Should splitting the bill 50/50 on a first date be the default expectation regardless of who initiated the invite?
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Should splitting the bill 50/50 on a first date be the default expectation regardless of who initiated the invite?

u/not_thesam — 1 day ago
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Would you restart your life from 18 if you could?

If you were given the chance to restart your life from the age of 18, while keeping everything you know today, would you actually do it? Would you make completely different choices about relationships, career, money, friendships, and the people you trusted, or do you think you’d somehow end up in a similar place anyway? What’s the one thing you’d definitely do differently?

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u/not_thesam — 1 day ago

Which country is best for a Master’s in 2027 if my goal is to study, work and eventually settle?

Hi everyone,
I’m from India and planning to pursue a **Master’s abroad in 2027**. I’ve completed a **B.Sc. in Psychology (56%, CGPA 5.88)** and I’m currently exploring different Master’s options, mainly in **Public Health, Social Work, Psychology-related fields, Health Management, etc.**
My main priority isn’t just getting a degree. I want to choose a country where I have a realistic chance to:
Get admission with my academic profile
Study at a reasonable overall cost
Find a job after graduation
Get a decent post-study work period
Eventually obtain **PR/permanent residency**
Have a good quality of life
Avoid taking an unnecessarily huge education loan
I’m currently considering countries such as **Finland, Ireland, Germany, Sweden, Denmark, Norway, Poland, and other European countries**, but I’m open to suggestions outside Europe as well.
For people who are already studying or working abroad:
**1. Which country would you recommend for my profile and goals in 2027?**
**2. Which Master’s courses would have the best employment prospects after a Psychology degree?**
**3. Which countries have the most realistic PR/settlement pathway?**
**4. How difficult is it actually to find a job after graduation as an international student?**
**5. What would be a realistic total budget for tuition + living expenses?**
**6. Would you choose Finland/Ireland/Germany/Sweden/etc. in the current situation, or is there a better option?**
I’m especially interested in **real experiences from Indians/international students who have already studied and settled (or tried to settle) in these countries.**
I’d really appreciate honest advice rather than just university/agent marketing. Thanks!

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u/not_thesam — 3 days ago
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Which country is best for a Master’s in 2027 if my goal is to study, work and eventually settle?

Hi everyone,
I’m from India and planning to pursue a Master’s abroad in 2027. I’ve completed a B.Sc. in Psychology (56%, CGPA 5.88) and I’m currently exploring different Master’s options, mainly in Public Health, Social Work, Psychology-related fields, Health Management, etc.
My main priority isn’t just getting a degree. I want to choose a country where I have a realistic chance to:
Get admission with my academic profile
Study at a reasonable overall cost
Find a job after graduation
Get a decent post-study work period
Eventually obtain PR/permanent residency
Have a good quality of life
Avoid taking an unnecessarily huge education loan
I’m currently considering countries such as Finland, Ireland, Germany, Sweden, Denmark, Norway, Poland, and other European countries, but I’m open to suggestions outside Europe as well.
For people who are already studying or working abroad:
1. Which country would you recommend for my profile and goals in 2027?
2. Which Master’s courses would have the best employment prospects after a Psychology degree?
3. Which countries have the most realistic PR/settlement pathway?
4. How difficult is it actually to find a job after graduation as an international student?
5. What would be a realistic total budget for tuition + living expenses?
6. Would you choose Finland/Ireland/Germany/Sweden/etc. in the current situation, or is there a better option?
I’m especially interested in real experiences from Indians/international students who have already studied and settled (or tried to settle) in these countries.
I’d really appreciate honest advice rather than just university/agent marketing. Thanks!

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u/not_thesam — 4 days ago
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Which Master’s and country should I choose after BSc Psychology?

Hi everyone,

I’m an Indian student who completed a BSc Psychology (56%, CGPA 5.88) in 2025. I’m planning to pursue my Master’s degree outside India, preferably somewhere in Europe.

I’m confused about which field would be the best choice for my background and future career.
I’m currently considering:
MSc/MPH Public Health
MSc Public Mental Health
MSc Health Management / Healthcare Management
MSc Health Informatics
MSW / Social Work
MSc Psychology / related Psychology programmes

Other healthcare or social-science Master’s programmes
The countries I’m considering include Finland, Germany, Sweden, Ireland, Poland, Belgium, France, and other European countries.

If you were in my position, which Master’s course and which European country would you choose?
Would you recommend Public Health, Public Mental Health, Health Management, Health Informatics, Social Work, Psychology, or something else?

I would especially appreciate advice from international students and graduates who have actually studied/worked in Europe.

Thanks!

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u/not_thesam — 4 days ago
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Should I choose an MSc/MPH in Public Health in Finland or another European country?

Hi everyone,
I’m from India and I have completed a BSc in Psychology (56%, CGPA 5.88). I’m considering doing a Master’s in Public Health / MSc Public Health in Europe, and Finland is currently one of my main options.
I’m particularly interested in Finland because there are English-taught programmes that accept students with a Psychology background. For example, the University of Eastern Finland offers a 2-year MSc in Public Health and lists Psychology as an eligible background.
However, I’m not sure whether Finland is the best choice for career opportunities after graduation.
I would really appreciate advice from people who have studied or worked in Europe, especially international students.
My main questions are:
Is an MSc/MPH in Public Health from Finland worth it for an international student?
Would you recommend Finland over Sweden, Germany, Ireland, Poland, Belgium, the Netherlands, or other European countries for Public Health?
Which country has better job opportunities after an MPH/MSc Public Health for non-EU graduates?
How important is learning the local language for getting a Public Health job?
What are the realistic career options after graduation — epidemiology, health promotion, healthcare management, research, NGOs, health policy, etc.?
Is it difficult to get a job in Public Health in Finland without a Finnish-language background?
Considering tuition fees and living costs, which European country gives the best overall value for money?

I’m mainly looking for honest experiences and realistic career advice, rather than just university rankings.
Thank you!

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u/not_thesam — 4 days ago