doubt his parents would let me stay over. (I ended up getting that day off now but it made me mad that he went along with that date knowing I didn’t like it) It pissed me off because he was prioritizing his friends availability over my comfort when the whole theme of the party is around my skills and equipment if it was a normal party I wouldn’t care. I said we should just order pizzas and then he said that doesn’t really count as a pizza party. Anyway not looking forward to it it’s been pissing me off all week. Also not sure why he thinks this is a fun idea when him and I will be working all night and we already have a lot on our plate. I don’t need to show off to these people they can eat dominos and I’ll happily do the same. It also makes me mad that his parents only talk to me about my career plans and school but have no interest in my character or past work as a chef. The type of people to say being a chef isn’t a “real job”. I’m just upset