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Wow! How many people has Kelli NOT paid????? 😭😭. I’ll be parked in the comments.

I am so happy for Kim this season! I am enjoying her, and it was so sweet to see how many fans she has and how happy she was that they showed up for her 🥰🥰

Her fans were soooo sweet 😭😭😭😭. The two women who gave her their great grandmother’s turtle pin.

That weird doll….😭. I couldn’t look at that for long, but it was nice to see Kim get a win and be admired.

1. Seriously, what is Brandi’s issue? She’s not funny or cute, I am over her. Joyce is gorgeous and Brandi’s behavior towards her is straight up racism. Jacqueline…Jacquelina?! Because she’s Latina? Did she really just say that? On tv? Her name is JOYCE. Why is Lisa trying to defend the name calling?! I am glad she got shut up.

And then randomly screaming out oh you’re a Black person, because all Black people can’t swim….ha ha. Of course she pulled the, “I have Black friends” card.

This dinner scene at Joyce’s is a hard watch. They’re being so nasty to Joyce in her own home, ignoring her while she’s talking and sharing her show, Brandi cussing at her and calling her the wrong name, and Lisa’s just laughing….They would have had to get out my house 😭.

2. Carlton…..She’s just negative and nasty. I do not believe Kyle has been intentionally malicious or nasty towards her at all, but damn. Carlton is going in. She’s the evil eye she keeps talking about. She is finding every little thing to nitpick at. Not to mention how hypocritical she is being. So, her and Brandi can be inappropriate and talk about sex, but it’s disgusting coming out of Joyce’s mouth? Oh okay.

I was excited to meet new housewives, but she’s, ehh. I miss Taylor 😭. I hope she’s doing well in Colorado.

TO REPEAT, *****this does NOT mean I condone the rumors Phaedra started*****. Several things can be discussed at once. Some people don’t understand nuance, so I need to reiterate this!

Anyway, I agree with this video 100% and wanted to share! Kandi has always been male centered, but she broke Phaedra’s heart when she chose Todd/Apollo over Phaedra. I truly believe that Phaedra closed up on being so open with the women because of all of this. There was no justification for Kandi’s actions and sneaking behind Phaedra’s back to hide Apollo’s toys.

Kandi chose a man (Todd) over one of her bestfriends, and ended up with no bestie or the man 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️!

That’ll do it!

I am on season 3 and Paris Hilton just popped up! It’s only season 3 and Gigi (big fan of her and her sister) and Paris have already shown their faces. I feel like I haven’t seen this many famous people so early on in a franchise, ever!

But, i’ve only seen 3 other franchises, so 🤣

“It’s breaking my heart. Please, if you can't be my friend, just please don't be my enemy, because my life is tough enough as it is." TAYLOR WAS SURROUNDED BY ENEMIES ALL SEASON 😭😭😭😭😭

Now, I see why y’all didn’t warn me. POOR TAYLOR 😭This thread will be designated towards Taylor ONLY. I’ll make another post about season 2 and the other women( without mentioning Taylor), but this deserves its own spotlight.

1. WOWWWW! I WAS NOT EXPECTING RUSSELL TO COMMIT?! LIKE WHAT?! Russell was a terror. I am glad she did this show because it FREED HER 😭, but on the other hand— what type of casting? The pool story is insane….I really hope Taylor rebuilt the village she lost because of him.
2. These women were terrible to Taylor, all except Dana/Pam. I do not understand how she can forgive them, because I would’ve left the show. I cried multiple times for her. She was overly distressed, crying out for help, and needed love, and they spit in her face. Questioning if she was lying, being KICKED OUT OF KYLE’S PARTY?! That was my last straw! That was AWFUL! Considering their ages, I just expected so much better from all of them, especially Lisa. I have a lot of sympathy for Taylor, and I can’t wait to see her personality outside of being in an oppressive, abusive, nightmare of a marriage. Trauma and abuse changes you.

Women don’t and can’t just leave…. It doesn’t work like that, ESPECIALLY with children and being financially dependent. They played right into Russell’s (and most abusers’s) hand….isolating her and blaming her for her own abuse.

3. Russell’s emails…..are they serious? Like cmon….He was beating her up, dehumanizing her, and these women really think Taylor had the power to stop him from sending emails?! She was living in SURVIVAL MODE! They were worried about NBA franchises and weddings, while she’s fighting for her LIFE!? The lack of grace is ASTOUNDING!

4. I can’t believe Russell left Taylor with debts and lawsuits to clean up. Selfish, even in his last breath 🙄.

This was so heavy. Extremely. I never expected this turn with Bravo. Thank y’all for keeping me in the dark 😭.

I don’t look up the housewives or anything before starting a new show, and that’s because I like to come in surprised. With that being said, I do not mind when spoilers happen or someone says too much, since i’m so far behind.

I JUST GOTTA KNOWWWW! This scene rubbed me the wrong way instantly. I can’t stand a man who does this. My boyfriend doesn’t drink casually at all (only on special occasions and he doesn’t like to be drunk), so he is super fine with me letting loose and being my DD. I would have been annoyed, because how are you going to make your own plans during a couples trip and then dictate what I do? 🙄🖕🏾

They were all just bonding and chilling, like ew. It was no need. She looked so sad! 😭

I will probably get a lot of backlash for this post, but I am ready for it. I wrestled about it the last few days but idc, i’m speaking my truth. I know I am going to disappoint with this, but Meredith Marks is still my favorite 6 seasons later 🤣🤷🏽‍♀️, but that’s also because most of these women aren’t likable.

*****People can have a favorite housewife without excusing/defending all their bad behavior.****

RHOSLC was my 3rd franchise! These ladies were hilarious, and I am excited for the next season, but I still love/enjoyed RHOA and RHOP more. I think it’s because, allll of these women have the worst victim mindset. No one takes accountability. No one wants to just outright say, “Okay, we all talk about each other, our businesses, and husbands. Let’s just leave kids out of it.” Nooo, they all act holier than thou when caught in some BS.

The other franchises, their husbands ain’t off limits 🤣🤣💀💀. I’m not saying it’s right or wrong, i’m just saying— that’s what happens.

- I don’t respect Heather for “trying to keep the peace”, but stirs up shit with everyone. Heather is the lowkey jealous friend in the background who doesn’t want you to “upgrade” or find people outside of her.

- Lisa and Meredith: Both of y’all, get off your high horse when it comes to this “friendship”. In my experience growing up in a Small southern town and being surrounded by White women, this is the NORM. They say awful stuff about each other within their friend groups, but then deny and deflect when it’s called out. They also hardly ever confront each other with issues, they just tell everyone else. The entire cast does this (besides Mary), but Lisa and Meredith are being annoying with it. YALLS FRIENDSHIP IS WEIRD! The difference is that the whole world is seeing it and Lisa got caught on camera. It’s not abnormal for Andy, the other housewives, or the fans to call it out. Lisa got caught saying the NASTIEST things about Meredith, but thats forgivable? Yeah okay. Sure. It just fits the narrative and everything I grew up viewing. I will never understand their friendship and within reason. No one around me will ever openly say those things about me, my family, or my children, and still be around me. Hell no.

- Seth is not loyal. Period. I think it’s laughable if people believe that, when Meredith already drunkenly admitted/shouted that they have both dated other people within their marriage. Seth didn’t say on the phone call he didn’t have a girlfriend ot anyone else, he SAID “If people don’t think i’m infatuated with you.” Umm two things can be true at once lol. What is Seth going to do? Openly admit he cheats on live tv? Oh okay. Nice defense. I love Meredith, but she hardly ever admits when she’s wrong. She uses her legalese to skate around her faults and wrongdoings.

THE PLANEEEE SCENEEEEE: I do not believe that Meredith reacted as wild as they are portraying, but I do believe she was running her mouth and being aggressive. These women can’t agree on anything but they all had the same opinion on the plane scene? We can have a favorite housewife without being delusional. I DO NOT BELIEVE SHE HAS A DRUG ISSUE, LETS START THERE! I had a foreshadowing convo with a close friend of mine this past weekend before I ever watched the plane episode, and it got me to thinking….what if it was the effects of Ambien or something? Me and my nurse friend were discussing how Ambien and sleeping pills effects people, and she had a family friend who got prescribed it due to his work hours and lack of sleep. Well, he would sleep walk/talk/drive his golf cart/be outside in only boxes, due to Ambien and I guess fighting the medicine as well. What if this happened to Meredith? She could’ve blacked out and not remembered all of her words and actions, so she doesn’t even remember everything she said or did. It doesn’t make sense for all of these women to agree on one topic when they have no history of doing so. Just my thoughts 🤷🏽‍♀️.

** Also, Heather called out (can’t remember what reunion- the earliest ones) that Lisa talks to the women first about what to say on camera and what not too. I’m sure Meredith and Lisa came up with a story to stick too.

Britani and Meredith: GOODBYE! THE DEFLECTION! MEREDITH REALLY?! YOU BRING UP A NAIL TECH AFTER ANDI ASKS YOU ABOUT DRINKING??? OKAY! IM OVER IT! Meredith isn’t innocent. At all. She was NASTY to Britani and wants to come out of nowhere with this and not during the show? BS! Nah, Meredith has a history of using this political climate to help herself after she is called out. That’s dangerous. Fr. But, doesn’t call Lisa out for defending a racist, homophobic, sexist church. Miss me WITH THAT! Oh, this has made me angry! Wow. Britani is the only one apologizing, but Meredith would never. And I did watch Below Deck episodes, I didn’t see Britani unnecessarily bullying Meredith.

Whitney: She started off as a favorite, but now I don’t enjoy her at all, and don’t even see where she’s needed. If she would embrace her messy role and be more forthcoming about being a shit talker, I could respect her more and enjoy it. The crying and pretending like she does nothing wrong is what gets me. Embrace your young housewife, Ashley Darby role, and kill it.

Bronwyn: Not surprised at all with Todd’s separation. I knew for a fact Whitney’s advice w/ the agreement on seeing other people was bad advice, because Bronwyn didn’t seem down with that at all. Which she confirmed. Seems like Bronwyn’s openness helped Whitney speak her truth on her own separation. Todd and that dang Cherry…..sigh. I could go on and on about their dynamic, but I hope she does divorce him.

MARY: Mary is a problem when it comes to taking advantage of her congress members, I will admit that. I am not going to negate the toxicity of religion, while also feeling bad for her and her background. Christianity can also be a toxic cult. Losing her son. No mom. Black people can’t be racist, they can be prejudice. Racism isn’t hurt feelings, it’s systemic. It’s so “funny” to me how people are so focused on Mary and her church but not the Mormon church, in this franchise. No one calls out Lisa for her continuous support, white demonizing Mary. She doesn’t get the same grace at all. Just sending my prayers to her. Say what you want, but she tried so hard with her son. She held him accountable. She wasn’t excusing his behavior towards his ex-wife. All of this makes my stomach hurt. I truly hope she has a village around her, a good one.

These women can be triggering, lowkey. They are a replica of the entitled, uneducated high school girls I was surrounded by all over again. TRIGGERED 😭😭😭😭😭😭! That’s my spiel! I’ll be off to RHOBH next!

For starters, Bronwyn and Todd have a lot of issues. I can respect him for taking in Gwen and being protective of his family, but he’s an asshole. A cheating one at that. Todd and Bronwyn’s mom give off the same mean vibes. It’s clear that Bronwyn blames herself for Todd’s wandering eye, and it’s truly sad. A cheating person will make anyone insecure!!

Second—— What is Whitney not saying? Her and Justin don’t have an open marriage, but if someone catches their eye— they have to be in agreement to step out? That sounds open to me 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️😬. No judgement if they’re in agreement, but it doesn’t seem like Bronwyn and Todd are. Bronwyn clearly doesn’t want to see Todd with other women.

Jared is just so awful. He takes every chance to make Britani look bad, anddddd it doesn’t take much for her to do that on her own.

Britani is clearly an awful mom, but this women is traumatized and damaged so badly by her religion, and you can tell. Two things can be true at once. She is annoying, but the women use her as a very easy target to gang up on and bully.

Being married doesn’t make you any less male centered. Heather admitted that she put her own husband before her kids in her marriage and it’s one reason she gives Britani more grace…..Growing up religious, I couldn’t imagine being told I wouldn’t make it to Heaven (or the temple, whatever they call it), without a husband. The ANXIETY I used to have growing up just thinking i’m going to go to hell for every little thing is indescribable. One of the best things I ever did was decenter Christianity in college. It’s traumatizing.

Again, I am not excusing her being a bad mom or being male centered, I just think their vitriol for Britani is a lot. They’ve all hurt each other 10x worse than what she’s done to any of them from what I have seen so far.

Gout WHATTTTTT?! WHOOO IS PAYING LISA’S BILLS?!!! Why does she have so many lawsuits?! Lisa cracks me up when she’s losing an argument, because she starts to stumble over her words and just yells out whatever 😭

Bronwyn v Lisa is hilarious but lowkey sad. How can someone be reduced to “social friends” in a year when they clearly shared personal things with each other over the span of 10 years. Idk. This is a lot. But, Bronwyn ate her down 😭.

My face immediately looked like Heather’s. Girl, what? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.