Good day!
Never knew palm reading was a thing .
27F my dob is 09.01.1999 .
My right hand is dominant. I am currently going through a hard time , lost in career and love life .
Would appreciate some readings !
Thanks and have a nice day
Hi
What do you guys think of completely ghosting a guy 33M giving him no access to your life 25F ?
Backstory :
. We were on and off for months. During this time, he also dated another girl and had talks about marriage with her. We went on trips together three times after he allegedly said he had broken up with her. I later found out they were together for three-four months, and he even flew to another continent to spend two days with me on 14th February while they were still together.
Two months we were in no contact
Fast forward two months—we were doing okay and went on another trip, which was fine. We spent nine days together and we were inseparable. We had arguments about many things, and during one of them he said he had “one foot in and one foot out” because of our issues, saying I don’t communicate well. But we ended the trip on a good note.
We went no contact again and he ended things saying i deserve better and he wants to be with someone local ( same nationality)
He reached out saying he was in love with me while he was on another trip and everything reminded him of me .
One month later, we went on a short trip again, which was amazing, and I started to really adore him. He told me he loved me, but there were no talks about exclusivity. He constantly told me he could not marry me because of my nationality. He also talked about other girls he could marry who were rich, saying he would have a better life because he is starting from zero, and that it would be better for him to marry them since I am not a local in his country.
It was mentally exhausting to be with him, even though I liked him and maybe loved him a little.
I went for a sleepover despite everything and it was fine until it came to intimacy. He said he had a different libido. I wanted to be intimate, but he thought I didn’t. Also, I couldn’t sleep next to him because of constant anxiety after finding out a few days earlier that he had been with his ex for four months while lying to me.
The faults he pointed out of during this entire relationship with no label was
\- i don’t communicate
\-my job was not 9-5
\- i don’t have weekends off where we could spend time together
\-i am not the same nationality as him
\- i am not from the same cultural background as him
\- we have different libido when it came to sex
( the list could go on )
To him i am full of flaws and i felt he was doing me some kind of favour and settling for less .
What intrigues me is that he would tell me he loved me and 30secs later tell me he cannot marry me . We were not even boyfriend and girlfriend. He didn’t even ask if i wanna marry him . He did lots of things for me and went to lengths to spend time with me ,even across continents but i didn’t feel respected or valued . I was happy or maybe it was an illusion of happiness.
On 17/06/26 , I blocked him from everywhere and gave him no access to my life . The first few days were fine but it’s been a week and i am having this anxiety. I cannot sleep properly. I keep seeing him in my dreams . My heart feels like it is about to explode every-time i think of him .
Did i handle this correctly or should i have handled this in a different way .
Hi
What do you guys think of completely ghosting a guy giving him no access to your life ?
Backstory :
. We were on and off for months. During this time, he also dated another girl and had talks about marriage with her. We went on trips together three times after he allegedly said he had broken up with her. I later found out they were together for three-four months, and he even flew to another continent to spend two days with me on 14th February while they were still together.
Two months we were in no contact
Fast forward two months—we were doing okay and went on another trip, which was fine. We spent nine days together and we were inseparable. We had arguments about many things, and during one of them he said he had “one foot in and one foot out” because of our issues, saying I don’t communicate well. But we ended the trip on a good note.
We went no contact again and he ended things saying i deserve better and he wants to be with someone local ( same nationality)
He reached out saying he was in love with me while he was on another trip and everything reminded him of me .
One month later, we went on a short trip again, which was amazing, and I started to really adore him. He told me he loved me, but there were no talks about exclusivity. He constantly told me he could not marry me because of my nationality. He also talked about other girls he could marry who were rich, saying he would have a better life because he is starting from zero, and that it would be better for him to marry them since I am not a local in his country.
It was mentally exhausting to be with him, even though I liked him and maybe loved him a little.
I went for a sleepover despite everything and it was fine until it came to intimacy. He said he had a different libido. I wanted to be intimate, but he thought I didn’t. Also, I couldn’t sleep next to him because of constant anxiety after finding out a few days earlier that he had been with his ex for four months while lying to me.
The faults he pointed out of during this entire relationship with no label was
- i don’t communicate
-my job was not 9-5
- i don’t have weekends off where we could spend time together
-i am not the same nationality as him
- i am not from the same cultural background as him
- we have different libido when it came to sex
( the list could go on )
To him i am full of flaws and i felt he was doing me some kind of favour and settling for less .
What intrigues me is that he would tell me he loved me and 30secs later tell me he cannot marry me . We were not even boyfriend and girlfriend. He didn’t even ask if i wanna marry him . He did lots of things for me and went to lengths to spend time with me ,even across continents but i didn’t feel respected or valued . I was happy or maybe it was an illusion of happiness.
On 17/06/26 , I blocked him from everywhere and gave him no access to my life . The first few days were fine but it’s been a week and i am having this anxiety. I cannot sleep properly. I keep seeing him in my dreams . My heart feels like it is about to explode every-time i think of him .
Did i handle this correctly or should i have handled this in a different way .
This was 02/05/2026-09/05/2026 . Thank you for the unforgettable memories.
I may or may not send you this but this is my closure .
It’s 18/06/2026 , my room ac broke and i slept in my friends room yesterday . You are on my mind . I miss you but it will pass .
Ever since i was a kid , i always had hard time of letting go of things . I still wear my pajama’s from 9th grade . I still wear the same perfume scent from 3 years ago . I still keep letters from people who are no longer in my life .
Everything i hold onto has been an anchor of what i was . Learning to make bibimbap will always been an anchor of how much i adored you . I have always been nothing but imperfectly flawed in a gazillion ways i love .
I never say goodbye or wish someone all the best because it is so final. It is final . The moment it comes out of my lips , it will be final act of letting go for me.
I read you like a book from the first time we met . A part of me always knew what i was getting into . I might be young but i have met you in different forms .
The second time we were apart , there was a lot of ‘what if’s ‘ in my mind . You were constantly on my mind and i hated that i never gave us a chance . Then we reconnected and we went for vacation and it was amazing . Then europe for 3days came and i adored you more than ever . There were lots of faults but i overlooked everything.
A few days after my call which i vividly remember each and every word i said to you , i learnt from our mutual acquaintance that your ex talked about you guys and she mentioned that i partly was the reason you guys broke up and you were together for 4 months .
Everything that i adored came crashing down . February 14th which was a dear memory was so tainted. It was stained with lies and misery . You were still with her when you came all the way to spend time with me .
I genuinely thought you liked me.
I realised the hard way that you are just another person looking for company.
Despite everything,i came for a sleepover. I was attached to you to the point i overstepped my boundaries just for comfort.
I couldn’t even sleep next to you despite being dead tired, the anxiety, sleeping next to someone who lied to me or didn’t even respect me for enough to tell me the truth .
The constant anxiety.The uncertainty.The words left unspoken.The lack of consistency. The faults you pointed about me from the first time we met, me not being the same nationality as you , - it was truly a torture for me . It left me emotionally exhausted .
And i choose that because i didn’t have the courage to walk away .
I tried so hard to be normal . It was horrible horrible . I was betraying myself . Every time i am with you , I felt like i was abandoning myself . I tolerated a lot of things and it eventually led to disgust.
Every hug felt like hugging a saguaro cactus. I knew it would hurt me, I could feel the spines, yet a part of me always wanted to stay a little longer.
I cannot keep coming back to you for comfort when you’re the person i am grieving. And it felt unfair for you to continue having access to my life .
I think one of the biggest differences between us is that I have never known how to love casually. When I love someone, I love them with intention. I don’t know how to keep one foot in and one foot out.
I just wanna let you know that i didn’t ghost you ,cut you off or stop fighting for us because i adored you any less . I walked away because there was nothing worth fighting for and deep down , i think we both know it.
And it does hurt , my chest physically hurts knowing that i never told you that i am in love with you .
I hope you get to achieve everything you set out to and get what you are looking for in life .
I wish you nothing but the best . Thank you for the memories. I hope you hold onto the good ones as i will .
P.S When you love someone, you’d know it. And when you do , only say it because you truly mean it .
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Hey everyone 👋
I’m planning to hike Snowdon on 14th July and was wondering if anyone else is heading up that day?
I’ve done longer treks before , but this will be my first time hiking Snowdon solo or any hikes in the uk , so I’d really appreciate:
Any local tips for July conditions (weather, route, timing)
Advice on the best route for views + safety
General advice for hiking solo as a female in the area
Or if anyone is also going that day and wants to hike together for company
Planning to do either Pyg Track up / Miners’ Track down if conditions are good, otherwise the safer Llanberis Path.
If anyone is around that date and doesn’t mind a hiking buddy, feel free to message or comment 😊
Thanks in advance!
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