u/ohohmoomoo

Ok so diagnosed autistic/ adhd person here.

Always been asexual (I’d consider myself Biromantic asexual). Been with my boyfriend 6 years this year; did tell him when we first started dating that I considered myself asexual. I love him. I do sleep with him, but I do it out of people pleasing. I can/ do feel pleasure when we do it, but I just could go forever without it and I don’t have the “sexual attraction” to anyone. I love him, the person he is and want us both to be happy.

When we have sex my brain is usually thinking of basically anything else but, I can’t help it. I’ll be in the moment for a few seconds then a random thought will pop in my mind, something I forgot to do, something I remembered and want to tell him and my brain will only be able to focus on that. Sometimes I can hold it back and save it till later (or likely forget it) and others I blurt it out. And after he’ll often say why would you tell me that while we were having sex. It’s a bit of a light hearted joke about my impeccable mood killing skills.

Anyway yesterday we’d gone to just chill and lay in bed. He’d fallen asleep. I was nodding off. And long story short he woke up, and starting putting the moves on and put my hand on his erection and there just was no mask and I was just repulsed. And I feel so bad because I know how bad the reaction I had was. And now I feel so guilty and keep replaying it in my head. And I’m just sat here crying.

We’re ok. He doesn’t seem off with me. But I just feel so bad. I know how badly I reacted but I was tired and just there was no mask.

But yeah don’t know why I’m making this post. Just think I needed to tell someone or write it down, because my brains struggling to get over it majorly. Please can someone just reassure me.

Past 3 uploads since 12pm all still showing as processing? Anyone else got the same?

On mobile (iPhone) got the button “Get Shipping Label” click it and NOTHING happens. Been like this for past couple of hours.

Anyone else got same issue?

Wanting to have a go with an overlocker to improve my sewing.

Anyone aware of anywhere I can rent/ loan a overlocker either to take away or just attend and sew in workshop?

If it was somewhere that offers a class/ introduction to overlockers that would be amazing too. I know when I lived near Leeds there was a couple of places that used to do it but google isn’t proving fruitful for Sheffield.

Come see makers from Sheffield creations! Fashion created from old clothing and materials at Racoon studios tonight from 7:30.

Drinks available!

https://facebook.com/events/s/the-grand-refashion-finale/962815192831824/

When they introduced the new sides last month none of them seem to have been programmed for the premium meal deal (namely holy moly guacamole chips and dip) but work on standard.

I hate having to point it out at till, then it doesn’t let a manager override the price.

I’ve had to change what I buy, but really would like to get what I actually want.

Does anyone know if it’s been fixed yet?