What's your biggest turn-off in a guy?

Mine would be "perfect" teeth. No matter how handsome you are, if you have straight, squared, bright white teeth I wouldn't be attracted to you. It doesn't matter if they're real or fake, however, in most cases they're fake. Same with bad breath, but I think that's a turn-off for anybody.

Also, guys that have their whole outfit with brands (Nike, jordan, etc.) Or guys that post their expensive purchases on social media, especially clothing.

And guys that are always buying whatever is trendy. If u come on a date with a Labubu (or whatever is trending) there's a high chance there's not gonna be a second.

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u/oujay849 — 13 hours ago

How long did it take for your holes after a coronectomy (or wisdom teeth removal) to fully close?

37M I got my four wisdom teeth removed 9 weeks ago. The tops were removed entirely and the bottom ones just the corona (coronectomy). The ones on top seem fully healed, however, the gum still has the holes. I thought by this time the gum would be at the same level as the other teeth.

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In the bottom ones, one side still has a hole, but not as big as the other side. The size of the hole in the other one is still almost the same size as when it got removed.

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I never brush the holes because I didn't want to mess up the healing process. I thought they were healing well because I never feel bad breath. However, today for curiosity, I brushed the holes with a skinny toothbrush I have. The ones on top almost didn't bleed, but when I brushed the ones on the bottom they bleed and left the toothbrush with bright red blood. So I'm assuming they're either not fully healed or it's just gingivitis in those areas.

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But, am I supposed to brush the holes? Wouldn't it make them take longer to close?

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I don't drink alcohol or smoke anything.

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How long did it take for your holes to fully close?

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I live in USA, so making this questions to the doctor would cost me hundreds of dollars. Thanks in advance.

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u/oujay849 — 15 days ago

Clubes gays em Rio de Janeiro com funk eletronico (Lia Clark, Isma, Katy da Voz e As Abusadas, etc.)? Ou submundo 808. Obrigado

Também pode haver outros tipos de musica, mas gostaria com musica assim também.

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u/oujay849 — 25 days ago

Clubes gays en Rio de Janeiro con música submundo 808?

Com música de Lia Clark, Isma, Katy Da Voz e As Abusadas, etc. Obrigado desde já :)

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u/oujay849 — 27 days ago

Que significa "tuim"? What's the meaning of "tuim"?

Ouvi isso em duas músicas de baixo calão. Mas, quando fui pesquisar, descobri que significa algo parecido com "passarinho"; no entanto, em nenhuma das músicas isso faz sentido — nem mesmo se eu tentar interpretar a expressão de forma vulgar. Um exemplo disso vem da música "A Substância", da Isma:

Não sei se era whisky, não sei se era gin

A libido tá alta, e eu tô fora de mim

Tô ouvindo tuim, tô ouvindo tuim

Obrigado desde já.

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u/oujay849 — 1 month ago

Quais são alguns bons clubes gays com funk em São Paulo?

Com ​​músicas de artistas como Lia Clark, Katy da Voz e As Abusadas, Isma, Pedro Sampaio e Dennis. Vou estar lá de 6 a 8 de junho para a Parada do Orgulho. Agradeço desde já.

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u/oujay849 — 1 month ago

I just learned "peru" means pen!s in a vulgar way. Peru also means turkey. Does it make a difference how you pronounce it.

Like pão and pau for example. It makes a difference how you pronounce. Well, in this case is two different words but u can get it wrong if Portuguese is not your main language. So I don't wanna get it wrong with "peru". Thanks in advance

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u/oujay849 — 1 month ago
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Are hemorrhoids during sex a concern for you visually, or are they usually not a big deal? Id appreciate honest but respectful answers

In my regular days I don't have a hemorrhoid, but when I have @nal sex my hemorrhoid comes out. It kind of gets swollen (inflated) like a white balloon. I would say the size is (maybe) like a grape. It doesn't hurt and for me it's not a big deal. Fortunately, there's treatment for hemorrhoids. Thanks in advance

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u/oujay849 — 2 months ago
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Are hemorrhoids during sex a concern for you visually, or are they usually not a big deal? I'd appreciate honest but respectful answers

In my regular days I don't have a hemorrhoid, but when I have @nal sex my hemorrhoid comes out. It kind of gets swollen (inflated) like a white balloon. I would say the size is (maybe) like a grape. It doesn't hurt and for me it's not a big deal. Fortunately, there's treatment for hemorrhoids. Thanks in advance!

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u/oujay849 — 2 months ago