Help a gal out here...

Ok so... i need help...

There's this guy at work who i like, but i don't know that he likes me back... im 17f and hes 18m.

What are some ways to figure this out without straight up telling him or him finding out I like him. Bc if he says no, im terrified its ginna get awkward between us... we already have a rly good friendship and i dont want to lose that.

But hes genuine amazing. Funny, can make me laugh in ways most ppl never could, I feel like a different person around him. I hear his laugh and I lighten from weights I didnt know I had.

I just need to know how i can figure out if he likes me back or not before I ruin a rly good friendship over this.

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u/pleco_parent — 16 days ago

Help.. just.... help us...

Hi all, I need help... about two weeks ago, we forgot a pack of fish in my dads truck floor... it just got slid under the seat and forgotten... found it two days later after we opened the door and the smell hit us like a freight train... fast forward to today, (almost two and a half weeks later) we still smell it.

Its lessened a little bit, but it wont go away... at all... and anything that goes in the truck ends up smelling like fish... how the crap can we get rid of this smell for good... tell me literally anything to help...

Also, if this isnt the right place for this, or theres a better sub, let me know.

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u/pleco_parent — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/teenagers4real+1 crossposts

Yall... dont laugh... im serious...

Hi all! I have a bit of a situation here... ill start it off by saying im 17f.

Heres the situation... theres a guy I like at work. I dont know if he likes me back... i only see him at work and the only time we really talk is at work. Dont really text or anything... have each other's numbers bc he forgot his cuo outside and asked me to bring it in bc he knew I was working the next morning. Thats pretty much the extent of our conversations when it comes to texting... or comparing schedules.

What are some ways I can figure out if he likes me back or not? We are definatly good friends, and if I were to ask him and he says no, thats gonna make it awkward... theres only a few ppl who know I like him, and one or two of them volunteered to help me figure out if he likes me back or not...

I should also mention that this is the first person ive ever liked and have only been asked out once and have no interest in that guy at all... everyone knows that and he should have too 🤣.

Basically... any signs he might give off that he likes me back or not? What should I pay attention to the most to see? Or am i overthinking this like I do most things... 🤣

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u/pleco_parent — 2 months ago
▲ 8 r/pleco

Is this dropsy... pls tell me its not...

I got home to notice him/her having some buoyancy issues and not acting normal... has acted normal up until now... ive had them for quite awhile, and this would by absolutely crushing to lose. Their name is Custard by the way. I have been told that Custard is a female albino bn, but not 100%​ sure.

How can i help them out?

u/pleco_parent — 3 months ago
▲ 6 r/bees

Settle a dispute between me and a coworker...

I say bumblebees can sting and have proof bc I was stung in the back of the thigh by one.

She says bumblebees are harmless and defenseless.

Who's right in this case? I'm honestly just curious... lol

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u/pleco_parent — 3 months ago

Questions...

Im wondering abt best care practices for kuhli loaches... and tips yall have are appreciated! I have a 30gal shrimp tank im thinking abt using fir them, but it has cherry shrimp and snails in it... is that a safe combo?

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u/pleco_parent — 4 months ago
▲ 22 r/Horses

Why?

Hi all! I volunteer at a therapeutic horse farm, and have been there since September 2024. No other horse experience other than this place, but I've definitely learned a lot.

Heres my question. One that I've kinda bonded with has recently started​ raising his head and blowing hot air onto my face. Why is he doing this? Another newer horse who's very affectionate has also started doing it. The newer one also will just lean his head into me gently.

I figure this is some kind of affection, but not sure. Wanted to ask the ones who actually know lol.

EDIT: remembered another question lol. One of them will start making quick, loud breaths when his head is leaned into me. is that normal?

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u/pleco_parent — 4 months ago
▲ 52 r/horizon

Why did it dissappear?

Hi all! I probably didn't pay enough attention or something else, but I just did the "mountain that fell" quest. After getting sylens' lance, my spear that I've had all game disappeared. It's the original one, not one I've bought because I havnt lol.

Where did it go, and is it just gone forever?​

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u/pleco_parent — 5 months ago
▲ 10 r/vet

What are these? Do we need to go to the vet??

Hi all! We were grooming my male chocolate labradoodle, and noticed these things. The first two are the top and bottom of some random looking skin tag looking thing, and the third is something that im 99% sure is a zit... we dont know where either came from, but we need to know.

He weighs approximately 65-70 pounds, play fights with my female Irish doodle all the time, and is very healthy.

Does this require a vet? What are they?

u/pleco_parent — 5 months ago