u/redlobster2781

I've been talking to a random guy for a week now, and yesterday, during our normal conversation, he randomly asked me for my bra size. He says that he likes me because I have a unique sense of humor. I like him too, he's funny and everything and he has even told me he's so horny. But I felt kinda weird when he asked me for my bra size. Is that a normal question? should I stop talking to him? (I've never dated in my life)

Hi! I (16f) live in Northern VA. I am looking for friends. Any gender would be fine. I am kinda introvert. I enjoy reading, learning history, philosophy, trying out new things, watching movies, and listening to music, and I am also learning violin.

Whenever I daydream, somehow, some people that I don't want to be in my daydreams eventually kicks in. I don't want them to be in my place. Any suggestions? I have also stopped listening to the music that reminds me of them.

I was 10 when my asshole loser 18 y/o cousin fucked me. Not even once but multiple times(for years). I had no clue what he was doing to me. No one knows this except my sister (I doubt). And the most unbearable thing, I still get to see him very often and I still see him with that view. I don't know about his intentions tho but he has changed alot now. And my other female cousin who has paired with him(getting married in future), unknown, unaware of him and his past. Now, when I think of getting married, having sex, I get an immediate flashback of all of this. How will i tell this to my future partner, If I tell him, my life will be ruined, but not telling him will feel illegal and unfair to me.

I was born Muslim, but after exploring other religious traditions, especially Judaism. I have found myself in a place of deep confusion. I keep praying to God, asking Him to help me because I feel as though I am losing my faith. The faith and spirituality that I was once deeply connected to now feels distant. I struggle to pray with the same faith and confidence I once had. I don't know how to reconnect because I no longer feel heard or understood. Whenever I come across something in my religion that I personally disagree with or can't understand, my first reaction is to think that religion is wrong or that it doesn't make sense. The truth is, I don't know enough about either Islam or Judaism to make a fair judgment. I feel pressured to practice certain things without fully understanding why I am doing them. I still believe in God. That belief has never completely left me. What I don't know anymore is how to believe, how to approach Him, or where to go from here. I am simply asking for guidance, clarity, and the wisdom to recognize the truth wherever it may be.

I love living in fantasies and daydreams. It has made me creative and helps me enjoy running, walking, and writing. But I hate it when I try to learn new things, read books, and focus on classes. This year, I will be taking harder courses like advanced maths and reading where I'll need to be focused way more. Any suggestions? how do you deal with this

I've been experiencing OCD for 5-6 years (maybe longer), as long as I can remember. At some point, it felt normal, but now it's getting worse. I can't unsee something disgusting that happened or even just a disturbing thing I saw. I don't necessarily view it as something that can make me sick, but it gets stuck in my head and feels unforgettable. I still remember disgusting imagery from years ago. I find myself covering my eyes from things that make me uncomfortable and even avoiding public places. I need help and advice before it becomes unbearable