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Why do people thing that marriage is transactional? Do you only need a husband for money and a wife for household help? Why is this concept so normalized? What is the purpose of that? Isn't marriage supposed to be two people navigating through life together and making it easier? Loving each other through the worst and still sticking together even through bad times. Also why do guys get pissed if a woman wants to work, what's wrong with that? Don't you want your wife to be successful? Educated? Employed? Also why is it so hard for men to accept that marriage isn't a transaction it's not a contract to just share responsibilities it's much more. Imo love is what keeps a marriage successful. What is a marriage without love? Why do you need to be with someone if you don't even love them? Might sound unrealistic but thats something I needed to vent out. Why make it all so complicated? Why can't we both work, pay the bills, and still cook together, raise kids together, and have a perfect balance. P.s nothing wrong with stay at home moms they're the best. I'm just talking about my opinion. Also why is this concept considered a white washed concept because in my surroundings it's the norm.

Why do people thing that marriage is transactional? Do you only need a husband for money and a wife for household help? Why is this concept so normalized? What is the purpose of that? Isn't marriage supposed to be two people navigating through life together and making it easier? Loving each other through the worst and still sticking together even through bad times. Also why do guys get pissed if a woman wants to work, what's wrong with that? Don't you want your wife to be successful? Educated? Employed? Also why is it so hard for men to accept that marriage isn't a transaction it's not a contract to just share responsibilities it's much more. Imo love is what keeps a marriage successful. What is a marriage without love? Why do you need to be with someone if you don't even love them? Might sound unrealistic but thats something I needed to vent out. Why make it all so complicated? Why can't we both work, pay the bills, and still cook together, raise kids together, and have a perfect balance. P.s nothing wrong with stay at home moms they're the best. I'm just talking about my opinion. Also why is this concept considered a white washed concept because in my surroundings it's the norm.

Just posted a haircut picture here and getting sm hate over it, costs nothing to be kind

Why do y'all need to be ass?

Got a proposal today

My bhabi randomly asked me to sit down cuz she had smth important to ask me so I did. So she had a proposal for me for a guy who a fauji ( I am also from a military family kinda dad was in the air force back then Taya in the army) anyway so this is my taya's beti aka my bhabi right so she's like ooh he's a major and I was like whattt I'm 22 he's probably like 32? She goes yeah hes older than you so I was like bruh that a generational gap btw, so shes like okay he's going to staff college now, has a sister etc etc no other details like no name no picture no nothing just that he was a frickin major rn, so I go like umm no rn I am focusing on my career and she's like oh but he's nice and they're stable so I said umm nahi I wanna settle abroad aur fauji tou bilkul bhi nahi, but then she got a little down so I said acha chalen mein sochongi( but I knew I'd say the same thing later on k nahi nahi nahi I don't wanna) so she goes oh but there's another problem, he just divorced his wife on this Eid. I WAS LIKE WHAT THE ACTUAL HECK. I'm unmarried, un-engaged I never even had a rishta proposal thingy. Why would you bring a rishta for someone who's a decade older and also a divorcee and who also wanna get married asap. So I SAID NO ITS A BIG FAT NO FROM MY SIDE. Later on told my other bhabi and mom and they were like wth no ofc not. But I mean why even? Also not being judgy of divorcees but the literal red flags I mean 😭😭 ( also I hate hate marriage talk so no one in my family suggest any proposals for me cuz I'm that one girl in the family who's always like Nuh uh no shadi

Banda sakoon sy rant bhi nahi kar sakta sab ajaty hain kehny k oh it's you YOU ARE THE PROBLEM bhae ap sab log sakoon sy raho na ager you disagree tou move on with your day nahi jee khudi sy assume krengy khudi sy opinions dengy khudi sy offend hongay. Chill out it's not that deep 😭

Istg my blood is boiling right now. Anyway, stick around for a long ass rant.

So, I have this senior from university who used to be a funny guy. I knew him through student societies and stuff. He was two years older than me, so he graduated, but he had a public account so I followed him there.

During the summer break after he graduated, he randomly texts me at like 5 AM asking if I'd go out on lunch with him. We had some small talk, I said no, and we didn't really talk after that. Cut to a bit later: he came to uni to meet his friends, texted me while he was there, so we talked for a bit. That was pretty much it.

But looking back, this guy clearly had some severe issues because he would be such a massive asshole to me sometimes, and then later on he'd apologize for it.

Fast forward to this year. We had some small talk and he shared with me that he has a terminal illness, which is why he isolates himself and stuff. Because I’m an empathic bitch, I felt like I needed to check in on him and ask if he was doing okay from time to time.

And guess what? The mf called me **clingy**.

I was literally like, *this nigga...*

I got a little pissed and said something sarcastic. Guess what he does? He sends a long ass paragraph saying how I am "delusional" and stuff. Even then, I was like, *okay it's fine, he's probably going through a tough time,* so I let it go. I kept sending him hopeful reels, and I even sent him a song about hope. But the fucker just kept ignoring me.

Finally, I sent a text clarifying that I wasn't trynna befriend him or be anything else—I simply meant well. And guess what he does? He tells me I shouldn't text him again.

So what did I do? I blocked his ass from everywhere. The fucker does not deserve an ounce of kindness or empathy. He should be rotting in hell for eternity for being a motherfucking asshole. Istg I wanna punch his face. Fucking assholes in the world.

**TL;DR:** Tried to be supportive and check in on an old university senior after he revealed he has a terminal illness. He rewarded my kindness by calling me clingy, calling me delusional, and being a total dick, so I blocked his ass everywhere.

Istg my blood is boiling right now. Anyway, stick around for a long a s s rant.

So, I have this senior from university who used to be a funny guy. I knew him through student societies and stuff. He was two years older than me, so he graduated, but he had a public account so I followed him there.

During the summer break after he graduated, he randomly texts me at like 5 AM asking if I'd go out on lunch with him. We had some small talk, I said no, and we didn't really talk after that. Cut to a bit later: he came to uni to meet his friends, texted me while he was there, so we talked for a bit. That was pretty much it.

But looking back, this guy clearly had some severe issues because he would be such a massive a s s hole to me sometimes, and then later on he'd apologize for it.

Fast forward to this year. We had some small talk and he shared with me that he has a terminal illness, which is why he isolates himself and stuff. Because I’m an empathic bitch, I felt like I needed to check in on him and ask if he was doing okay from time to time.

And guess what? The mf called me clingy.

I was literally like, this nig ga...

I got a little pissed and said something sarcastic. Guess what he does? He sends a long a ss paragraph saying how I am "delusional" and stuff. Even then, I was like, okay it's fine, he's probably going through a tough time, so I let it go. I kept sending him hopeful reels, and I even sent him a song about hope. But the fucker just kept ignoring me.

Finally, I sent a text clarifying that I wasn't trynna befriend him or be anything else—I simply meant well. And guess what he does? He tells me I shouldn't text him again.

So what did I do? I blocked his ass from everywhere. The fuc ker does not deserve an ounce of kindness or empathy. He should be rotting in hell for eternity for being a mot her fuc king asshole. Istg I wanna punch his face. F uck ing as sh oles in the world.

TL;DR: Tried to be supportive and check in on an old university senior after he revealed he has a terminal illness. He rewarded my kindness by calling me clingy, calling me delusional, and being a total d ic k, so I blocked his a s s everywhere.

Wearing multiple hats to a point I can create content, design creatives, edit, post on social media, strategize, handle client communications, and do business development as well😭😭

Content creation

Strategy

Social media

Campaigns

Designing

Editing

What not

But I crossed the road without looking xD

single life is the best

I genuinely feel like single life is great. Sure sometimes it feels lonely or sad but let's face it. It's extremely drama free. No need to sleep on someone else's clock. You can enjoy your company, go on solo dates and have fun while exploring life. 20s is all about getting to know yourself better and navigating through adulthood without having an identity criss or an emotional dependence on someone. To all the lovely couples stay blessed and to the single Pringles please enjoy it and don't be lonely or think you'll be better off with someone to give you happiness in life

I genuinely feel like single life is great. Sure sometimes it feels lonely or sad but let's face it. It's extremely drama free. No need to sleep on someone else's clock. You can enjoy your company, go on solo dates and have fun while exploring life. 20s is all about getting to know yourself better and navigating through adulthood without having an identity criss or an emotional dependence on someone. To all the lovely couples stay blessed and to the single Pringles please enjoy it and don't be lonely or think you'll be better off with someone to give you happiness in life

So for context I have like 4 remote jobs and a full time university so I wonder how much is life gonna change once I graduate would I feel less tired since I'm used to working 15 hours a day lol(traveling and studying included) will I be able to manage more than one job at a time? Anyway this is crazy.

Guysss i got my mom a phone for mothers day and i can't tell you how happy and emotional it makes me like wdym i can afford to buy my mom a whole ass new phone. Its a pretty samsung galaxy in Violet color and she's so happy using her new phone and all. I truly feel like I've won at life.

How how how how

I'm so tired and I can't really take a long break I have sm work

Job Description:

Basic Day to Day Tasks like scheduling, keeping track of things, reminders.

Graphic Designing

AI usage to generate good ideas and plan.

Comfortable with google sheets.

Mode of operation is remote.

Flexible Working Hours

Job security

I will teach you a couple of skills as well.

If you're interested reach out to me with a portfolio or CV/Resume

Not looking for an excuser/slacker i genuinely need someone who's eager to work and wants to learn as well.

Do not approach if you're more experienced i wouldn't want to exploit anyone for this salary and a huge experience.

How do you genuinely recover from a burn out, I can't go on a trip so :( anyway lemme know any ideas you might have, also istg all the dms i have been getting lately are more like interrogation sesh. I enjoy good conversations. I would love to talk to the girls more tho i just feel like i connect more with women. Anyhoo