u/orangecruzz

So i currently live in China. Porn are being heavily censored in here, be it hetero or homo, you can't really make thirst post in any social media except private messaging.

I have few local friends, girls. I know they're on twitter to post thirst trap pics, thirst tweet etc.

The other week Chinese Lesbian tweets on twitter went viral, let me tell you it's a very average thirst post where she just want to flick other girl's clit, how she wants to be eaten by other girls etc A VERY LESBIAN PORN KINDA POST.

But suddenly westerners are started calling them "TERF" because these chinese lesbians doesn't want dick like??????? i'm so confused. lesbians IS homosexual!! penyuka sesama jenis! why does some transwoman got offended that lesbians isn't interested at them?

bahkan beberapa tweet ku lihat ada org yg marah2 ngomong "kenapasih chinese lesbian ini bahasnya ttg ngokop memek mulu? gua jadi dysphoric" "i feel so dysphoric after seeing how chinese lesbians saying they want to play with the clitoris" kyk????? tinggal gak usah dibaca kan sebenernya beres, it's not like you're held at a gun point to read those tweets jg gtloh?

i dated one chinese girl in the past and yes we rarely almost never used strap. So i just found out that lesbian in the west use a lot of straps and accepting 'girldick' or sth. which in my opinion this is just a cultural differences/preferences

lesbians already got told by men that they just haven't met the right dick which is homophobic and misogynistic, surprise surprise they're now being told that they're transphobic because they don't want dick by transwoman which is to me is just weird

I understand why chinese lesbians are staying away from dick and being a man hater in general. They suffered so much misogyny even before they're born (Gender selection abortion) some even grow up resented by their parents just because they're girls, some parents even pooling money to pay for a fine for the 2nd born if they're male. IMO root of causenya ya karena ada perbedaan budaya antara org bulay vs org chn, knp nih cewe2 chn sampe segitunya nolak kntol.

dah intinya gua tuh kasian ajasih sama cewe2 ini udahlah kena hujat sama cowok2 het krn gak mau sama mereka, skrg kena hujat lagi sama trans woman krn gak mau sama mereka juga

gua tau gak semua trans woman kayak gitu, pasti ada aja anomalinya. gua spesifically bahas di kejadian viralnya Chinese Lesbian aja. Jadi kemaren di kejadian ini yg gua liat di twitter banyak yg malah jatohnya pada homofobik dan agak rasis. bahkan beberapa cewe2 lesbi yg tadinya pada biasa aja ke trans dan pada bodo amat malah jadi pada illfeel cenderung transfob, termasuk temen2 lesbi gua ini, yang tadinya nggak TERF malah jadi TERF beneran karena bad interaction/impression sama transwoman.

MOD please let me know if my vent feels offensive ya.

jelas banyak perempuan dari kalangan menengah kebawah banyak yg tergiur dgn mahar 2 digit ini karena kalo nikahnya sesama org indo dan dari kalangan yg sama tentu saja perempuan2 ini gak bkl dapet mahar segitu.

Di China pun sebenernya jarang hampir gak ada cewek yang mau mahar segitu karena terlalu rendah, dan cowok2 yg cuma mampu kasih mahar segitu ya hitungannya kelas menengah bawah.

nah yang paling ngeselin di berita ini 'agen'nya udah berhasil ditangkep sama pihak Indonesia tapi abis itu cuma dideportasi dan dipulangin ke negaranya..... bukannya diproses hukum dimarih karena ini udah jelas2 tindak perdagangan manusia loh!!!! terserah transaksinya gagal atau engga tapi ini udah parah.

anjir lah jadi cewek di Indo gini bgt sih

Ternyata dulu Romusha di Klender banyak yg tiba-tiba mati, lalu diselidikin sama dokter Indonesia, ternyata banyak korban itu bukan terjangkit bakteri tetanus scr natural (dulu blom ada vaksin tetanus) tapi dgn sengaja disuntikin racun tetanus. Terus pas ketawan temuannya, Jepangnya ngamook, nyiksa dan nyalahin dokter2 Indo

we don't hate the japs enough for their crime in indo tbh

I know setiap orang memproses grief itu berbeda-beda tapi tradisi islam yg satu ini beneran engga banget.

kita yang ditinggalin belom bisa memproses shocknya tiba-tiba udah mesti harus dikubur aja, ini i'm comparing with my other grandpa yang hindu ya. Beliau meninggal sakit, pas denger dia meninggal, kaget, sedih, bingung tapi di sini ada proses dulu, beliau dicarikan hari baiknya, kapan pasnya buat Pelebon. jadi sedih di hari H upacara pelebonnya tuh udah sedikit terproses, nangisnya gak yg nangis ngeraung2 kek orang hari itu mati hari itu dikuburin. beneran pas pelebon tuh kayak yg "oh ya, dadah selamat jalan"

pas temen baiknya pasangan ku meninggal(yg aku jg deket bgt sama dia) aku merasakan hal yg sama kyk "yaudah she'll never wake up, this is the end, end. selamat jalan" dia katolik dan baru di hari ke 3 setelah meninggal dia dikuburin

kemaren pas adek ku meninggal, bener2 kayak sorenya meninggal besokan siangnya udah dikubur, bener2 kayak yg belom ikhlas, bener2 yang masih kayak 'ini beneran?' 'beneran gak bangun lagi' i was howling his name when they lower his body into the kuburan, just like i did when my dad died too

sekeluarga ku gaada yg berani nyuruh solat karena aku ngomong "gak sudi aku solat, aku marah sama Tuhan" awiakawokaodjwodjewkhfjskhfjkshk

demi apapun gua beneran benci sama tradisi kubur mengubur dalam islam ini

So a friend literally just asked something that give me a jab

I recently looking at a new bike, i know my bike is not cheap at all, but i feel like i needed an upgrade since i've been using it for like 10.000 KM, my other bike udah bonyok sana sini krn ya dipake di gunung sering jatoh

and my friend was like "lu kalo beli sepeda gak pake mikir panjang, giliran mobil mikirnya lama banget, padahal kalo gua hitung 2 sepeda lu aja bisa kebeli mobil juga. apa yg ada di kepala lu pas mau beli hal-hal kayak gini?"

and i was so baffled wkwkkwkwkwkwk di kepala gua kyk mobil is a hugeeeee thing lebih ribet tetek bengeknya kyk charging, license plate, insurance dst. sementara sepeda engga, abis amboksing lgs gassssss

di sini ada juga nggak yang beli satu hal bisa mikir 10x, tapi di lain waktu bisa beli hal lain dgn harga yg sama in an instant?

Habis liat kasus daycare Jogja dan komen orang2 jahat bgt anjir, pada nyalahin si Ibu yg TERPAKSA kerja ninggal anak. Gak ada satupun yg nyalahin bapaknya. My man hater ass would blame the father as the head of the family for failing to protect the family.

Kejadian ini belom kelar, eh kejadian lagi kereta tabrakan dan korbannya mayoritas perempuan yg range umurnya masih seumuran ku juga. And before i moved abroad I'm an avid KRL user, tiap balik ke Indo pun masih pake tuh KRL.

Pas ada komen ibu PP​PA tentang pemindahan gerbong perempuan yg dinilai posisinya trll vulnerable langsung dah komentar dari mahluk berbatangnya kyk misogonis bgt

Indon govt are failing so badly at protecting woman and i still wonder why indo girlie still want to have kids????