I ate goulash at a restaurant and they gave me this red sauce and this white sauce. The white sauce was like a garlic but the red sauce was really spicy and tasted so good. No idea what is is but want to buy it
I don’t think there hasn’t been a day where we haven’t sent each-other photos, it’s normally in the morning when we both shower, and at night before we go to bed
Constantly talking intimate too with each other, everyday. I really enjoy it and so does she.
How often do other long distance couples do this?
Ive always had uncomfortable views on meeting my LDR parents when we eventually meet because I am a black man and they are Eastern Europeans, even though my partner has reassured me multiple times they don’t care who she dates, she has told me multiple times about the racial remarks they have made to others.
For example south asians they have been incredibly racist towards , and other Europeans like Ukrainians and her sister is incredibly racist so is her boyfriend. They have made multiple racial jokes about me calling me a tyrone etc.
I have a sister in a wheelchair, and recently my LDR has told me that her mother has made incredibly ableist remarks. Her mother doesn’t know about my sister yet but I’m extremely uncomfortable. I don’t know, I understand disabled people are incredibly oppressed but this is just making me extremely sad and stressed .
I don’t know what to do
Ive always has uncomfortable views on meeting my LDR parents when we eventually meet because I am a black man and they are Eastern Europeans, even though my partner has reassured me multiple times they don’t care who she dates, she has told me multiple times about the racial remarks they have made to others.
For example south asians they have been incredibly racist to, and other Europeans like Ukrainians and her sister is incredibly racist so is her boyfriend. They have made multiple racial jokes about me calling me a tyrone etc.
I have a sister in a wheelchair, and recently my LDR has told me that her mother has made incredibly ableist remarks. Her mother doesn’t know about my sister yet but I’m extremely uncomfortable. I don’t know, I understand disabled people are incredibly oppressed but this is just making me extremely sad and stressed .
I don’t know what to do
I want some advice on what I should know about being non binary so I can support them to the best of my abilities and just learn about being non binary and lean more into your culture. Where should I start? And is there any advice you can give me on this stuff?
My original post if you’re interested
https://www.reddit.com/r/LongDistance/s/A4APEeNzyP
Pretty much explains my entire situation and yeah, we spoke today, I told her how its all extremely fucked up basically, she apologised and just told me she couldn’t do it anymore and blocked me on everything.
Yeah 2 years rip
She told me she loved me, wishes me well and didn’t even want a response back because it would hurt her too much then yea it’s over.
She wishes me peace and realised with her family it would just be impossible
So I’ve been talking to this girl for a while now and genuinely like her. She’s been changing a lot as a person and I can see the effort she puts in. But here’s the thing her sister and the sister’s boyfriend are openly racist. We’re talking “Tyrone” jokes, racist memes, arguing about genetics, the whole thing. They’ve been like this for years.
They openly call me as a black man a “tryone” her sisters boyfriend makes racist cuck comics about black people , they are both weirdly obsessed with our bodies, they are envious but weirdly jealous and hateful towards us. The comics they make are fucking disgusting. They literally make comics about black people fucking their past relationships its so degrading and fucking weird.
My LDR (21F) used to be racist until she met me, but honestly idk what to do anymore its just weird. And I’m so weirded out. All of this racial fetishisation I don’t think id personally be safe if I met them.
And she comes to me telling me all the fuck shit her sister and her sisters boyfriend does and idk I feel like im her way of telling the world “look im not racist”
So I’ve been talking to this girl for a while now and genuinely like her. She’s been changing a lot as a person and I can see the effort she puts in. But here’s the thing her sister and the sister’s boyfriend are openly racist. We’re talking “Tyrone” jokes, racist memes, arguing about genetics, the whole thing. They’ve been like this for years.
They openly call me as a black man a “tryone” her sisters boyfriend makes racist cuck comics about black people , they are both weirdly obsessed with our bodies, they are envious but weirdly jealous and hateful towards us. The comics they make are fucking disgusting. They literally make comics about black people fucking their past relationships its so degrading and fucking weird.
My LDR (21F) used to be racist until she met me, but honestly idk what to do anymore its just weird. And I’m so weirded out. All of this racial fetishisation I don’t think id personally be safe if I met them.
And she comes to me telling me all the fuck shit her sister and her sisters boyfriend does and idk I feel like im her way of telling the world “look im not racist”
I [23M] finally get the chance to meet and be with potentially my long distance ‘partner’ [21F].
It’s gonna be really fun I’m going to experience their culture, country, city and them ofc. It’s a long flight , the other side of the continent but it’s worth it. Gonna spend maybe 3-4 days with them.
However they have told me that they don’t want to do anything physical. not going to lie, I was really looking forward to intimacy, we even sext and send each-other those types of photos a lot of days. So I felt like she was ready but I guess not. Like I’m completely fine with this but we sext so I don’t understand why she wouldn’t want to even kiss or anything. She even wanted a separate room. But now she doesn’t but at the start she wanted. Idk. She told me these past few months her hormones have been hitting too much that’s why she was really into sexting and ofc video calls and such and now that we are going to meet she has told me she felt guilt for getting my hopes up.
Ofc I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable but we have been talking for like 2 years, and can finally close the gap. I thought intimacy would be an amazing thing to make us closer and such. Like kissing , cuddling , grabbing and such . But she doesn’t want it. I don’t understand though because how she talks to me when it’s past midnight while sexting made me feel like I was wanted but now it’s like a shot in the foot. But yeah atleast I get to hang out.
I don’t want to sound like all I think of is intimate activities but it’s important in a relationship. I want to hang out with her ofc it’s gonna be so fun but I also want to do that. Like we are trying to build and I told her after this long I want to meet her. She agreed but yeah. Idk.
We are both virgins , and she is feeling really guilty currently but ofc I’ve reassured her, ofc she doesn’t owe me anything I don’t want her to feel unsafe. But I just really would want to try intimacy.
I [23M] finally get the chance to meet and be with potentially my long distance ‘partner’ [21F].
It’s gonna be really fun I’m going to experience their culture, country, city and them ofc. It’s a long flight , the other side of the continent but it’s worth it. Gonna spend maybe 3-4 days with them.
However they have told me that they don’t want to do anything physical. not going to lie, I was really looking forward to intimacy, we even sext and send each-other those types of photos a lot of days. So I felt like she was ready but I guess not. Like I’m completely fine with this but we sext so I don’t understand why she wouldn’t want to even kiss or anything. She even wanted a separate room. But now she doesn’t but at the start she wanted. Idk.
Ofc I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable but we have been talking for like 2 years, and can finally close the gap. I thought intimacy would be an amazing thing to make us closer and such. Like kissing , cuddling , grabbing and such . But she doesn’t want it. I don’t understand though because how she talks to me when it’s past midnight while sexting made me feel like I was wanted but now it’s like a shot in the foot. But yeah atleast I get to hang out.
I don’t want to sound like all I think of is intimate activities but it’s important in a relationship. I want to hang out with her ofc it’s gonna be so fun but I also want to do that. Like we are trying to build and I told her after this long I want to meet her. She agreed but yeah. Idk.
I [23M] finally get the chance to meet and be with potentially my long distance ‘partner’ [21F].
It’s gonna be really fun I’m going to experience their culture, country, city and them ofc. It’s a long flight , the other side of the continent but it’s worth it. Gonna spend maybe 3-4 days with them.
However they have told me that they don’t want to do anything physical. not going to lie, I was really looking forward to intimacy, we even sext and send each-other those types of photos a lot of days. So I felt like she was ready but I guess not. Like I’m completely fine with this but we sext so I don’t understand why she wouldn’t want to even kiss or anything. She even wanted a separate room. But now she doesn’t but at the start she wanted. Idk.
Ofc I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable but we have been talking for like 2 years, and can finally close the gap. I thought intimacy would be an amazing thing to make us closer and such. Like kissing , cuddling , grabbing and such . But she doesn’t want it. I don’t understand though because how she talks to me when it’s past midnight while sexting made me feel like I was wanted but now it’s like a shot in the foot. But yeah atleast I get to hang out.
I don’t want to sound like all I think of is intimate activities but it’s important in a relationship. I want to hang out with her ofc it’s gonna be so fun but I also want to do that. Like we are trying to build and I told her after this long I want to meet her. She agreed but yeah. Idk.
So my grandfather has lived in Germany for about 30-35 years and is a naturalized German citizen he’s not German by blood originally. My grandmother is married to him.
From what I’ve researched, it seems like the i need to look at whether my grandfather was already a naturalized German citizen before my mother was born. If he was, my mother may be able to claim German citizenship by descent. If not, the chain probably doesn’t work.
I’d like to claim citizenship through my mother if she is eligible.
Assuming my mother is eligible, she would be claiming citizenship now long after I was born which means I wouldn’t get it automatically. But from what I understand, once she successfully claims it, I can submit a separate application using the same lineage documents, just adding proof that she’s my mother. And then claim German citizenship.
Has anyone been through a similar situation claiming through a naturalized (not native-born) German grandparent? Did it work out?
I wonder what happened? Maybe a Latvian came to Nigeria 4 generations ago? I’m not sure . This was very confusing
Anyway, do you think I’m eligible for a passport? My British passport sucks
So there is this girl I’ve been talking to for about a year. I’ve known her for about 2 and she confessed feelings for me awhile back. We’re not official because we agreed to wait until we meet in person first. We sleep on calls, play games together, flirt, etc and she has admitted to liking me, and I genuinely like her too, she’s chill, has a really nice personality and I like her values.
But the problem is she lives on the other side of the continent and is basically completely controlled by her parents at 21 years old. Can’t leave the house alone unless she lies saying she is out with friends, can’t fly or travel and can’t even go to the local shop by herself. I’m willing to pay for everything to make a meetup happen but she refuses to take my money because she’s determined to be financially independent and doesn’t want to depend on a “man”. Even simple stuff like I wanna play a game with her she will reject it because she doesn’t want my money she wants her own money.
I just want to be with her, see her etc. genuinely be close to her. I mean the flirting and sleep calls are good but still I want to be with her , and I could literally make it happen tomorrow it’s just her situation, her parents are crazy controlling and I genuinely don’t know what to do. I’ve been patient for a year but there’s no timeline, no plan, nothing concrete.
But I’m starting to feel like no matter how much I care about her, the situation is just impossible right now. And I don’t want to hurt her because she’s already insecure about not being able to even go outside without her parents going crazy.
I tell her just rebel, because freedom is taken never given but she won’t do that. I would come to see her but her city is so out of the way, there is no direct only 1-2 stop planes which have 10 hour delays. So I could buy her tickets to her capital city or to any city in Europe to come and see me but she just wont accept, even if she did she probably couldn’t with her parents.
She has told me many times that she doesn’t want to be a burden or me to wait etc and I would it’s just maybe we could restart it in 2 years or something? Idk. I like her but there is no timeline and I want to be with her now.
Do I keep waiting or do I let her go? I just idk . Want to be with her . And I want an actual relationship. Be with her. I could literally come see her every 2-3 months . I would like that so much. She says how she wants to see me she just wants to make her own money and buy the own ticket.
So there is this girl I’ve been talking to for about a year. I’ve known her for about 2 and she confessed feelings for me awhile back. We’re not official because we agreed to wait until we meet in person first. We sleep on calls, play games together, flirt, etc and she has admitted to liking me, and I genuinely like her too, she’s chill, has a really nice personality and I like her values.
But the problem is she lives on the other side of the continent and is basically completely controlled by her parents at 21 years old. Can’t leave the house alone unless she lies saying she is out with friends, can’t fly or travel and can’t even go to the local shop by herself. I’m willing to pay for everything to make a meetup happen but she refuses to take my money because she’s determined to be financially independent and doesn’t want to depend on a “man”. Even simple stuff like I wanna play a game with her she will reject it because she doesn’t want my money she wants her own money.
I just want to be with her, see her etc. genuinely be close to her. I mean the flirting and sleep calls are good but still I want to be with her , and I could literally make it happen tomorrow it’s just her situation, her parents are crazy controlling and I genuinely don’t know what to do. I’ve been patient for a year but there’s no timeline, no plan, nothing concrete.
But I’m starting to feel like no matter how much I care about her, the situation is just impossible right now. And I don’t want to hurt her because she’s already insecure about not being able to even go outside without her parents going crazy.
I tell her just rebel, because freedom is taken never given but she won’t do that. I would come to see her but her city is so out of the way, there is no direct only 1-2 stop planes which have 10 hour delays. So I could buy her tickets to her capital city or to any city in Europe to come and see me but she just wont accept, even if she did she probably couldn’t with her parents.
She has told me many times that she doesn’t want to be a burden or me to wait etc and I would it’s just maybe we could restart it in 2 years or something? Idk. I like her but there is no timeline and I want to be with her now.
Do I keep waiting or do I let her go? I just idk . Want to be with her . And I want an actual relationship. Be with her. I could literally come see her every 2-3 months . I would like that so much. She says how she wants to see me she just wants to make her own money and buy the own ticket.