u/noReturnsAccepted

My aunt, in her 40s lives in public housing based on income with her 2 teens. My aunt is disabled and receives 1500 in disability and 300 in court ordered child support. She pays $750 for rent (which seems high but the property manager refuses to explain how she calculated $750). She pays electricity only.

She's lived there for 2 years. Her adult son, unemployed, but looking for employment moved in with her. Her rent is still $750. She asked for a breakdown because she thought the rent amount would change. She lives in Arkansas.

How is rent amount calculated and can a tenant ask and receive a breakdown of how rent was calculated? Thx!

Howdy! I am posting for my family. Hopefully I word this properly. My aunt was approved for disability at the age of 48. She has 2 teenagers. Her main disability is major depression, but also diagnosed with digestive issues (not sure of specifics), narcolepsy, sleep apnea, fainting spells and a list of other ailments. Bc of her depression and narcolepsy and I assume just feeling sick from digestive issues she is needing help. She isn't always able to drive or be as active in her parenting. I don't know how else to word it lol. My niece who is 22 has been visiting her there in Arkansas to help with grocery shopping, taking her to and from doctors appointments, and helping with chores etc(they live about 2 hrs away from one another). My aunt is able to feed, clothe and take care of her hygiene she just needs help due to her level of lethargic episodes and depression episodes etc. Is there a program in Arkansas that could approve my niece to be her caretaker full or part time. If so, does the caretaker if approved have to live under the same roof? Where I live family can be approved to care for family if approved for ANY disability but I know that varies by state. Willing to answer questions if needed to help us in this situation. Thx so much!

Dating a man, we're in our 40s. Known each other for years, recently started dating.

We've had sex and sent videos. He's taken photos of me fully nude, recording me playing with my toys and we play the video when we fuck.

Our most recent encounter was very strange. He asked me why I hadn't waxed. Confused, I responded with: I never have with you. He responded that he hates hair and threw a semi tantrum. When I reminded him of our videos photos and other fuck sessions where he had no preference then, he didn't respond but continued to rant about hair. Wtf is this about??

He even stopped sex that night because of "hair". Wtaf? Other strange interaction happened that night but is it possible to be so into a woman that you forget HAIR? Too fucked up on liquor or weed to forget? I'm genuinely confused. He creates these fake arguments often and attempts to make it my fault.

Dating a guy, we're both in our 40s. Foreplay and sex is great although he seems to find something to focus on that upsets him. Anyway, he cums pretty fast once he slides in me. He's fairly well endowed so even semi hard there is pleasure for me..what I have noticed is that once he quickly cums it takes some time to become erect and it's in that moment he creates a wild scenario that always ends in our sex ending for the night.

I also notice when he is semi hard and still in me, he doesn't realize that he's actually in and it feels good to me. That seems to bother him (that he can't feel what he wants when he's semi hard).

As a man, is it emasculating to be in this situation? I never make a fuss about and I'm patient. I have never even openly recognized that he is flaccid.

I'm dating a man who I have known for many years. We dated years ago and due to me relocating with my job, we ended our relationship amicably but remained cordial. We lost touch for a few years and recently met up and decided to date again.

Intense, passionate and almost like we never split. But some things have changed. We've had sex several times within the past 10 months. I rarely shave but will for my partner if that's his preference. The last time we were intimate, he was livid that I wasn't waxed. I've never been for him. He was so upset that it started a very heated argument especially when I reminded him that he never voiced his preference the other recent times.

Each time we spend time together he always voices what he wants and how I need to change certain things to be with him. He doesn't want me responding to my male friends on social media. He has very specific sexual expectations- nothing out of my range of comfort but he expects it to be his level of perfection at his first request.

One evening we were planning a weekend getaway. This particular weekend fell on the anniversary of his grandmother's death. Before we started planning, I asked how he was feeling and if he would be up to a weekend getaway. We planned it and suddenly he says you are soulless for asking us to hang out this weekend and you know what this weekend is. Shocked that he would think I was inconsiderate, I apologized and said I asked how you were feeling and if youd be up to hanging out because I realized the date. We had even spoke about his grandmother before he called me soulless. He didn't talk to me for a week after that disagreement.

His temperament escalates from calm, loving, inviting to rage within minutes with no warning. I am walking on eggshells when we communicate and when we are in each other's presence.

He often tells me that I don't act like I love him. He asks me if he is "too much" for me- i assume he is referring to his demands and that he recognizes that flip flops a lot. He tells me he wants to spend time with me but there are times when do meet up He'll say things like, "I had to drink/smoke (marijuana)a lot to be with you. When I ask what he means by that his response is "I just have to". In my mind that's an insult but he always compliments everything about me, so it confuses me so much.

I don't know if he is intentionally being manipulative or if he is dealing with an emotional/mental imbalance. I am torn.

If I had to describe his mannerisms it would be Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. Not kidding.

Lost bonds recovered but....

I filed for disability years ago and was asked by the agent if I had assets, I responded no, but she made me aware of 12 savings bonds in my name from 80s and 90s. I stopped procrastinating and completed the forms to start the search.

My former step dad purchased these bonds, my mom and step dad divorced over 30 years ago, I have no contact with him. Will the treasury department allow me to receive the bonds without his signature or consent?

I filed for disability years ago and was asked by the agent if I had assets, I responded no, but she made me aware of 12 savings bonds in my name from 80s and 90s. I stopped procrastinating and completed the forms to start the search.

My former step dad purchased these bonds, my mom and step dad divorced over 30 years ago, I have no contact with him. Will the treasury department allow me to receive the bonds without his signature or consent?

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I have never been able to control my dreams but most of my dreams are lucid and as I am dreaming I say I can't wait until I wake up and decipher this dream! I have several dreams within a dream and every scenario is different. I absolutely love dreaming, almost more than I love waking life! One thing I've noticed is that when I wake up, I HAVE to keep my eyes closed to remember the details of my dreams because the moment I open my eyes, the details quickly fade.

Last night was the first time I dreamt about finding jewelry. A male's gold, heritage ring with the initial C. I found it as i was walking to an unfamiliar house..the ring fit and I remember thinking of a friend with the last name beginning with C. I could tell the dream was ending but I wanted to know more about this ring!

Any suggestions for continuing a dream or controlling it, or does that gift only come to certain people?