Female Coworker Interactions
Occasionally we'll pass by each other sometimes there is a "hello" or "excuse me" when we cross paths. There have been a couple times when we held the door for each other. The first time she sort of giggled because I was a few steps behind her and I rushed up to the door so she wasn't waiting for me to catch up. Another time, I held the same door open for her. And lately, she will avoid eye contact with me as we cross paths. Which is strange because in one of those interactions I walked right in front of her trying to make eye contact with her and greet her. But she averted her eyes down. But in the same scenario we crossed paths twice, and she said "excuse me".
Another interaction in the same day, I was 100% in her line of sight and she completely ignored as she walked by. But it turns out we were going to the same place. So I ran into her again while she was pushing a cart through. I held the door open for her as I greeted her. She completely averted her eyes. And I'm 99% sure there was not even a thank you. Her response to my greeting was so generically, ice cold. But the next day, another male coworker held open a door for her and she greeted him warmly with a giggly smile. And I've been with the company longer and have known her longer and she's never been that friendly since the time she giggled holding the door for me a few years ago. A couple days before that I've been trying to be more outgoing and say "hi" to her as I see her. Which seems to be having the opposite reaction.
What am I doing wrong here? I've seen her be friendly to other people. But she's acting like I took the jam out of her donut.